Unrequited crushes suck!

[LynzM]

Man, I haven't had to cope with this since high school! I forgot just how un-fun it can be! *mope*

Thanks for listening...

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

1. I know exactly what you mean ...

[LynzM]

2. Well then, hugs to you, CP

:hug:

[sniffa]

3. i'm sorry sweetie, i was just busy

i'LL crush you back now. :loveya:

[LynzM]

4. LOL, awwwww, thanks Sniffa!

:loveya: How's life treating you guys?

[sniffa]

6. Life's pretty good

too coLd, and we're about to get a Lot of snow. aLso, too coLd for seeing feet. x(

how's your new bathroom fLoor, and new cat?

big crushing. :loveya:

[LynzM]

7. I agree

Definitely too cold, and not good sandal weather! x(

The bathroom floor is wonderful... I'm pretty much happy every time I see it, LOL. Our new cat is a sweetie, and a princess, and loves to snuggle on laps. In short, pretty much perfect. Plus, she has thumbs, how can you go wrong?!

:loveya:

[Katina]

5. do you remember this song?

I played it a whole lot. Hope things get better for you

Glad to be Unhappy
Fools rush in, so here I am
Awfully glad to be unhappy.
I can't win, but here I am
More than glad to be unhappy.

Unrequited love's a bore, yeah,
And I've got it pretty bad.
But for someone you adore,
It's a pleasure to be sad.

Like a straying baby lamb
With no mama and no papa,
I'm so unhappy, yeah.

Unrequited love's a bore, yeah,
And I've got it pretty bad.
But for someone you adore,
It's a pleasure to be sad.

Like a straying baby lamb
With no mama and no papa,
I'm so unhappy, yeah...

But oh so glad

[LynzM]

8. Oh yeah....

That's been in my head for the last couple hours, actually! :rofl:

:hi:

[Oeditpus Rex]

9. YOU gotta crush??

What would The Man Who Can Paint Ceilings With His Hair say? :shrug:

[LynzM]

10. LMAO

He feels bad for me that the crush isn't returned! He's cool like that. *grin*

[Oeditpus Rex]

11. Geez

I think I'd keep him. :thumbsup:

[LynzM]

12. Oh yeah, you better believe it.

He's incredible, in the good way! :loveya:

[crim son]

13. That's exactly why I refuse to have crushes.

Too darned demoralizing.

[LynzM]

14. LOL

Awwww.... I hope you get to have one soon that is energizing, instead! :hug:

[crim son]

16. Never gonna happen.

I'm done.

[Hugin]

15. Ditto...

Must be a part of GERD. :shrug:

[crim son]

17. Possibly.

I think it's part of being just odd enough that somebody find me date-worthy is a rare thing, and my finding them date-worthy is even more unlikely. Add to that the tendency for love to turn to shit, and there's a very good reason to steer clear of the crush.

But, Prag, it's okay for me, but not for you. You're rather extraordinary and you shouldn't give up on the hunt.

[leftofthedial]

18. all my crushes are unrequited.

in fact, my whole life right now is unrequited

[LynzM]

20. Awww dude, that sucks....

Lots of big hugs coming your way! :hug :hug: :hug: I hope things get better soon!

[leftofthedial]

22. thanks!

BTW, what does "unrequited" mean?


:evilgrin:

[LynzM]

28. LOL, dunno if you're being serious....

But just in case!

un·re·quit·ed
–adjective
1. not returned or reciprocated: unrequited love.
2. not avenged or retaliated: an unrequited wrong.
3. not repaid or satisfied.

:)

[leftofthedial]

29. there. that proves it.

even my humor is unrequited . . .

:hide:


:D

[NewJeffCT]

19. My crush on Lynda Carter has been unrequited for a good 30 years now

so I know how you feel.

:hug:

[LynzM]

26. that bites!

Man, 30 years is a long time to keep up a crush! :)

[Guava Jelly]

21. I'm sayen!

I'm still waiting for u4ic to marry me :mad: :rofl:

[u4ic]

23. Let's play...

find the missing dowry...

