Reply #43: Tying it in with emo is not trivializing it

[lapislzi]

Cutting is undeniably a facet of emo subculture. That statement is not intended to trivialize the pain people legitimately feel. There is a need, however, for parents and others, to place this behavior in a context.

And yes, the profile is similar to that of the ED. Again, not intended to trivialize, but to see within a context. Cutting is happening now; meet the new boss, same as the old boss. Same pain, new way of dealiing. Not trivializing--just trying to understand.

You are right that it is a maladaptive coping mechanism, but for the record, I would say it's better than some I've seen.

I am sorry for your pain. There's nothing trivial about cutting, and I hope you were able to get the help you needed (and glad you're not working at Arby's!)