Reply #53: What does NY have to do with it?

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Yes it is NJ. And yes, there are ethical standards that any case workers should be following. Telling a woman to have sex with her husband and telling her husband what her plans for divorce are, is plainly unethical. And you can't tell anything about what I know from a couple of posts here. As I've said, I know this family very well. She hasn't hit her kids previously, and while you are needlessly worried about this "kid", the mother is the one in danger here. After being cleared by the psychiatrists and alcohol and drug counselors, her case should be closed. This is obviously not about the kids, or it would be. It is about a power trip that this guy is on over her life, and also about how DYFS makes it's money. Maybe you should educate yourself in the system here a bit more before you presume to know more than I do.