Do you have more drama in your online life or your real life?

[prolesunited]

Or perhaps equal amounts in both?

[Connonym]

1. My real life is 99% drama. Online? not so much n/t

[prolesunited]

4. At least you have somewhere to escape

Hope whatever it is IRL gets better.

[zingaro]

2. Until recently, I'd have said more online drama.

Unfortunately right now there is too much emotionally draining drama IRL for me, thus the escapism.

[prolesunited]

5. Sorry to hear that

There's always people hear to listen if you ever need to talk.

[zingaro]

9. Yeah, that's the cool thing about DU.

Open all night, so to speak.

Thanks. :hug:

[SPKrazy]

35. Let's Have Some Online Real Drama Zingy

we can start an online affair and be real obvious about it so that everyone talks about us?

:evilgrin:

or not...

:shrug:

could just be discreet

[zingaro]

37. I'm an online affair virgin. But I'm all for obvious.

:rofl:

:evilgrin:

[SPKrazy]

41. Well it can be a gentle experience

;)

[zingaro]

43. You're so patient and considerate.

:D

[SPKrazy]

45. That's Me!

:evilgrin:

I'll be gentle

[CaliforniaPeggy]

3. Mine overlap........

In a very big way, too.....

Equal amounts of drama in both.......

[prolesunited]

6. Mine overlap

but nobody I hang out with is about the drama, not to say that it never happens

[ghostsofgiants]

7. I don't have any drama at all.

[LSK]

8. same here, unless I turn on TNT

They know drama.

[idgiehkt]

10. I have NO drama in my real life

I recently had an outbreak of drama happen online because I got involved with and trusted the w-r-o-n-g people, and that will not happen again. Live and learn.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

22. hey me too..,,

:hi:

[Nicole]

11. No drama in either.

Real life is peaceful & serene.

Online life is what I do for fun. When it becomes less than fun, I turn it off.

[Breeze54]

12. I seem to have never ending drama...argh!... It finds me.

It's always something and it's always jarring to me!
You'd think I'd have learned by now to stay calm
but I can't seem to do that... It's upsetting.
I don't like freaky things happening out of the blue!
It's annoying as hell!

I had some heavy drama with some online, longtime,
so-called 'friends', a while back but I've moved on.
I guess that's what I get for volunteering.
It really saddened me, as I met quite a few in person
but things change, as they say.

In my real life, things seem to happen, at a steady
pace, and I'm never relaxed, it seems.
Always waiting for the other shoe to fall.
And it always does!! lol!

Sometimes I yell, "Make it stop!!!" :rofl:

But really it isn't funny. I need some peace.

Maybe I need a vacation!?! Alone! ;)

[reyd reid reed]

13. Nope.

Not usually, anyway. There have been times, though...

x(

[ForrestGump]

14. A fair bit on my 'real' life, at various times,

and my job often keeps things pretty high on the surreal-o-meter, especially during work hours.

More online drama lately than ever for me, perhaps, with some revelations of unbelievably bad behavior that resulted in good from one quarter and, from another quarter, with me getting burned by a sick someone here who stalked me across the Internet, lied rather viciously about me and our non-relationship, and has lately taken to attacking me and my friends and acquaintances via PM while publicly whining every day about how poorly she's treated by people she should not have trusted, perhaps the most massive case of 'projection' (and outright lying) I've ever been privy to.

You know: the usual.

[Guava Jelly]

27. Damn

Sounds like hell

[Ariana Celeste]

15. I have way too much shit goin on IRL

to care much for online BS.

Going to court, knowing I'll be convicted for some shit in a few months, having relationship problems.... yeah everything else seems pretty fucking petty when it comes to folks online.

[lizziegrace]

19. Same here

It's calm here compared to the real world.

:hug:

[Ariana Celeste]

44. It sure is

:hug: :loveya:

[prolesunited]

49. Convicted?!?!

:shrug:

[Ariana Celeste]

52. yeah

i got arrested for some drug related victimless crimes

sigh

going through the court process now (who knows how long that could take)

[NMMNG]

16. I wouldn't say "drama" per se

IRL I have plenty of stress, but no real drama. Online there's some frustration/irritation but no drama.

[Fran Kubelik]

17. In the past, I have had friends who sought drama constantly.

They are no longer friends. I just cannot see the appeal.

I am lucky - my life is drama-free these days.

[zanne]

18. My real life, dammit. nt

[Hugin]

20. Real life, definiately...

But, online is a close second.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

21. my online life is a lot of BS drama. my real life is very calm and mellow.

[billyskank]

23. Online

NOTHING happens in my offline life.

I hesitate to say "real" life because that implies I do not mean anything I say online.

[CatholicEdHead]

24. Real life

Been pretty bumpy at work lately.

[auntAgonist]

25. No drama here or there. I like it like that. n/t

[terrya]

26. I'm fleeing from any kind of drama as fast as I can.

Online or offline. I don't need nor want that kind of crap.

[tigereye]

28. neither

my life is quite boring in the drama dept. most of the time and for that I am thankful.

[prolesunited]

50. Let's create some scandal for you then

We wouldn't want you to get bored or anything.

[AlCzervik]

29. my life is almost completely without drama, we hit a few bumps now and then

but those are few and far between. I think living far away from my extended family is partially why, i don't get sucked into their drama.

[femmocrat]

30. Real life is dramatic enough, thank you. I come to DU for comedic relief!

[bertha katzenengel]

31. Real life.

I have very limited on line "life" these days. (Which is not to say I don't have friends.)

[Starbucks Anarchist]

32. They're both tragic comedies.

[Midlodemocrat]

33. Real life by a landslide.

My online life is pretty benign for the most part.

[u4ic]

34. I have no idea

I can't keep up with either of them. :silly:

[billyskank]

47. You can download a daily digest

What u4ic did today. Keep yourself up to speed that way. :D

[u4ic]

48. I need a personal assistant

to give me a daily debriefing of my life. :crazy:

[Shell Beau]

36. I try to be free of drama! So, neither.

However, working for my aunt can sometimes cause drama! She is a loon she is!

[wildhorses]

38. trying to keep the drama down to a minimum in my real life

while sparking a little drama online;)

[BuelahWitch]

39. I try to keep the drama away in both lives

But I find that it is more difficult to do so in real life. I have more control over what I say and do online.

[enigmatic]

40. Zip in my online life

It simply isn't worth it.

In RL, everybody does, I think that's part of being a human being...

[smtpgirl]

42. more drama in my real life definitely

I go online to escape the drama

[GirlinContempt]

46. I guess equal amounts

Seeing as I think drama is hilarious and ergo do not care, I think it sort of ceases to be drama, ergo I have very little in either, despite others flailing hilariously.

[Rhythm]

51. My 'real life' has been chaos, drama, and insanity for at least 20 years...

online is calm and serenity comparatively