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plgoldsmith Donating Member (35 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 01:14 PM
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What It's Really All About
What It’s Really All About
Patricia Goldsmith

I still don’t think of myself as married, even though it’s been nearly three years since Karen and I tied the knot in a little gay-owned bed and breakfast in Vancouver, British Columbia. I have to admit that I’ve always been one of those who feel that not having to get married or join the army are two great perks of being gay. But with the country’s rightward tilt tending toward out and out fascism, we decided we wanted to get married as a political statement.

As it turned out, it was an unexpectedly emotional experience for both of us. We chose traditional vows: for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. The commissioner who performed the service was warm and friendly, and two lovely women who were friends of friends (and are now friends in their own right) served as our witnesses.

Talking afterwards to our Canadian friends, the commissioner, and the owner of the bed and breakfast, though, we were surprised to hear from all of them that gay Canadians aren’t nearly as interested in marriage as Americans. Part of it was that they simply don’t feel as attacked as their American counterparts. In fact, when the http://www.thenation.com/doc/20061127/hedges">conservative new prime minister, Stephen Harper, put gay marriage to the test in Parliament again last year, as he had promised, it actually got http://www.equal-marriage.ca/resource.php?id=538">more votes than when it came up the first time.

But I think the bigger factor in gay Canadians’ relative indifference to marriage is Canada’s universal health care system. Here in the states, the most devastating consequence of the anti-marriage equality amendments sweeping the country is the potential loss of health insurance for domestic partners and their children. As Karen’s domestic partner, I have been covered under her insurance policy for over a decade. I’m now in my early fifties, and I can tell you that I do not want to even contemplate the prospect of finding my own insurance at this stage of life.

But it looks a lot of people are going to have to do just that. Recently, courts in my home state of Michigan have ruled that the anti-gay marriage amendment passed in 2004 forbids public institutions from offering domestic partner benefits. If this ruling stands, it will spread to all the other states that have voted for these amendments, and countless people will lose their health insurance. People being treated for cancer. Children with asthma. People with all sorts of pre-existing conditions who need regular treatment and drugs.

Imagine how you’d feel if you woke up to find that the people of your state had voted to revoke <i>your</i> health insurance.

Come to think of it, you don’t really have to imagine, because George Bush and the GOP are working hard to do just that at this very moment. In his State of the Union address, GWB proposed a tax-credit health care initiative that would destroy our current employer-based healthcare system. If passed, it would allow—or even encourage—employers to drop health care benefits for employees, on the grounds that people would be able to obtain it on the open market with their tax credits.

How does that sound?

Bush bases his radical proposal on the extremely dubious claim that over-use of insurance is to blame for rising health-care costs. In fact, using insurance for check-ups, mammograms, colonoscopies, and other regular screening protocols helps prevent health disasters and saves money in the long run—if you count the cost to society and not just to the insurance industry.

What most commentaries on this plan fail to mention, however, is that it would also slash Social Security benefits, killing two benefits with one stone. As http://www.prospect.org/deanbaker/">economist Dean Baker explains in his blog of February 3, 2007: “ . . . the Bush plan refunds Social Security tax payments on the first $15k of wages for workers who have a family insurance policy. For a worker earning $20k a year, this would mean most of their SS taxes would be refunded, but they would also see their benefits cut by close to 60 percent when they retire.” (My emphasis.)

You might think Bush’s plan has little chance of passing, and you’d be right, but that isn’t the only attack on heterosexual health insurance that’s being launched as we speak. The drastic Medicare and Medicaid cuts proposed in GWB’s 2008 budget actually amount to a phase-out of Medicare. Once again, Dean Baker gives the context and the full implications of the GOP plan.

According to Baker’s blog entry of February 11, media accounts have failed to show just how much money families currently receive from Medicare and Medicaid: “Medicare and Medicaid spending come to about “8,300 for a family of four in 2007, and $11,300 for a family of four in 2012. In other words, this is real money.”

