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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:15 PM Original message |
Tough love. (long rant) |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think you're on the right track, Shine |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:34 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. Thanks, buddy. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
2. That does sound tough, but it also shows that you are |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:35 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Yeah, in fact today at lunch he told me he hadn't realized I was so serious |
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YDogg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
3. Hang in there. It'll get better. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:37 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Thanks, YDogg |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
4. You're doing the right thing, Shine. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:40 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Yeah, that's what he was trying to negotiate with me on, too. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 10:36 PM Response to Reply #10 |
43. That is what's at stake. |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:19 PM Response to Reply #4 |
26. You threatened to punish your kid over a B/B-? |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 10:31 PM Response to Reply #26 |
42. I do understand your perspective. I have another son from |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:27 PM Response to Original message |
5. One of those "hurts me more than it hurts you" moments. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Yeah, that's exactly right. I also think of that line: "Cruel to be kind" |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
9. What you're doing will help him ultimately. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:43 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Thanks. I'll tell him you said that! heheheh. |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
13. You are absolutely doing the right thing, my friend. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:02 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Thanks, LynzM |
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fishnfla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
14. Well, you might not like my reply |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:07 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. Thanks for your perspective, fishnfla. |
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fishnfla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:28 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. Funny, loves a hard thing |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:37 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Awww...ya got me all teary. |
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fishnfla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 10:52 PM Response to Reply #22 |
44. I think kindness breeds kindness |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
15. I could never do it. I mean once I set the punishment I'd have |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:10 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Thanks. I knew it was a tough punishment and I was prepared to follow thru |
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Scooter24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
19. I guess my reply depends on the relationship your son has with his father. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:34 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Despite his upset and disappointment, I believe it will be worth it |
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Scooter24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:27 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Then I believe you are doing the right thing. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:31 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Thanks, friend. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
23. Take him out of honors math if a "C" bothers you.. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:20 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Well, I am hardly asking for "perfection" and he can do much better than a C. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:55 PM Response to Reply #27 |
40. For whom is he "showing his work?" |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
24. My dear Shine......... |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:22 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Thanks, Peggy. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
25. Tough Love is...well..Tough! |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:25 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. Thanks,darlin'. I really like your contract idea. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:31 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. It sucks now |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:34 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. I know, I haven't made an issue about the money for the very same reason |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
33. You are sure getting some good help here tonight, Shine |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:35 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. Awwww.... |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
34. I'm not a parent. But I guess I'd be concerned, nonetheless |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:38 PM Response to Reply #34 |
38. Oh no, it's nothing like that. The reason it fell so fast is b/c it's the |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
37. I am living with this right now, but on a much larger level. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
39. I think you're doing the right thing. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
41. First, he's a teenager now, and teenagers rarely act in their best interests |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-15-07 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
45. It's bothersome that he's doing well in the other subjects but not this |
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