[Guava Jelly]

25. Crap I suck at this game!!

Guess i need to go sell some blood :silly:

[u4ic]

24. Bah!

Story of my life. x(



:hug:

[LynzM]

27. Bummer, dude....

:hug:

[GOPisEvil]

30. Aw, dude...we can still be friends.

:D

Yeah, unrequited crushes suck on both side. :hug:

[LynzM]

47. LOL, well, yay!

:hug: I agree about sucking on both sides...

[RetroLounge]

31. ...

"It was inevitable: the scent of bitter almonds always reminded him of the fate of unrequited love."

Gabriel Garcia-Marquez

RL

[LynzM]

48. Hrm....

Luckily, I don't think there's a particular smell that will remind me of this crush forever. Luckily. Because smell can be one hell of a memory trigger...

[ForrestGump]

32. Requited ones can, too

When they live so very far away. :-)

[jus_the_facts]

34. Indeed....

....so very far away from me...lalala Dire Straits sings of this!! :loveya: :hug: :*

[ForrestGump]

38. Speaking of which...

:-)

:hug:

:loveya:

[jus_the_facts]

40. and I'm not just talkin' 'bout Wilson....

:evilgrin:

[lizziegrace]

37. Yea

they really do. :hug:

[ForrestGump]

39. Yiu make me dizzy,

Miss Lizzie

:hug:



:*

[lizziegrace]

42. Dizzy's a start

:hug:




How've you been friend? :loveya:

[lizziegrace]

43. Ack!

I meant to reply to the original post. :(

[LynzM]

49. This is true, as well.

:hug: :hi:

[graywarrior]

33. Yep.

[buddhamama]

35. awww, sweetie, who's the fool?

who the heck wouldn't have a crush on you? :mad:
i will kick ass, if you want me to. :D
:hug: :hug: :hug:

[LynzM]

50. LOL, thanks for the offer, Buddhamama

Don't want to give details, as you never know who's reading these internets... suffice to say, someone who I hope I can still consider a friend...

[trof]

36. Not to make light of your anguish, but...our cat had a crush on our dog.

It's the damndest thing I've ever seen.

Our male cat, Ace, just LUUUUUVED our female German Shepherd, Nasha.
And Nasha could not care less about the fur ball.

Nasha would be curled up and Ace would TRY to get IN there and curly up in the curl and Nasha would get up and walk away.

That cat was NUTS about the dog.
Followed her everywhere.
Head butting and rubbing her legs.
Purring.

And Nasha just. walked. away.
Bitch.
;-)

[LynzM]

51. OMG, that's hysterical!

:rofl: your poor cat!!

[XemaSab]

41. I am totally in sympathy

How can whatsisname be so tempting, yet so disinterested? :shrug:

[LynzM]

52. Aw dude, that sucks...

Hugs for you, then, too! :hug:

[XemaSab]

55. Eh, I'm sure I'll get over it

:shrug:

Here's hoping yours isn't too bad. :P

[jonnyblitz]

44. what can add to the suckiness is when

the person isn't of the same orientation as you. it got interesting in the navy, that's for sure.*snicker*

Anyway, I never get intense crushes anymore, just fleeting ones!! i pretty much must have gone through crush menopause already!!

[LynzM]

53. Ah yes, that's fun, too....

Ugh. :hug: Been there and done that, crushing on gay guys... lol.

:hi:

[RFKHumphreyObama]

45. Don't I know it

The story of my life

[LynzM]

54. Bummer, dude...

:hug:

[Q3JR4]

46. I agree, crushes suck. n/t.

[Redstone]

56. No, kiddo, you don't need to be doing that, do you?

With that handsome son of a bitch you have for a husband?

Redstone

[SPKrazy]

57. YES THEY DO!!!!!!

:cry:


:mad:


:shrug:

what can you do though?

:hug:

[TOhioLiberal]

58. All my crushes...

...are unrequited. Mainly because I'm chicken. And it sucks.

[BulletTrain1964]

59. I've got a couple of them myself

and it's been years since I was in high school.

Is this part of what they call a "mid-life" crisis?

[libnnc]

60. Yep. Just when I think I've grown out of it too...

Hits ya right betwixt the eyes don't it?