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Edited on Fri Mar-07-08 06:05 PM by BlueIris
"Survivor"
I am hostile to ghosts though I know it isn't fair— I am here and they are there, like Sylvia Plath, who would be only a little younger if she'd lived, thickened up and wrinkled, no longer golden. Or Anne Sexton, who was born like me in 1928 and lived to be only a little over forty-five.
If they'd only toughened up and stayed the course, they'd be old now with liver spots and wattled necks, and more and more poems. But, instead, they are shades, more alive than when they were living.
It seems so strange that I, who had to hide the knives, refuse to learn to shoot, ignore the knots they teach you to make in Girl Scouts, who quickly poked the used razor blades down into those nasty little slots in the razor-blade box, or stood poised at windows more than once, shaken and pale, had to be blind to cans of roach powder and lye, who swallowed a dozen pills once, but didn't die, lives on in this world with all its ills, and only a little worse for wear.
There is no virtue in surviving, takes only sheer stupid guts, some call courage, but it isn't, though whatever it is, all survivors have it. Call it curiosity, cussedness, a perverted sense of humor, pride.
We can almost die laughing, thinking of ourselves, ludicrous, prone, like Juliet in the tomb, dead for no good reason, with all the other melancholy fools. So we decide to live on.
—Irene Rouse
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