Am I pussy whipped?

[giant_robot]

Earlier today:

Me: Oh, by the way, I owe my family in Pennsylvania a visit, so I'm going to be away for a couple of days starting Wednesday.

Her: Make it Thursday. I want to spend the evening with you before you go away.

Me: OK

Maybe it's just me, but I felt a little bit p-whipped after that exchange. Opinions?

[Teaser]

1. You ain't whipped

if you're actually getting some.

[fleabert]

2. nothing wrong with hearing:

Make it Thursday. I want to >have sex< with you before you go away.

:-) LoL, That's what's fun about relationships, all the, well, FUN!

[giant_robot]

4. Wow, well when you put it that way,

it doesn't seem that bad at all! :P

[Huckebein the Raven]

3. I wish I had your problem

Sigh....

[Spinzonner]

5. Why - does your cat manipulate you too ?

[giant_robot]

6. As a matter of fact...I think he does...

aside from considering me to be warm-blooded furniture, I think he also considers me the large-pink-hairless-thing-that-brings-him-food.

[khashka]

7. You are SO deluded

Whipped is:

Her: Get your fat ass off the couch and clean your whiskers out of the bathroom sink, slob!

You: Yes, dear!


However:

"I want to spend the evening with you before you go away." Is either girl talk for "get your kit off and I'll race you to the bedroom" or "I'm gonna miss you and just want to hang out and and cuddle up" - either one a major winner.

Get with the program, dude!

Khash.

[Spinzonner]

8. Don't think so

The first is Hen-pecked

[giant_robot]

9. I agree, I'll probably be the winner either way, but...

...it shocks me that she changed my plans by a day, just like *that* (snaps fingers) and I went along with it without missing a beat. Most of my friends would be ashamed of me. Then again, most of my friends are sitting alone on some bar stool, making that *wha-tooosh* pussy-whip sound at me.

[imenja]

10. If you like spending time with her, I don't see the problem

It's only an issue when you really want to be doing something else.

[giant_robot]

11. I think I'm more shocked at myself than anything else...

...because I really DO want to be with her. Maybe it hit home this time because she intervened in plans concerning my family. I dunno. :shrug:

[imenja]

14. shocked that you like her so much?

Realize how lucky you are to find that kind of connection with someone and don't fight it. That's my two cents.

[khashka]

12. Life is full of choices

You could have said "no I'm sorry, I'd love to stay that extra night but I can't" or "I'll do what I want, bitch, and you shut your mouth!" or "I won't go at all, honey sweetheart dearest, if you don't want me to". She did not change your plans, my old son, you did. 'Fess up.

So, a compromise. Not a bad one. Life is full of compromises.

And your friends are sitting alone, as you say. But you know which side of the bed you're bettered on.

If you wanna play the macho game, though.... they're sittin' in bars alone and you've got a gal begging you for one more night. If you wanna get crude here... who's the better cocksman? The better lover, the guy that the girl's gonna make an issue of keeping just a little bit longer (even though she knows you're coming back)?

You definitely win on this one.

(Actually, I have this sneaking suspicion that they ragged you a little and now you're just bragging a little :))

Khash.

[giant_robot]

15. You're a wise one!

I really don't mind, either way. I think I'm more shocked at myself.

[NewJeffCT]

16. not exactly

Being whipped is:

Him: Oh, by the way, I owe my family in Pennsylvania a visit, so I'm going to be away for a couple of days starting Wednesday.

Her: No, we're going to visit my family.

Him: OK

[LostInAnomie]

13. If you really wanted to go see your family on Wednesday...

... but her saying "go on Thursday" made you instantly change your mind, then yes.

If you really didn't care which day you went, and getting a little action sounded better than going, then no.

Either way though it sounds like you are in for some fun on Wednesday.

[ScreamingMeemie]

17. No. You are just loved sweetie!

That's a sweet exchange. :hi:

[BiggJawn]

18. You call THAT "pussywhipped"? *I'LL* tell you about pussy-whipping...

"Now, when my friends come over, I want you to stay back in the corner and just keep that shit coming off that grill. Don't talk to anyone about that boring geek shit you talk about because nobody gives a fuck about that and it embarrasses me....Now say 'Yes, dear' and I'll give you a blow job later..."

"Yes, Dear"

THAT'S "Pussy-Whipped"...