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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:25 AM Original message |
What do you do when someone is blatantly racist? |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
1. As much as I'd like to think that I'd be willing to confront the person... |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:30 AM Response to Original message |
2. i only know one person that is like that and when he acts up i usually say."Eewwwwww" |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:32 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. but what about a stranger or new aquaintance? |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:34 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. if they're near me whether it's a stranger or someone i know they're getting "Ewwwwwww" |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:38 AM Response to Reply #4 |
13. I'd ask those people point-blank |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:40 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. seriously. |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:00 AM Response to Reply #13 |
24. What if you are not good friends with these people? |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:08 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. That would make them easier to avoid (n/t) |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:31 AM Response to Original message |
3. If it was a harmless idiot, I would say something... |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:34 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. You know, looking back at it |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:39 AM Response to Reply #6 |
14. Of course it's acceptable. You followed your instincts and didn't provoke a "frightening" person. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:40 AM Response to Reply #6 |
15. Yes. (no text) |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
5. Let him be |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:36 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Alcohol was involved and he is a viet nam vet. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:40 AM Response to Reply #11 |
18. hard to say |
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skater314159 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:46 AM Response to Reply #11 |
20. My advise |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:04 AM Response to Reply #20 |
26. Right, that's my delimma. |
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skater314159 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 09:40 AM Response to Reply #26 |
48. I say you did exactly the right thing. |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 03:17 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. What a wonderful & thoughtful reply |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
7. Last person who did that to my face was forced to walk the 30 miles home... |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 08:44 PM Response to Reply #7 |
55. And that's exactly why I'm afraid of getting in someone's face about it... |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 09:08 PM Response to Reply #7 |
58. I ask them if their parents are related. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:35 AM Response to Original message |
9. I confront them... in public and loudly, if possible! |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:20 AM Response to Reply #9 |
36. That's how I handle it now |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:29 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Interestingly I would have no trouble standing up to a homophobe. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:42 AM Response to Reply #37 |
40. They're just bullies but |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:35 AM Response to Original message |
10. I let them go on a while and point out to them that |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:43 AM Response to Reply #10 |
19. I like that. |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:37 AM Response to Original message |
12. I usually make my own views known, then I leave them to their own.... |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:40 AM Response to Original message |
17. "Alllll right! Who brought the bigot to the party?" |
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NOLALady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:51 AM Response to Original message |
21. I would probably confront them, then leave. |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:09 AM Response to Reply #21 |
29. Hey NOLA lady! I am a NOLA lady as well. |
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NOLALady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 02:58 AM Response to Reply #29 |
41. Hey Cher. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
22. Well, I'm kind of an outspoken type of asshole with a real low tolerance. |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:19 AM Response to Reply #22 |
35. Ok you want details? |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:33 AM Response to Reply #35 |
39. No, I don't think so. |
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NOLALady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 03:13 AM Response to Reply #35 |
43. No. |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:00 AM Response to Original message |
23. Depends on context and how I feel about the person |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:02 AM Response to Original message |
25. I say something, but I don't have enough fear or tact for my own good sometimes. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:10 AM Response to Reply #25 |
30. 'Don't you assholes have anything better to do |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:12 AM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Fucking A, is that an '89 Caprice? |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:16 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. ... |
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lligrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 03:02 AM Response to Reply #25 |
42. I'm With You |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:05 AM Response to Original message |
27. If they're threatening, don't confront. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:13 AM Response to Original message |
32. Well, if they don't know you very well and there's not much chance of them ever doing so- |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:17 AM Original message |
Look them in the eye, and with a very slight smile... |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
49. you're assuming they have shame |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 11:08 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Your statement has some merit, however... |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:17 AM Response to Original message |
34. It depends on how much energy I have in the moment to get into it |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 01:31 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. Thanks. I feel ok about it. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 03:34 AM Response to Original message |
44. My first reaction is still to call them out on it, then bail if they don't apologize. |
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The Animator (999 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:25 AM Response to Original message |
45. This is when having a black belt in sarcasm really comes in handy... |
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ordinaryaveragegirl (853 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 06:18 AM Response to Original message |
46. I'd ignore him... |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 07:41 AM Response to Original message |
47. It depends. A "WTF" look, at minimum. |
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intaglio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
51. You challenge him or her, pleasantly and loudly |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
53. I usually smack them down verbally. |
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Zephyrbird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
54. I say... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
56. I call them out, kick their ass |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
57. Unfortunately, I am always ALWAYS shocked speechless. I hate that. |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-24-08 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
59. I usually respond with absolute astonishment...like s/he is crazy for saying that. |
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