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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:06 PM
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Richard, July 20, 1994 - February 3, 2007
Richard died peacefully in my arms today, and I was in Kathy's.

Lymphoma is the most likely cause of his death. He'd been looking into Kathy's eyes for a week, telling her he was done.

Dr. Heinze gave him the drug through a catheter that was secured to his paw by a blue bandage onto which the staff had pasted a red heart. The vet's office sent us a bouquet of flowers.

Kathy and I have had enough of grief for a while. Her cousin Mayra last May, my Grandma in October, and now this wonderful creature who was so, so loving, funny, and sweet . . . . How is it that we're able to endure what is impossible to endure?



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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:09 PM
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1. i am so sorry bertha
:hug: to you and safe passage to richard
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Bzzzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:10 PM
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2. I'm so sorry...
I know what it's like to lose a faithful friend. May he rest in peace.:hug:
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:10 PM
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3. I'm sorry.
:hug: :hug:
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:11 PM
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4. Safe passage, Richard.
Might your suffering be over. Peace and comfort to you and yours, Bertha. :hug:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:15 PM
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5. my heartfelt sympathy to both of you
may Richard Rest In Peace.

:loveya:

aA
kesha
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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:15 PM
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6. Oh, Bertha- I'm so sorry.
It's so damn hard to lose a member of the family.
And it's so much harder when there are several
losses all at once.

He was a beautiful cat, Bertha.
You were fortunate to have each other.

Safe passage for Richard
and a big hug to you, my dear friend!

:hug:
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:16 PM
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7. aww
sorry bertha

:hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:17 PM
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8. He was such a beautiful soul
Rest in peace Richard.

:hug:
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YDogg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:23 PM
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9. I'm very sorry.
:-(
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DainBramaged Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:32 PM
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10. I am so sorry, typing through tears is impossible
He will be waiting for you one day. He's there to make the path easy to find.


Blessings.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:36 PM
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11. I have needed your expressions of sympathy
thank you for them

bbl when I am calm
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:39 PM
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12. I'm sorry for your loss
It is never easy.

:hug:
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:48 PM
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13. Oh dear Bertha...
Many hugs.
:hug:
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huskerlaw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:48 PM
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14. Oh Bertha,
Edited on Sat Feb-03-07 05:48 PM by huskerlaw
I'm so sorry.

What an adorable little guy.

:hug: to you.
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:50 PM
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15. I'm very sorry, Bertha.
Richard is gorgeous in those photos.
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:52 PM
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16. Oh, Bertha....I'm so, so sorry.
I know how loving and giving you are. I know that Richard had the best home, full of love and caring.

My most sincere condolences to you and Kathy. :cry:
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:53 PM
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17. He's beautiful. I'm so sorry. nt
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:55 PM
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18. Oh honey ..
I'm so sorry. :cry:

We just got a new baby and I was thinking about you today.

:cry:

:loveya:
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texanwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 05:56 PM
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19. Richard looked like a sweet and beautiful cat.
I hope this helps.

www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html - 3k - Cached - Similar pages

:hug:
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:50 PM
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45. thank you, TW
:weep:
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Catshrink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 06:25 PM
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20. Oh Bertha
I'm so sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful kitty and I know you will miss him terribly.

:grouphug:
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 06:30 PM
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21. for richard...
Poem For Cats

And God asked the feline spirit
Are you ready to come home?
Oh, yes, quite so, replied the precious soul
And, as a cat, you know I am most able
To decide anything for myself.

Are you coming then? asked God.
Soon, replied the whiskered angel
But I must come slowly
For my human friends are troubled
For you see, they need me, quite certainly.

But don't they understand? asked God
That you'll never leave them?
That your souls are intertwined. For all eternity?
That nothing is created or destroyed?
It just is....forever and ever and ever.

Eventually they will understand,
Replied the glorious cat
For I will whisper into their hearts
That I am always with them
I just am....forever and ever and ever.

Author Unknown
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 06:48 PM
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25. xchrom, that is a beautiful poem.
thank you for sharing it.

aA
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 09:07 PM
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35. thanks -- i just know we love our animals.
and that they are whole and complete beings placed in our care.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:43 PM
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44. thank you very much, xchrom
:weep: :weep:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 06:42 PM
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22. I am so sorry Bertha.
:hug:

:cry:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 06:43 PM
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23. I'm so very sorry...
:hug:
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QMPMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 06:44 PM
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24. I am so sorry. n/t
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Flaxbee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 07:08 PM
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26. I'm sorry, bertha
I'm glad you and Kathy have each other -- and all the other Katzenengel cat clan to get through this. Thank you for sharing Richard with us over the years. :hug:
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 07:24 PM
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27. I'm so sorry, bertha. What a beautiful cat.
He reminds me of our precious cat, Spark, that was just killed by a car a few weeks ago. :cry: It's so hard to lose these beloved members of our family. It takes courage to grieve and feel the sadness so deeply.

We endure because we are stronger than we give ourselves credit for. :hug: :loveya:

I wish you Peace and Comfort during these difficult days, my friend.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:38 PM
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40. oh, god, Shine
:cry: RIP Spark
I am so sorry, and I mourn with you
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 01:01 PM
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50. Shine!
I'm SO sorry about your beloved Spark. :cry:

How awful that must have been for your family.

:grouphug:

aA
kesha
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 07:27 PM
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28. So sorry to hear this...
... hugs... :hug: :hug: :hug:
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 08:06 PM
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29. I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
You will see that beautiful fuzzy face again someday.