But the more important point (covered in Baker’s blog entry for February 4) has to do with Bush’s proposal to change rules on indexing Medicare’s means-testing cut-offs. By dropping the index, more and more people over time will face a means test for their benefits, until eventually everyone is paying full price for what was once a government-subsidized program designed to help keep senior citizens, widows, orphans, and the disabled from falling into poverty as a result of health-care costs.

I’d like to think that if people understood this connection, they wouldn’t be quite so quick to vote their neighbors’ benefits out of existence. In the last election, http://www.azcentral.com/specials/special12//articles/0727domestic-partner27.html">Arizona seemed to prove just that. Activists there waged a campaign based on loss of benefits, and the measure went down.

Even though a majority of people favor universal health care in this country, special interests, specifically the trillion-dollar insurance and pharmaceutical industries, have managed to prevent it. Amendments against gay marriage distract us from our common interest and divide us from potential allies in this all-important battle.

It’s time to spread the word that this is a fight we can win if we all work together. Because taking care of each other is what it’s really all about.

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Straight Shooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 02:37 PM
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1. "Taking care of each other is really what it's all about."
Edited on Tue Feb-13-07 02:38 PM by Straight Shooter
Not to the GOP it isn't. Their mantra is IGMFU.

Excellent post. I'll have to study a bit more about these proposals so I can explain them to people who don't see a problem with what bush is proposing.

I'm self-employed, and currently am trying to figure out how to get health insurance I can afford. Problem is, if I get the health insurance, I may not be able to afford repairs on my 15-year-old car or my home, even with a high deductible and high co-payments. The high cost of insurance will also prevent me from saving sufficiently for my retirement. So, even if I can pay premiums now, I won't be able to afford insurance later when I'm most likely to need it. Also, I need to save money now to supplement my Social Security payments (which will probably be slashed, also). I doubt if there will be any safety net for health care when I've retired.

What a vicious circle.
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wilt the stilt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 02:46 PM
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2. Republicans love the idea of the poorhouse
They have always hated social security and medicare. They think the idea of old people eating dog food is great. It's punishment for not making enough money.
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blue neen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 02:49 PM
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3. Everything this administration does is to distract us from the real issues.
Edited on Tue Feb-13-07 03:34 PM by blue neen
Universal health care is so important to us all. Our health care system is completely broken.

Thanks for your post. It made me think about some things I hadn't realized before.
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shaniqua6392 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 04:42 PM
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4. Very enlightening post!
Thank you! I am from Michigan too. Sometimes I feel like they are trying to kill us all off. They don't care if we die of some disease because we have no health insurance.
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AnnieBW Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 05:45 PM
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5. It is all about health care
Even for straight people. My husband and I got married a few months earlier than our scheduled wedding because he lost his health care. We went to the JP and got married, just so he could get on my health care.

I agree with you. That's the real reason that they don't want gays to marry.
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Canuckistanian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 08:31 PM
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6. Nice tie-in from GLBT issues to health care
On health care, the capitalists have one thing VERY wrong. The "free market" doesn't benefit anyone outside of insurance and pharmaceutical companies for basic services.

The ideal system (so I've heard) is in France, where private and government services combine their efficiencies to provide the most effective health care.

But the key point is, government should NEVER be eliminated as the source of basic health care - check-ups, minor problems, advice, etc.
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wiley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 09:55 PM
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8. Actually, corporations love the inevitable subsidies they get
when they somehow can't get around to covering anyone but the super-healthy, young,and not likely to get sick.Litmus tests (such as pre-existing conditions and family history) help them to further refine the insurance companies actuarial bible.

You are so right.
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blasphemousinner Donating Member (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 09:30 PM
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7. I'm gay and I live in Michigan as well.
In 2004 I was 17, my birthday just around the corner in January. I remember after the election that one friend of mine in one of my classes, also gay, just ignited. He almost turned violent, totally freaking out.

When everyone asked what he was so upset about, he just looked at the whiny conservative kids who talked about Gay Rights frivolously with all of his anger and said, "Ten out of the eleven states that passed these bills also voted for Bush. TEN OUT OF ELEVEN! This isn't some mistake or statistic... this is people like you saying 'Fuck you... we could care less about you people.' And you got what you want... all this idle talk and you got what you wanted."

