What would someone have to do to you

[lost-in-nj]

that would make you NEVER want to talk or see them in any social function???

or for that matter ever if possible???
Thanks!!!!

lost

:shrug: :shrug:

just trying to figure things out........

[YellowRubberDuckie]

1. I'm not sure...

Most of the time, I'm like, to each his own. It's just subtle context and a feeling I get. I'm a really good judge of character.
Duckie

[lost-in-nj]

7. thanks for your

answer!!!

I am looking for all angles
and I never thought of this!


lost

[NMDemDist2]

2. I'm pretty fast to cut people from my herd

but I can be polite for short periods of time if needed. I don't hold grudges though so if enough time has passed I'd probably get over it short of major larceny or physical violence.

So my answer is major larceny or physical violence.

[lost-in-nj]

8. I understand!!!

Thanks


lost

[zanne]

40. If you hurt somebody I love. nt

[La Lioness Priyanka]

3. accuse me of bizzarre things or stalk me. cause weird drama. hit on me inappropriately

there is someone who always hits on me, doesnt matter if lisa is right there, i really try to avoid her

[TZ]

4. Easy: Backstab me. Lie to my face.Spy on me.

If I can't trust you, you don't belong in my life PERIOD. And yes, I just cut out people in my life because of this.

[lost-in-nj]

9. I know what you mean

:hug:


lost

[femmocrat]

23. Yes. Those work for me.

I hate lying, back-stabbing spies too!

:hi:

[Redstone]

5. Make a racist comment.

Redstone

[lost-in-nj]

11. I hear you

but I would have a few things to say
before I cut off ties.....

:hi:



lost

[Redstone]

14. As a guy who's half white, married to a woman who's half white, you can probably

imagine why that would be a trigger-point for me.

Redstone

[suninvited]

30. That was my answer

you beat me to it.

[Rabrrrrrr]

6. Extraordinary awful things, like wear a short-sleeve dress shirt,

cut their salad with their fish knife, or have a business card that isn't printed with raised lettering in a serif font.

[lost-in-nj]

12. bleh

:spank:

lost

[Blue-Jay]

10. Wear mis-matched socks.

Or maybe kick me in the junk.

Either one is grounds for a first-class shunning.

[lost-in-nj]

13. PSHAWWW

:rofl: :rofl:

but then again

if I got hit or kicked "there"

hmmmmmm


lost

[NJmaverick]

15. They would have to abuse and mistreat me pretty badly

I don't have the highest self esteem and a am very prone to forgive and forget. So you really have to do something really bad or continuously do something bad to reach that point.

Either that or just be a selfish arrogant SOB that gets on my nerves.:evilgrin:

[Xipe Totec]

16. Simple

Demote me.

It's been 20 years, and I still won't talk to her.

[ThomCat]

17. Quite a lot.

I have family I absolutely hate and dispise, and I go to social events where they will be. If They don't drive me away, then nobody else will.

[harmonicon]

37. I didn't post the original question, but I think family doesn't count

I have family who I can't stand. Some who I think are actually not good people at all, but I'm still at least civil towards them at family get-togethers.

[Gormy Cuss]

18. Let's see. Damage a child. Murder a loved one. Maybe a couple of other heinous crimes.

For normal assholes, I'd just as soon see them and make THEM feel uncomfortable for their behavior.

[Brigid]

19. They would have to have voted for *.

:evilgrin:

[Manifestor_of_Light]

20. Give me a commercial for Jeebus.

They are out of my life. Permanently. No questions asked.

[swag]

21. Separate two independent clauses by use of a comma.

[Sugar Smack]

24. I don't mean no harm, but

this completely obliterates your chances of hanging out with Margaret Atwood.

[swag]

26. Did you know the "wood" in her surname

referred to a prose style?

[woo me with science]

35. If they are truly independent clauses,

they won't mind being separated.

[swag]

41. I'm not concerned about their feelings. I'm concerned about mine.

[femmocrat]

22. Since I avoid most social functions, it wouldn't take much.

Actually it would take quite a bit for me to WANT to see them at a social function.

[Road Scholar]

25. Dear Lost..

I'm pretty big on respect. Anyway you slice it or dice it.
IT

[flvegan]

27. To me? Meh.

I guess just don't steal from me.

Otherwise, there are a number of things one could do to both animals and people that would make you an unwelcome attendee anywhere I am.

And ultimately, tbh, stealing from me is taking from my family/animals and that's the true reason behind that.

I don't care about me much.

[madinmaryland]

28. Probably this, Gorn...

On January 24th, 2009, in the oval office of the new Democratic president:

The Secretary of Defense is giving the President the daily briefing. He concludes by saying: "Yesterday, three Brazilian soldiers were killed."

"OH NO!" the President exclaims. "That's terrible!"

The President's staff sits stunned at this display of emotion, nervously watching as the President sits, head in hands.

Finally, the President looks up and says, "One Brazilian is too many! I am glad that we are beginning to draw down our presence in Iraq and put an end to this long national nightmare."

---

I'm not allowed in Delaware or New Joisey!

[Parche]

42. Tell Me They Were From Delaware

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

:hi:

[Starbucks Anarchist]

29. Post in GD:P.

[SPKrazy]

31. They would have to break my trust in such a way that they

had not only broken it, but had never made any effort to be forgiven, or tried to make amends.

I can forgive those who are forgivable. Those who make no effort to be worthy of forgiveness, well, I work on apathy towards them. I won't work on trying to forgive them though.

:hug: :hug:

[harmonicon]

38. good answer

My girlfriend is always telling me that I hold grudges for too long and should forgive people, but I can't forgive someone who's stolen from me, blackmailed me, etc. when I know that they would do so again if they had to do it over. Some of my best friends have done some really rotten shit and pissed me off and really hurt me, but they've also stayed friends because they made amends and I know they regret certain things.

[LeftyMom]

32. To me? We're talking felonies. I'm pretty forgiving. To my loved ones? Look at them funny.

I'll personally take a lot of shit, but if you even give a hint that you might hurt anybody I love you're going to find yourself hating life.

[khashka]

33. Ok

Cheat on me.

Coming from the original nonmonagous boy?

I don't care, I don't own your body. Have fun!

But lie to me, mess with my head? You've crossed the line.


Khash.

[Inchworm]

34. I'm an odd bird

I have a magic give to be able to push and pull simultaneously. :P

I'm outgoing yet private. I have very few friends I'd confide in, and each friend would have different secrets/etc to be trusted with. Save one.

If it is a friend in my close circle it wouldnt take much for me to write them off. Save two.

Cryptic at best, but thats part of me when I'm being deep. :D

Hey.. Lost.. I love you!!!

:hug::loveya::hi:

[Forkboy]

36. For most people just breathing works for me.

I'm aiming to be a total misanthrope by fifty!

[datasuspect]

39. snitch on me or one of my friends or family

or cause great harm to one of my friends or family.

[KG]

43. fuck wit' me.

that could mean alot of different things...

[Tikki]

44. Say something even slightly derogatory about....

any member of my family. Even if they say something as a casual observance...
and if I am not in a good mood I will take it as an insult...and that person is
gone, gone like a cool breeze.


Tikki

[MorningGlow]

45. Pass judgment on me

Especially on an issue where they didn't check with me to find out my point of view/what really happened. (Yeah, this has happened several times in my life--can you tell? :P)

[noonwitch]

46. Attempted date rape is where I draw the line.

And other violent behavior. Verbal talk-sticks and stones, rubber and glue, and all that.

[pitohui]

47. loan me money EOM

:-)