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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:19 PM Original message |
How do I get people to stop using the words "folks" and "gals"? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
1. My SiL uses "gal" |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:23 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. yep. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 10:52 AM Response to Reply #1 |
53. Yeah - folks is better than gals, but gals is better than "females" |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
3. Pull her aside and very gently let her know that her word choice... |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Well she's kind of a boss, PLUS I like her |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:27 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. The woman who spoke to me reported to me. |
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Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:30 AM Response to Reply #4 |
39. Oh. Well, I guess "Belt them in the mouth" is out, then. nt |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:56 PM Response to Reply #3 |
13. 'Professionalism' is crap |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Sorry, but the phrases you list are not professionalism in my book. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:14 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. They're what pass for 'professionalism' anymore |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:24 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. You really want to be pissed off, don't you? |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:39 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Not particularly, no |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 10:46 AM Response to Reply #28 |
50. Hey, winked at you. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:55 PM Response to Reply #28 |
60. Enlist me in your holy crusade, my liege! |
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laconicsax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:31 PM Response to Reply #19 |
38. Sorry, I hate to tell you this, but |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 10:50 AM Response to Reply #13 |
51. 'Professionalism' is crap |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 03:16 PM Response to Reply #51 |
75. Same here... it's all crap. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:53 PM Response to Reply #13 |
59. "it is what it is" I hate that. I promise to always say the following in that phrase's place... |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
5. i use folks when addressing groups of men and women |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:28 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. "Everyone, can I get your attention?" |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:36 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. everyone is a good one |
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TheFriendlyAnarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:39 PM Response to Reply #7 |
27. You're nicer than me. |
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MediaBabe (610 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:57 PM Response to Reply #27 |
69. Just had to inject profanity, did ya? |
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Lautremont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #69 |
73. I think he was joking! |
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Pogue.Mahone (46 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 02:20 PM Response to Reply #27 |
72. Devil Dog! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:56 PM Response to Reply #5 |
61. I always say "You people" |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
8. I don't see anything wrong with the term "folks". |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:37 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. If the people ARE your "folks" (kith and kin), fine. Otherwise, it's condescending. |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:39 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. How is it condescending? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:24 PM Response to Reply #8 |
36. that's because there is nothing wrong with the term "folks" |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
9. LOL, I just don't like it! It sounds so, well, so...... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:07 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. Your other option is to use "Ladies and Gentlemen" |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 11:18 AM Response to Reply #9 |
55. HA! If I knew the answer to that... |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
14. You'd probably be better off learning not to let it upset you. |
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MediaBabe (610 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:52 PM Response to Reply #14 |
68. That's the only real remedy, isn't it? n/t |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
17. I can't stand "folks" |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:13 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. I've always preferred... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:15 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Also gender neutral |
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Cabcere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:18 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. My high school physics teacher used to tell this story |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:45 AM Response to Reply #18 |
42. And when you want to tone it down a bit |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
21. "Folks" is a problem? Why? I don't get that at all. |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
23. Better than "guys" |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:29 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Geez, everyone here does that. My confirmation class is all girls, |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:37 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. "Midwestern for y'all" |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:56 PM Response to Reply #25 |
62. exactly! |
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MassLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:06 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. oops, I say "guys" AND "folks" |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:14 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. That's usually what I end up with |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
29. Would you like it better if she said "y'all"? |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
32. Learn to live with the fact that it is not possible for you to change |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
33. She was a big-boned gal from Southern Alberta - |
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1gobluedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
34. When you find out, tell me |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
35. wow, try getting over yourself |
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1gobluedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-27-08 10:27 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Sorry, but 'gal' seems very condescending to me |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:35 AM Response to Original message |
40. I don't mind the use of "folks" |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:37 AM Response to Original message |
41. You could just use 'y'all' instead. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
43. Not liking being called "gal," I understand. |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
44. Whatever you do, DON'T move to Buffalo. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
45. WTF is wrong with "folks"? |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:17 AM Response to Original message |
46. quit? |
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Adsos Letter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 02:56 AM Response to Original message |
47. So...you folks done in this thread...? |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 03:54 AM Response to Original message |
48. Move to New York or Jersey |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 04:22 AM Response to Original message |
49. You'll have a lot better luck changing your own reaction than you'll have changing others' behavior. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 10:51 AM Response to Reply #49 |
52. that is an eminently positive way to look at it. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 12:50 PM Response to Reply #52 |
58. My own experience is that irrational fear is a huge limiter of human potential. |
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Serial Mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
54. Join my husband in a campaign against those words |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
56. raised in the south, I say "folks" all the time.... |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
57. "Folks"? Really? That's such a...non-offensive word. |
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marzipanni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
63. Hey, peeps (peops?) this be-otch can think of worse terms. n/t |
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Ano Genitus (165 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
64. Move out of America. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:28 PM Response to Original message |
65. Move Up North |
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Ava (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
66. i take it you aren't southern? |
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Jimbo S (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
67. "Gal" = "Guy" |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
70. You don't. I do not recall your appointment as word monitor |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
71. The only time "folks" bothers me is when people only use it to describe black people. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
74. You can't. |
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Lautremont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
76. "Folks" is pretty hayseed, much like holding a cigar at a right angle to your fingers. |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
77. Ask her to use the inoffensive... |
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Gidney N Cloyd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
78. How about "you mugs"? Or just "youse"? |
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Crabby Appleton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-28-08 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
79. Resign in protest (All Three) |
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