He just broke down crying. I still have that etched in my memory because he seemed so far past consolation. I didn't even speak about it, I felt so defeated. 2004 was an awful year for me, and it became an awful precedent for all of America. As a gay person, it really created so much disillusionment and anger after I've dealt with so much already. It might seem unfair, but it's something no straight person could ever understand.

A lot of people scoff at that idea, but straight people don't usually deal with repressing their own sexuality out of fear and self-hatred. They don't usually have to deal with the fear of death, lynching, getting the crap kicked out of them for simply liking the opposite sex or being shunned by various groups that held them dearly before coming of age.

Straight people are the majority and have no complete understanding of what we go through and likewise they are the deciders for all of "us" who wouldn't have chosen or wanted this way of life. The only reason we ever come out in the first place is because we can't resist it. If we could, it could stay buried forever out of convenience and ease.

We don't have the power of numbers like African Americans did, there aren't enough of us. We don't have a bigger megaphone than the churches and don't even have a church of our own to use as a megaphone. We have no way of organizing other than small parades that usually reinforce stereotypes more than fight them.

I wonder so often, with all of these issues, how in the world can we ever possibly overcome such hatred?
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BobTheSubgenius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-14-07 01:06 AM
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10. I can't even put it into words.
How infuriated, stunned, outraged - and when I can summon up the detachment - bemused I am at how callously a government, a society, (or at least too large a segment of it) can dismiss entire classes of THEIR OWN CITIZENS!! If I had a God, I'd invoke the name.

If governance isn't about looking after the people, what the hell is it? In years past, I often used to feel I was a child of a lesser nation.

But sometimes, Canada get some things right.
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plgoldsmith Donating Member (35 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-14-07 11:52 AM
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15. Hang in there!
One thing we have going for us is that we are born to heterosexuals. Unlike blacks who can be segregated, we grow up with straight people, and they are our allies. My family is Democratic but pretty religious--not gay-friendly when I was growing up (although I didn't come out until college). But over the years, they have changed. My Mom is totally supportive, and so was my Dad--in fact, the whole extended family has come a long way. There is hope!

And the other thing is to tie our struggle to everyone's struggle--they are connected. I think a lot of people do believe in fairness just for its own sake, which is more powerful than even being born gay or black or whatever.

It gets better, Blasphemoussinner, just hang on.
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NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-13-07 11:57 PM
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9. WOW!!! Just WOW!!!
Edited on Tue Feb-13-07 11:59 PM by NanceGreggs
An incredibly well-written piece, articulately underlining not only the cause-and-effect of denying health insurance to same-sex partners -- but denying access to health care to any citizen.

Taking care of each other -- it's not just a matter of what is just and fair; it's a matter of what is moral and right.

Thank you so much, plg -- not only for the your insight, but your ability to frame it so beautifully!

Forgot to add: Welcome to DU!
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plgoldsmith Donating Member (35 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-14-07 11:53 AM
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16. Thank YOU
You're very kind--it means a lot coming from you. I'm a big fan of your rants!
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BobTheSubgenius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-14-07 01:10 AM
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11. Sorry.
I meant to Reply to the original post, but I'm not unhappy with where it ended up, despite my mistake.
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ProudDad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-14-07 03:04 AM
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12. Don't give up on Health Care
In california we can work for SB840 - the Single Payer Health Care plan that passed both houses last year and that the Groppensteroidenfuhrer vetoed but that Sheila Kuehl will be re-introducing this year. We've got to go up to Sacto and pound on their f*ckin desks.

In the House it's HR676 -- Conyer's Medicare for All bill...
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intaglio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-14-07 03:06 AM
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13. Congratulations!
May you enjoy many more years together, you've made me feel all sappy.

On this business of Medicare/Medicaid I really hope that the US gets a President with the nerve to face down the insurance/pharma lobby.


PS I was going to say "On the serious busines ...." then I realised - love is far more serious than the affairs of bean counters.
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Doondoo Donating Member (843 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-14-07 05:31 AM
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14. K&R
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