Reply #189: You're preaching to the choir here -

[TBF]

and as I stated in my previous post I do not wish to discuss the previous abusive relationship I was in.

But I stand by my answer - she is married to a judge and thus has resources. She could've taken the girl to the hospital, called the police from there, etc ... Instead she participates in the abuse. Sorry, but that is too much for me to excuse.