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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 10:43 PM
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One hour phone call with my home sick college freshman
Poor thing.
Most people go home on the weekend including her roommate and she is left all alone. I booked her spring break flight home and another so she is home for her boyfriends birthday to make her feel better.

Anyone in Boston want to adopt her for the rest of the school year?
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 10:49 PM
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1. It's good to feel needed though, isn't it?
:loveya:

I don't know about your religious affiliation but Boston is the headquarters of the UU church, which is a very Liberal faith. She would undoubtedly find a welcoming place there.
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 10:56 PM
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5. Tried to get her to go to the Jewish group at school
or Anime club or something but not much luck.
She's so shy its hard for her to go somewhere on her own.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 11:10 PM
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10. Gee, she needs to learn to socialize on her own, or she'll be in REAL
trouble after college. It's hard enough for people who HAVE been social to land in a first job where there are no other people their own age.

Tell her to find out what the students she eats dinner with or has a class work/discussion group with are doing over the weekend. College students are usually pretty amenable to having extra people tag along with them. In my observation, they tend to go to movies and concerts in herds.

For example, if a couple of her acquaintances say, "Let's go see (Name of Movie) tonight," she should ask if she can go along. If they're not a dating couple, they'll probably say yes.
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 11:22 PM
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11. I know
She has a lot of classes where they need to socialize, sewing and using other students as models.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 10:50 PM
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2. I don't live in Boston, but I work there
I could take her home w/ me on the weekend. Home cooking. She'd have to sleep on an air mattress.
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 11:03 PM
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6. Thanks MissMillie
I appreciate the offer. What she needs is a social circle of her own.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 11:04 PM
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7. I have a 20 year old son
maybe he'd bring some of his friends into town and they could all go out....
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 11:06 PM
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8. Is he going to the Foo Fighters in Worcester?
She's in Newton.

How's your son liking the job?
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-02-08 09:16 AM
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12. I don't think he has plans to
he hasn't had any money to spend on tickets or anything because he has been out of work.

That's in my neck of the woods though.
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 10:51 PM
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3. Awww, we will!
If she needs a good home cooked meal, get in touch! :)
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 11:09 PM
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9. Thanks BiBaby
I think she needs to find her own way without dad stepping in.
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soleft Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-01-08 10:53 PM
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4. Well, she'll be joined by a lot of sick people Sunday night
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