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arewethereyet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:41 PM Original message |
Bitch Slap - I have a problem with this |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:43 PM Response to Original message |
1. Agreed. Many of us hate the term and would request others |
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arewethereyet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:44 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I'm glad that this experssion DOES shock you |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:49 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. It doesn't shock me. I expect it. |
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DUreader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:43 PM Response to Original message |
2. Don't smear women, don't smear hip hop |
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JustJoe (535 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:45 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. It's acceptable |
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arewethereyet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:47 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. OK, but is it right ? |
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JustJoe (535 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. No. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:51 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. No but that was the justification for it being acceptable |
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economic justice (776 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 12:13 AM Response to Reply #2 |
25. Don't smear hip hop????? |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
7. Too bad you are too old |
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Dookus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:51 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. exactly... |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 01:10 AM Response to Reply #11 |
27. I have also looked it up and suggest you do the same |
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Dookus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:19 AM Response to Reply #27 |
33. No offense... |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:29 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. "None taken..." |
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Dookus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:33 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. No, of course not... |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:39 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. That's not what it means around here |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:05 AM Response to Reply #41 |
65. Yes it is offensive |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:27 AM Response to Reply #27 |
72. That definition is correct. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 11:28 PM Response to Reply #7 |
21. Yep. I hate both terms, too. |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 06:38 PM Response to Reply #7 |
47. That's how I understand it too... it's the girl doing the slapping |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 07:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
54. After Monica came out, Hillary Bitch-Slapped Bill |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:07 AM Response to Reply #54 |
66. yes, as if women had no better thing to do than stand around slapping |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:16 AM Response to Reply #7 |
69. I beg to differ. The difference is in the manner of slapping. |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
8. The term has an ambiguous meaning |
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arewethereyet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:59 PM Response to Reply #8 |
17. OK, I said I was an old fart |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
12. You have bitch slapped me out of using mysogynist terminology |
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October (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:55 PM Response to Original message |
13. Many of us loathe this terminology |
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BackDoorMan (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 12:36 AM Response to Reply #13 |
26. Yes, it is simply terminology... |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
14. I feel the same way about |
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tkmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
15. Just checking in my opinion |
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WhoCountsTheVotes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
16. I thought "Bitch Slap" was what a Classic Hollywood Bitch did |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 01:42 AM Response to Reply #16 |
30. That's what I thought, too... |
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Piperay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 04:43 AM Response to Reply #16 |
61. That is the way |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
18. how bout 'pimp slap' |
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arewethereyet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 11:04 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. pimps deserve whatever unpleasantness that comes their way |
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Red_Storm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 06:52 PM Response to Reply #20 |
49. don't hate the player, hate the game ............ |
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arewethereyet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 12:37 AM Response to Reply #49 |
56. pimps are not players |
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Red_Storm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 01:22 AM Response to Reply #56 |
57. errmmm.........not glorifying.........just a little humor..... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:17 AM Response to Reply #18 |
70. See post 69 |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
19. I sure would like to bitch-slap Bush! |
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BackDoorMan (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 12:11 AM Response to Reply #19 |
24. Here, here! |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 01:14 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. I'm a woman who "understands the venacular" |
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BackDoorMan (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 01:40 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. So as it's used so often towards men on this forum... |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:24 AM Response to Reply #29 |
34. I have a problem with all gender-specific expressions of violence |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:13 AM Response to Reply #24 |
68. no it is not meant to insult women, but it does |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-15-03 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
22. I have a really foul mouth, but I never use the phrase |
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Nlighten1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
23. Did someone say...bitchslap? |
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DrWeird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 01:44 AM Response to Original message |
31. To bitch slap = to slap like a bitch |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:17 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. while I've always taken it |
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Dookus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:27 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Let me posit another view..... |
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DrWeird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:34 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. Actually it's been happening for decades. |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 06:23 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. I don't think it can't be part of mainstream culture |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:35 AM Response to Reply #35 |
73. yes but is that not an insult to AA people |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:34 AM Response to Reply #31 |
39. You mean this Hip Hop culture? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:39 AM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Deleted message |
Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:47 AM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Give me a break |
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arewethereyet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 06:33 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. actually the poster is male, doesn't change anything of course |
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Kamika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 08:14 PM Response to Reply #31 |
55. Honestly it can mean both |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:19 AM Response to Reply #31 |
71. well fabulous DrWeird |
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Blade (624 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 02:32 AM Response to Original message |
37. bitch slap... |
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geniph (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 07:42 PM Response to Reply #37 |
50. Man, that makes it even worse! |
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Blade (624 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 04:34 AM Response to Reply #50 |
60. Once again...the term doesn't offend me. |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:43 AM Response to Reply #60 |
74. blade you are the same age as my younger son |
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Kamika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:56 AM Response to Reply #60 |
77. I use it alot too |
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Kamika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
46. I think its cool |
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amazona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
48. oh i hate that phrase!!! |
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MaineDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
51. I find it annoying as well (nt) |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 07:51 PM Response to Original message |
52. I cringe everytime I see it or hear it |
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Robb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-16-03 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
53. I prefer "Stooge Slap"... |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:45 AM Response to Reply #53 |
75. knuck knuck knuck |
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Tredge (152 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 01:48 AM Response to Original message |
58. In the early days... |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 04:25 AM Response to Original message |
59. Don't like the term. Don't care to use it, hear it, or read it... |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 07:15 AM Response to Original message |
62. I Always Thought A "Bitch-Slap" Was When A WOMAN Was Doing The Slapping... |
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Kamika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 07:18 AM Response to Reply #62 |
63. I thought bitch slap was same as pimp slap |
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NicoleM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
64. Hate it. |
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chefgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:10 AM Response to Original message |
67. Derogatory .... |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 08:51 AM Response to Reply #67 |
76. the very idea that the terms woman and bitch are interchangable |
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chefgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 09:12 AM Response to Reply #76 |
80. Exactly |
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Renew Deal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
78. It has nothing to do with a woman. |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 09:11 AM Response to Reply #78 |
79. yah, a weak assed open hand slap by someone called a name for |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 09:26 AM Response to Reply #78 |
82. Did you read all the definintions on that page? |
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Renew Deal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 09:30 AM Response to Reply #82 |
83. That's thugish |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 10:12 AM Response to Reply #83 |
85. Thanks! |
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Garage Queen (640 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 09:14 AM Response to Original message |
81. I've NEVER thought of it as being "gender" related. |
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WoodrowFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
84. I dont use it but |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-17-03 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
86. Bitch Slap |
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