I miss my husband/boyfriend

[Th1onein]

Oh damn. I know he was a piece of shit, but I still miss him. It's been four months. Piece of shit, piece of shit, etc., etc. Fine. I get that, but what do you do about this missing him thing?

[MnFats]

1. keep moving. idle hands..well, keep occupied so you don't mope.

spend time with old friends, or make some new ones.
from experience, i can tell you that if you DO STUFF the ache may not go away but it's easier to cope with.

[Dave Reynolds]

2. Well, this sounds trite,

but from my own experience it really DOES get better, a little bit every day. You might not notice the change from one day to the next, but you'll go just a little bit longer without thinking about him.

Hang in there.

[imenja]

3. both of them?