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This must be a week of stupid relatives :
I don't mean to be rude but I find it hard to talk to my mom because I have a lot to get off of my chest . Now I know what it means with " misery loves company " . Nothing but absolute bad news comes from her . She always is trying to tell someone else what they need to do with their life when her life is going to hell . She is mean to everyone at work and then wonders why no one wants to go for drinks after work . She acts like only she can have a bad day . And as soon as she sees you stumble for a nanosecond , she swoops down like the depressing witch of the East and says " nanananananana " . That is damn stupid . Her financial situation should be better than what is is . She has a husband ( not my father ) who is cheating on her with the next door neighbor and he does not help her with any bills in the house . Everyone in the neighborhood sees them together . Even my grandmother has seen it and told her many times . I really don't care anymore ...
I basically moved far away to a foreign country to get away from it all . No matter whenever I called , it was always a sob story . Stupid me I am the only one that listens . And today I am sick of listening . She knows what she has to do . She did not talk to me while I was here in NC , so I left . ( What the hell did I ever do ? ) And then while I was overseas , she would call me crying saying " I cry in front of your picture weepfucketyweepweepweep . " So like an idiot , I came back . Bad move . And now that I am here , she does not talk to me . She chases people who don't give a damn about her and frankly I have lost all the care in the world . I am living my own life . I want to be happy . Damn that ... She is still dealing with issues from childhood . There are counselors out there to talk to . Everybody has an issue and everybody has a story . Basically , I am totally opposite , I am a listener and I am very heartwarming . She is very cold and isolated and because of that I did not recieve many hugs growing up . I tell people that I basically raised myself because sometimes I really think that I am adopted . I am more outgoing and I am always happy no matter what . I went through more in 5 years than what people go through in a lifetime . Since 1999 I have faced manic depression , panic anxiety attacks , my kidneys failed on me twice , and I was beaten up badly by my ex-boyfriend . And I got up from all of that - I changed my situation . She is going through a crappy marriage for no damn reason , she is not getting anything out of it . How do you call it a marriage when you don't even kiss , hug , talk nor do you sleep in the same room . She pays for everything around the house . The wear and tear on her face shows everyday . I don't know what to say , I just don't care . If she wants to continue living sadly , thats her business . But when its in your face what you need to do to change your life and you ignore , I think its idiotic .
Forgive me God for not caring anymore , but there is nothing I can say anymore . I am 24 years old now , I don't feel like repeating words that I have been saying since I was 6 and 7 years old . Damn ...
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