DU Gay Women: What attributes are foremost in attracting you to a woman?

[Misunderestimator]

For me:

Humor
Compassion
Intellect
Sensuality
Beautiful eyes
Voluptuous breasts (ok, I can be base too)
A body I can really feel against me without breaking it
Someone shorter than me

That's the short list. :)

[Maestro]

1. That's a great list and I am not gay but we agree

;) It describes my wife. Sorry for interrupting the thread.

[Misunderestimator]

2. Cool... then you must have a lovely wife.

and hot... :evilgrin:

[Maestro]

9. Watch it!

You're getting my testosterone levels rising...;)

[Misunderestimator]

10. Then it will be all the more enjoyable...

when you don't break your wife tonight... :)

[JanMichael]

3. Ex Surfers,

and sports car convertibles...

Yeah! I am on Michael's name again!

btw...I meant to respond to your post about being excited about July...I am excited for you! ;)

Stephanie

[Misunderestimator]

4. LOL...

cute... and thanks :)

[eyesroll]

5. Bah! I started a similar thread (and one for men/men, too)

Trying to be a good Libra and all that.
The men's thread's got replies, but the women one sank like a stone.
I'll kick yours up instead, since you've got more business asking than I do anyway.

And, though not gay, I'll add my $.02, although it's 100% physical (in stark contrast to my comments on the women/men thread), as I've never attempted to court/be courted by a woman and so far it's just admiration from afar (which, if you recall, is quite new in itself.) So, it's more of a "who I noticed at the co-op yesterday" answer than anything else -- but it's what I've got.

I've been noticing women who are around my height, or maybe even shorter (I'm 5'2"). Dark hair seems to be a theme, as does glasses. As do nose and/or eyebrow piercings, even though I've never really been partial to them before. Quirky or cute, rather than hot.

I suspect, if I was looking for a relationship, the same qualities I'd look for in a man I'd be looking for in a woman -- fierce intellect (Lydia Leftcoast called it "omnivorous"), a passion for something, a lack of sexual puritanism....and glasses....Dunno.

Sorry if I'm coming off as a major poseur here -- tryin' to keep up with all them "heteroflexible" cool kids and whatnot. ;-)

[Misunderestimator]

7. Oops... I missed your thread :)

though I did see the man one...

and being a heteroflexible cool kid is a cool thing :)

[eyesroll]

11. Hee hee...

That's because my thread sank quick.

I just hate all these cutesey trendy terms -- I hate "bicurious" more, even though it's probably accurate.

[slinkerwink]

6. all of those on your list....but for me, it's a beautiful smile

My knees weaken if a cute woman lobs a beautiful smile my way.

[Misunderestimator]

8. I didn't put that?

Darn. And you're right on that one.

[slinkerwink]

26. oh, and I need a taller woman....

ha, I prefer to be kissed by a taller woman than by a shorter woman which should be no feat since I'm 5"1.

[Misunderestimator]

27. There's something to be said for...

the face lining up nicely with the breasts... It's a good thing you're not into shorter women :)

[slinkerwink]

28. please don't mention the b-word

:evilgrin:

[Bertha Venation]

12. "Someone shorter than me" -- that begs the question . . .

Are you taller than 5'4"?

[Misunderestimator]

13. Yep...

add 5"

[Bertha Venation]

16. . . . .

:wow:

and those eyes . . . . too bad I didn't bring a change of p-

oops

Good thing I've got my tall, unbreakable, funny, compassionate, tarp-as-a-shack hillbilly woman, with whom I am deeply in love, to go home to tonight.

(What? Feeling guilty about flirting? Who, me?!)

[Misunderestimator]

19. LOL... She sounds like a wonderful woman...

And bah on the flirting... it's cute. :)

[Bertha Venation]

22. She is indeed, and she doesn't mind that I flirt.

In fact, I miss flirting. I used to be in a GLBT/friendly chorus. Rehearsal wasn't a success for me unless I left someone blushing.

[LynneSin]

14. Well you can scratch me off your list

I'm 5'10"

[Misunderestimator]

15. Skeeeeeratched!

Dang... one down. :)

[LynneSin]

17. Well, I was on the wrong team anyways

:shrug:

[Misunderestimator]

18. Yeah... what ARE you doing posting to a Lesbian thread...

huh? Still jonesing for that toaster?

[LynneSin]

29. But you folks are so much fun to have fun with

And honestly I do need to buy a new toaster. My toaster won't keep the bread down unless I hold down the lever the whole time. But I'll buy one from my own hard earned cash

[Misunderestimator]

30. YOU FOLKS!!!

OMG.... ROFLMAO... TOO FUNNY!

:bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce:

[LynneSin]

31. I could have said "you guys"

but i'm sure I would have been flamed for refering to you gals as 'guys'

I just can't win

:shrug:

[Misunderestimator]

32. Nope you can't....

that's what you get for posting in a lesbian thread, you. :)

[LynneSin]

33. that's it, I'm putting all lesbians and lesbian wannabes on ignore

:P

They don't wanna play nice with me

:cry:

[Misunderestimator]

34. Then you won't have ANY fun...

we all know better... :)

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

20. Loyalty

The eyes
sensuality
a brain
a heart
long legs
being community oriented
and a long pretty neck (love to kiss them)

(oh...and while we all sometimes have a past to overcome...it's always nice if they've already handled the "my parents shoved me in the glove box when I was 9 and that's why I am sexually suppressed" story)

[Misunderestimator]

21. Yeah, that's for a "least important attributes" thread...

Definitely NO baggage that hasn't even freaking been opened in years.

[JanMichael]

23. You have it!

I will always be loyal to you!

(yeah. it's me. Michael's at work.)

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

24. Oh and being cute helps too!

:loveya:

[soothsayer]

25. I'll add competence (at anything, really)

Very sexy.

[Insider]

35. character/integrity

strength (emotional & physical)
compassion
nice smile (healthy teeth)
cleanliness
law enforcement uniform

(almost any combination of other physical attributes is just fine)

Meet Officer Friendly.

[Misunderestimator]

36. LOL.... Law enforcement uniform...

that is TOO funny... LMAO :)

[Insider]

38. you got one?

huh? do you? :D

how about this: names. you made me think about them. apparently, i love the names.
giselle, ursula, heather, lelia, lelah, carla

[Misunderestimator]

39. Nope...

not at the moment. :)

[Lex]

37. Okay, here's my list

Wit
Intellect and curiosity
Progressive politics
Energy
No body hangups
Kissable lips
Sexy eyes