i need a little advice (regarding relationships)

[LastKnight]

ok, well... as i have been complaining about the last few days around here... i have recently been dumped. everything was going fine until one night she just had decided she had enough of me. i dont get it... she had been going through some problems in the rest of her personal life that has her really confused. but i didnt think it was that bad. this is a long distance relationship situation, so not like i can just show up at her house and ask to talk to her. i had planned to make the 5 hour drive to see her this weekend but on tuesday she abruptly broke it off. i was gonna call her tonight and try to get my plans back on for the weekend. try and see if she will have me back. but i dont know what to say... really. or how to approach it.

now... we're college students, so i dont know if i should even call her tonight and try - or wait until school starts, what say you wise DUers? and im probably gonna call her in a half hour here, what should i say?

thanks in advance.

-LK

[hippiechick]

1. I say ...

DON'T ASK FOR RELATIONSHIP ADVICE ON AN INTERNET MESSAGE BOARD ! That has backfired more times than you can imagine around here.

Talk to people in your real lives who know you both, and know WTF is going on between you.

Good luck. :hug:

[nini]

2. Let it go and move on

A real relationship will not give you any doubts as to what the other one feels about you. You will know it. There will be no f'ing head games going on.

I say this as someone who did all the stupid things we do trying to find that right person. When I finally did it was like an epiphany. I finally knew it deep in my gut what it meant to really have 'that' connection with another and have no doubts at all how he feels about me. For the first time I don't obsess about loyalty etc.. I KNOW he's as in to me as I am to him.

Trust me.. you'll know.

Good luck.

[Floogeldy]

3. Don't call her.

Don't be a beggar. Make her wonder why you haven't called.

If she calls you, just pretend like you are having a great time.

She made her bed, now she can SLEEP IN IT!

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