Ok folks - good vibes needed.

[mzteris]

Nothing serious. . . just

remember that guy I was trying to figure out if he "liked" me a few months ago? And some of you suggested asking him out?

Well I did. Sorta. I invited him to go with me to an event this evening and he said sure. I can't figure out if he's going because he wants to go to the event, or if he wants to go with me. It's not like a real date or anything. I don't think. Not really. OK, I admit it - I'd like it to be, but I don't know if HE considers it a "date".

Sometimes after we talk, I think - yeah, he likes me. But other times, I'm convinced he just likes me as a FRIEND only. Which would be okay - - I just which I KNEW!!!

This is so frustrating!!

I feel like a silly school girl. :crazy:

And to top it all off - - - my stbe (the mean jerk one) is going to be there, too. That was NOT supposed to happen! I have NOoooooo idea how he's going to react. I'm going to tell him later today, maybe. I think. If I get the nerve. Here's hoping there are no scenes then - or most especially tonight. I - and my boys - and my friend - would be completely & totally mortified.


Oh - and one more thing - I HAVE NOTHING TO WEAR!!!! :cry: I'm going to go see if I can find something at the mall. (I hate the mall in the best of times. Shopping season? no way!) And who knows what the friend will show up in? (He's rather eccentric, remember?) He could be wearing anything from sweats, to jeans, to a friggin' tux. Though I suspect MAYBE he'll be semi-suitably attired.

This is all so confusing and distressing. Maybe it'd be easier just to stay married to the @ss?!?

naaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh.......


(Why am I so damn NERVOUS?!?)

[janx]

1. Umm...

Are you sure you might not want to find some other place to go or something else to do? If the STBex is going to be at this event, things might get dicey, no?

:wow:

:scared:

[mzteris]

2. I have to go.

He, however, was supposed to go tomorrow! changed his mind and switched to tonight! :banghead:

[Breeze54]

3. Of course he likes you or he wouldn't go!

Why do you need to know how much he likes you? He likes you! He's going with you! Yes, it's a date!! :D

Call him and tell him (in a nice way. ;) ) how to dress for this shindig.

Tell him how you're dressing and that he should wear a suit or whatever is appropriate.

You need to calm down, get something slightly sexy but comfortable to wear and just be yourself.

Stop worrying so much! ;) Just have fun!

[ThomCat]

4. Wow. I hope you are able to have a good time.

That sound like a lot of stress. :(

:hug: :hug:
I'll be sending you good vibes and hugs all evening. :)