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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:37 PM Original message |
Need some outside perspective. Having a hard time with this. |
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NightWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
1. A drummer? NO!!! but on a serious note... |
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skater314159 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:12 AM Response to Reply #1 |
21. I think a delay |
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Tektonik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
2. It's none of you or your parents' business really. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:46 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. I didn't need the "shame on them" part. I love my parents. Try to be |
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Tektonik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:55 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. Eh, it is their prerogative to not emotionally support their child; however, |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:01 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. I don't think they fear his culture (as Jews, my family (and ancestors) |
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Muttocracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
3. so they haven't lived in the same town yet? |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:52 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. My hubby and I dated for seven years, four of which were |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:53 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. I wonder about the "having kids" part. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
4. Ummm....she's in her "younger 30"s....all grown up or so it seems to me. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:50 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. I must say, she's made some shitty choices in men. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:53 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. I don't recall saying I thought it outrageous to be concerned SCRUB... |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:56 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. You didn't say that, Michigan. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:06 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. Best way out of the middle is to wish them both well, parents and sister. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
5. My dear SCRUBDASHRUB! |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
7. Well she's well educated, had a job and house so it sure sounds like she's got her head |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:49 PM Response to Original message |
8. "Late summer" sounds around 6 months away. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-23-08 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
15. "My hubby isn't Jewish"-- Ah..what does that have to do with the price of fish? |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:07 AM Response to Reply #15 |
19. My point of saying my husband isn't Jewish is that it's not like |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:27 AM Response to Reply #19 |
28. Rushing into it at age 35? |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:32 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. I've been married 10 years and haven't had kids by choice. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:51 AM Response to Reply #30 |
39. Well, most people don't have babies by choice. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:03 AM Response to Reply #39 |
43. I just meant we didn't get married so we could have babies. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:24 AM Response to Reply #43 |
47. But look at it in reverse..... |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:53 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. I don't look at her bank account; all I'm saying is if she loses her |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 07:55 AM Response to Reply #28 |
49. "mongoloid". What does Mongolia have to do with this? nt |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:18 PM Response to Reply #28 |
64. Sweetie. I know you don't mean it this way, but that word |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:41 PM Response to Reply #64 |
66. That word went out with the Dark Ages........ |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
17. So what if he doesn't have a steady job? |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:08 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. I'M SORRY I POSTED THIS. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:25 AM Response to Reply #17 |
27. Having supported an asshole who refused to work...... |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:29 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Thank you, Shakespeare. I'm sorry you went through such a |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:38 AM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Well, I hope she thinks hard about what she'll be getting into. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:42 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. You sound like how I feel about her situation. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:44 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. I wish your whole family luck. |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:36 AM Response to Reply #27 |
31. That's a lot of factors there.... |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:38 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. What does OP stand for, btw? |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:48 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. Original poster |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:04 AM Response to Reply #38 |
44. I appreciate that. |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:56 AM Response to Reply #34 |
41. OP means original poster, the person who started the thread. |
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Mezzo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:57 AM Response to Reply #17 |
42. You're being a little too hard on her... |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:05 AM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Thanks, Mezzo. |
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Mezzo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #45 |
58. you're welcome sweetie. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 04:56 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Oh, I know. We're not money grubbers at all (otherwise, I'd be a |
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Mezzo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:17 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. do it sooner, and invite them a LOT |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
22. You can't argue with a person in love. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:16 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Thank you. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:19 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. I'm sorry that you're upset with how things have gone... |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:20 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. I wish you and your family all the best. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:21 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Thanks. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
32. What I would do... |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:41 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. That's what my parents did when they first met him and when they |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:52 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. Well - a lot will depend on HOW you have the discussion. |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:18 AM Response to Original message |
46. She's an adult. |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:54 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. I couldn't stand by and not say anything (she and I had an email |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
48. Live you own life, let her live hers |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:59 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. I hear ya. Look, I'm keeping the door open. I want her to be happy, |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
53. I"m sorry you're upset but I think it's a MYOB kind of thing here |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
54. It makes me sad to think that your parents won't attend. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
55. All good things to you and your family, Scrubdashrub! |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
56. What I did with my daughter |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
57. Sounds like a tough situation. Is your sister particularly naive? Cause |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:07 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. Applegrove, I hear you. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:26 PM Response to Reply #60 |
65. What does MYOB mean? Sorry I need clarification. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:50 PM Response to Reply #65 |
68. Mind your own business. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 06:24 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Thanks. I hope it works out okay for your sister. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. MY sister is dying from cancer |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-26-08 03:25 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. Sorry. I thought you were the OP. Sending vibes to your sister. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
61. people are adults and should make their own decisions... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
62. Aw, sweetie. I'm sorry you are going through this. |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
67. her life, her decision. |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
69. Maybe he's a luxury she can afford |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
72. Be Happy For Her, Be Ecstatic |
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