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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 09:59 AM
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Ever call your partner by the name of someone else?
Another thread made me think of this. My husband and I were both married to others for over a decade before we were together. Sometimes (especially during a "discussion"), we'll inadvertently call each other the name of our ex. Never at one of those moments, but we still feel bad.
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Maestro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 10:04 AM
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1. No,
but we've been together 17 years. If I did, I would be in big trouble. ;)
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Kansas Wyatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 10:18 AM
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2. No, I avoid addressing by real name for that reason.
And choose to always go with a nickname.
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SKKY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 10:28 AM
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3. I'm still married, so I guess the answer to that would be no...
...I did do that to a girlfriend once. Suffice it to say she was extremely non-plussed about it. I didn't know they were sorority sisters.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 10:30 AM
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4. no, but i've had it happen to me...
it didn't feel good at the time...


might have been an omen to me if I'd paid attention
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 10:33 AM
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5. "Babe", "Sweetie", "Honey"
I think in the 6 years we've been together, I've called him by his name about 3 times, each one a shock to him.

It's not purposely to avoid that but it helps. :hi:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 11:47 AM
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10. I think that's why those endearments are handy.
Cuts down on the hurt feelings.
:rofl:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 10:34 AM
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6. I don't have that worry
Thanks to the wild creativity of white bread suburbanites of the early 70's, :eyes: my last two bfs have the same first name.
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 10:47 AM
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7. No chance of that.
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TreasonousBastard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 11:41 AM
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8. Just once.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 11:47 AM
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9. no
not yet

:hide: :hide:

lost
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 12:24 PM
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11. My ex and I pretty much called each other everything.
:)
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 12:33 PM
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12. It's embarrassing, but I constantly call her matcom during sex.
I just can't help it!

He's just so.... dreamily manscaped.

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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-18-07 12:46 PM
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13. I kid my best friend that his wife yells my name during sex
(we have the same first name ) :D
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