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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 08:59 PM
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Have you ever felt, that if you disappeared
no one would miss you???

I know this to be true....
although my son would wonder why his clothes aren't getting washed....

why bother.......


lost
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 08:59 PM
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1. oh i know that isn't true
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:02 PM
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2. no
no you don't

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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:03 PM
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4. well i would miss you
and i believe a lot of others in your real life would
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-12-07 01:07 AM
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40. you're right
i don't know

i still have :hug: :hug:

and


blu
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:02 PM
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3. It may feel that way
Edited on Thu Oct-11-07 09:03 PM by lizziegrace
but I assure you, you would be missed. :hug:

I know what it's like to feel invisible. The feeling won't last forever - promise.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:17 PM
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13. oh lizzie
:hug:

lost
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:24 PM
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23. ...
:hug:

You'll get through all this, whether you want to or not. ;)
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:07 PM
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5. I assume this to be the case. nt
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:18 PM
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15. ....
from me to you...

:hug:

lost
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:19 PM
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17. Thanks, lost. nt
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:09 PM
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6. I DO feel that way some times!
But than I think.. thats my trick, I gotta rem to think.

My daughter would look after a few weeks, dogs would sooner, but.. there is this one person...

:hi:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:11 PM
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9. you don't have to tell me who
but tell me if she knows how you feel......

If not

tell her....

:hi: :hug:

lost
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:59 PM
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34. She does
and she made me all better a few hours ago.

Sorry if I sounded down :)

:hi::hug:
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:10 PM
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7. Where is your blue bonnet man?
sorry...It is just such a curious thing to me.

I know what you mean about the disappearing...only difference is ...I don't give a fuck.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:19 PM
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18. he's there
but there is more to the story


lost

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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:22 PM
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20. You said enough. I already know the rest of the story.
He's married and he lives thousands of miles away, right? Been there, done that. Good luck :hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:29 PM
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28. One thing to remember.....
please
do not assume....

thanks

lost
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:32 PM
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30. So then,
Edited on Thu Oct-11-07 10:01 PM by Tuesday Afternoon
I am wrong? either way, good luck. Sounds like you are in a mood.

Edited because I took pity and deleted the snarky part. I really do wish you well. You seem like a gentle soul.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:11 PM
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8. I'm sure everyone feels that way sometimes
You know it's not true, though. :hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:16 PM
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11. I am trying to believe this
......


lost
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:11 PM
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10. I would miss you
:hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:16 PM
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12. thanks
how is Billy???

you lucky girl you........


lost
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:18 PM
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14. He's a true sweetheart
Hopefully sleeping, poor thing looked exhausted...or my food made him sick. ;)

:hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:21 PM
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19. Is he as cute
as his pictures.....??
and how is his accent???
to die for??


lost
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:23 PM
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21. Yes and yes
:D
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:24 PM
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22. I need to speak with either Billy or Joani
Can you ask him to PM me tomorrow if there's time?

:hug:

thanks!
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:29 PM
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27. Sure thing!
I just wrote it down so I won't forget.

:hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:31 PM
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29. Thanks!
:hug:

I've had a upper respiratory thing going for 3 days with strep. Now I have to make up the work I missed over the weekend. :( BUT they are still expected here on Monday. (Don't let him panic!)

:)
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:19 PM
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16. I know the feeling.
My aunt needs me, but if it wasn't for her and my cats, I'd be so totally forgotten on this planet. As it is now, I could die right now and no one would find my body until my aunt was ready for bed tomorrow morning. Even then, it wouldn't matter much, except she'd have to finally call in a nurse to take care of her. I'm pretty pathetic.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:28 PM
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25. ...
I would miss your posts....

:hug:
lost
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:25 PM
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24. My dear lost...
I would most certainly miss you, sweetie!

You know I love you...

:loveya:

:hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:32 PM
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31. CPeggy
I am waiting for an autographed copy of a
poetry book some one said they would get published....
and I KNOW it will be

:hug:

lost
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 10:02 PM
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35. Don't hold your breath, sweetie...
This is most likely years away...


But if I do get one published, you will get one, and this is a promise!

:hug:
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Richard Steele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:28 PM
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26. I've always liked to think so. nm
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:34 PM
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32. ....
:hug: :hi:
lost
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Generic Brad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 09:56 PM
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33. On the contrary
I believe I have a significant contingent who would celebrate my absence.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 10:43 PM
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36. *poof*
Edited on Thu Oct-11-07 10:45 PM by ocelot
Ha. You didn't notice. I knew it....


I'm sure that if I croaked at home my cats would eat me long before anybody noticed I was missing.
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fortyfeetunder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 10:47 PM
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37. doubt if anyone would care
that is why I am foregoing a funeral/memorial service...who'd want to attend?
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Cabcere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 10:56 PM
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38. I have felt like that, often.
:hug: Sometimes I feel that this world would have been a better place (or, at least, no worse) if I had never been born...but then I realize that I have made a difference in small ways to many people. And you have, too - even though we've never really "talked," except on an internet message board, I can tell that you are a wonderful and special person. You make me smile - the "gnu" thread cracked me up so much, and just seeing your posts on this board makes me happy, because I know you always have something good to say. I know it's hard sometimes, but please, please, don't ever give up. :hug: You are loved, likely more than you will ever know. :hi: Peace be with you, my friend.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-11-07 11:01 PM
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39. My roommate would notice, within a week I think.
My office would wonder where I am within a few days. I think some people here would notice within a few days too.

My family wouldn't notice for months.
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-12-07 01:08 AM
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41. Often.
Oh, well.
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