:hugs:
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 08:07 PM
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30. Bertha, I'm so sorry...
:hug: My heart goes out to you and Kathy. :pals: I know what it's like to lose a beloved family member, and you have my utmost sympathy. :hug:
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 08:34 PM
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31. I'm so very sorry, Bertha.
RIP, Richard. What a sweetie! :cry:

:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 08:37 PM
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32. bertha, I'm so sorry
you've had too many losses recently. :hug:

Richard couldn't have asked for a better home.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 08:39 PM
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33. I'm so sorry, Bertha.
:hug:
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 08:41 PM
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34. I'm so sorry for your loss.
He looks like he was well-loved and knew it. My condolences. :hug:
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bullwinkle428 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 09:53 PM
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36. Bertha, I'm so sorry for your loss...
...Richard looked like an amazing guy. I know first-hand how hard the loss of a furkid hits us, and I know you've been through a lot recently. My deepest condolences on his loss...
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 05:07 PM
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52. Bertha, so sorry about sweet Richard. I always loved his photos
on our kitty threads. Doesn't matter how many of them you have, you never want to let them go.

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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-03-07 09:59 PM
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37. Oh, Bertha, he was a beautiful cat. I had to read further to see it was not a human being.
I was married to a Dr. Richard... my first marriage.

Never thought of it as a name for a kitty.

You lost your grandmother, and now a beloved animal friend. Peace to you on all accounts.

Warm regards,

Radio Lady in LAS VEGAS
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 02:44 AM
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38. I'm so, so, so very sorry Bertha
I lost my beautiful dog last year. I know some of what you must be going through. I also know you've had a sad year. I'm so sorry :hug:

Your cat looks absolutely beautiful and adorable. You were fortunate to have been able to share 13 years of her life with her and she was fortunate to have been able to have you and Kathy as her owners :hug: :hug:
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anti-everything Donating Member (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 02:53 AM
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39. Appypolilogies
I know I will be a wreck when Azrael(my cat) dies.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:40 PM
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41. thank you, anti -
a reply for you 'cause you're new

I wish I could reply to everyone
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:42 PM
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42. I can't reply to you all, but I embrace each of your replies for comfort
I'll come here frequently for comfort. Thank you, everyone.

Richard was a chronic ignore-the-litter-box cat, and of course as he got sick we tried to be patient and just clean it up. Today when I realized I'd have no more clean up to do, I lost it again. Laughed and cried at the same time.
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ikojo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:42 PM
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43. Bertha K, so sorry for your loss
May Richard's journey over the Rainbow Bridge be peaceful. May he be reunited with any lost friends and make new friends on the other side.

:hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:50 PM
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46. My deepest condolences, my dear bertha..........
He was so very beautiful.........

And now his pain is over.......

Blessings on you and Kathy.......:cry: :hug:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:55 PM
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47. Oh man, that is sad. So sorry about this.
He looks too much like mine. Wish I could say something to make you feel better, but...
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:56 PM
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48. I'm so sorry.
:hug: I can't imagine loosing Sniffles and Pitter-pat. I dread those days. :hug:
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kedrys Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 12:58 PM
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49. RIP Richard
I'm so sorry Bertha and Kathy...Richard looks just like my Caesar...thank you both for providing him a wonderful home and a wonderful life...my Ms Marble is waiting for Richard at the other end of the Rainbow Bridge. :cry:
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peekaloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 01:04 PM
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51. So sorry, Bertha.
:hug:

Peace to Richard.
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ThatsMyBarack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 05:35 PM
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53. Richard: When you get across the Rainbow Bridge,....
....give my love to Dixie (1999-2003), will you?

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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 07:19 PM
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54. oh bertha-
I am so very sorry to hear about Richard's passing. He looks like such a sweet soul, and I know he brought so much joy to you and Kathy-

Hugs to you :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Olney Blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 07:22 PM
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55. What a lovely soul--I'm so sorry, Bertha.
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 07:44 PM
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56. RIP Richard. I'm so sorry.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-04-07 07:46 PM
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57. My Tinkie is there waiting for him!
She was a precious cat who died at the age of 16.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 09:40 AM
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58. DU has been a supportive community for me, and I thank you all
:hug:
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 09:47 AM
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59. Oh, I'm so sorry
He was such a beautiful creature. I know your heart must be just broken in two. I hope your many happy memories with Richard will help you through this difficult time.
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Puglover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 09:50 AM
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60. I'm very sorry Bertha.
n/t
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 09:53 AM
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61. He Looks Just Like Our Clarisse
My wife and i love those black tigers. We've had three. You hang in there, Bertha. We've gone through it. It's a bitch.
The Professor
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 10:57 AM
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62. Bertha, my heart goes out to your household
And be sure that Richard will miss you all very much too.

:hug:
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Mrs. Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 01:15 PM
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63. Richard Was The First Cat Who Adopted Me
The first time I petted him, and talked to him, he said, "you're mine." My life has been immeasurably enriched for having known and loved this beautiful kitty.

My sorrow is beyond description for having to let him go. :cry: :cry: :cry:

Here are a few more photos of him.








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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 03:05 PM
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65. baby, that third one killed me
:cry:
:cry:
:cry:
:cry:
:cry:
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Mrs. Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 03:17 PM
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67. I'm Sorry, Baby

:hug:
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 03:19 PM
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68. he loooooved to be brushed
what a kitty

:hug:
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Blue Diadem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 01:22 PM
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64. Oh Bertha, I'm so sorry
:hug:

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GenDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Feb-05-07 03:12 PM
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66. I'm very, very sorry.
I once had a kitty, named Snoopy, that looked just like your Richard.
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