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Froward69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-06-09 06:50 PM
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10. I seriously do not understand
Edited on Fri Mar-06-09 06:55 PM by Froward69
Why it takes a child, to convince women to leave their abusers. Why is it they cannot save themselves? Lastly why do women pass up nice guys like me to be with those abusers in the first place?

I would like to have a family (of my own) not an inherited one, where I have to deal with the Biologic father. That in itself erodes the love/respect I had for her Before she left me for him. now that she is coming around again. If she did not have that child and thus was able to be totally free from the abuser. It then makes it easier for our relationship to flourish.

(I have a similar current situation)

I guess abuse is like drug addiction or alcoholism. one has to reach rock bottom before one seeks a way out.
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