Anyone ever had that one co-worker that is just a bad apple ?

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Tue Oct-10-06 12:45 AM
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Anyone ever had that one co-worker that is just a bad apple ?

Edited on Tue Oct-10-06 12:53 AM by CarolinaPeridot

I unfortunately have that one person (I refuse to call co-worker because she is just a bitch) in the department that I work in who just comes to work to make everyone's life miserable. For the past 4 weeks this girl has made it her purpose to try to make my night and my trainer's night a living hell. She is the leader of the group of girls (I refuse to say women) that are always gossing about someone, spreading rumours and just no respect for themselves what so ever. There is always something - ALWAYS. This one person who is the main stupid head went into a senior manager's office and told him the reason why I fell out one particular night at work was because I was pregnant. So not true - even if it was, its my business. I fell out because I was overwhelmed, and it was hot. If she told him I don't know how many people she told. I don't have many friends - the friends that I thought I had are not who I thought they were. So now I feel even more alone and tomorrow I am going to my senior manager and human resources because this mess has to end. I am only 26 years old - she is 36 - I am the mature one. I hold it all in because I have a job to do. She is low on the totem pole. I am the person right under the trainer on my floor - I worked hard to get to where I am. Last week I vented my frustrations to my trainer - she could look at me and tell that I had some things that I was holding in. Every trainer in my department knows , even one of the managers knows how bad she is because she tried to turn him for nothing - whenever she does'nt like what someone is doing , she turns them in. She is nothing but trouble. I am sick of dealing with this. I come to work to do my job. I don't bother anybody. I am happy in my life but I refuse to let this bitch bring me to the point of knocking her out. I feel so bad that I want to cry and when I cry you hurt. She intimidated another co-worker to the point of the co-worker wanted to commit suicide when someone found her in the bathroom. I want to do this in confidentiality because I just want my peace. In a couple of weeks I am going to a new department , something that I worked hard for - I want her to suffer the way she made me suffer - she needs to be stopped. I am not losing my job for her. I need any advice that I can get. This has to end. It makes no sense. I don't bother anyone. I just do my job. The things that she does is so obvious that she is trying me - I am about to flip out and before I flip out I am going to human resources.

My saving grace is that in a week or two I will no longer have to deal with her or my department. Some people are there to work , some are there to play - I am just like WTH - so I decided to get out and I did. The hardest thing is trying to keep my cool and not choking someone.

But if I ever see her outside of work , I will knock that bitch out. And that's for real.

Thanks for listening to me vent but I hate this bitch.