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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:42 PM Original message |
My friend's husband is a creepy jerk. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
1. Get her to set up her own bank account |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Exactly what I was going to say. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:47 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. No, it sounds like he does......... |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. Does her office give her check directly to him? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:54 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. Or it could land her in the hospital. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. I'm not being flippant. I was in a similar situation. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:57 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. Same here... and agreed... but first things first. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. All cheques are directly deposited into our chequing accounts..... |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Don't think she's going to do that anytime soon.......... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. Actually she does |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:09 PM Response to Reply #9 |
28. hmmmm.......that's food for thought. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
2. *sigh* |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. She's a nice person....... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:50 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. And she knows it... |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:47 PM Response to Original message |
5. It's very hard to see a friend in that situation. |
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Amerigo Vespucci (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:47 PM Response to Original message |
7. 2 immediate reactions to that. |
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mtnester (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
8. If she is hiding credit card charges from him |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. It's just a couple of thousand dollars on a credit card. |
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mtnester (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. I think you are right |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:00 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. She IS making the choice to stay......... |
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styersc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Almost a universal formula: Many good women choose crappy |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:13 PM Response to Reply #18 |
32. I just couldn't invest the energy in a crappy man...... |
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styersc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:34 PM Response to Reply #32 |
42. You seem to have figured out the secret of life. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
19. Hold on...she's still with him, why? |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:01 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. I don't know. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. Some reasons-- |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:17 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. I've never been in this kind of situation....... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:20 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. It is very difficult |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Yes, I'll be her friend........ |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
22. Save up, and get her a gift certificate next Christmas...for a good divorce attorney. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:04 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. ... |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:04 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. hell hath no fury...eh? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:06 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Yep |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #26 |
29. And rightly so. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:08 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. I'll work on helping her......but I like the part about the bolt cutters.... |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:12 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Maybe just get her a pair of bolt cutters LOL!. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. that's rather a snippy comment. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:16 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. But it did cut straight to the heart of the matter. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:18 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. I'm bolting outta here! |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:18 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. Shocking! |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:21 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. another idea. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
41. Sounds like he's threatened her if she leaves |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
43. I hope you can help her get out of there. |
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TreasonousBastard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
44. She needs to get away right now, but... |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
45. Gross. |
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