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lost-in-nj

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:16 PM
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Edited on Wed Apr-09-08 07:27 PM by lost-in-nj

my girlfriend was my older brothers best friend....
I mean die for each other friends.....

but he died in 2002, and
he is the voice on her answering machine.....
she is single and wanted a male voice
he took up the cause

I call when she's not home sometimes

so I can hear him and i love it.......
is this bad..????

on edit: she kept it there
cause it made her feel safe.......

lost

feeling really
sad, bad and ..... LOST tonight

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Parche

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:18 PM
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1. gorn

:hi:

:hug:

found gorn

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lost-in-nj

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:20 PM
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2. thank you parche

:hi:

:hug:

lost

thanks.......

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LeftyFingerPop

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:21 PM
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3. not only is that NOT bad...

it is a wonderful thing to do. :hug:

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lost-in-nj

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:26 PM
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7. ..

:hug:

lost

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Bullwinkle925

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:22 PM
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4. i think it's downright loving . . .

i only wish i had a recording of my husband's voice to listen to . . .

over & over & over & over & over again.

sigh

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lost-in-nj

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:29 PM
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9. oh sweetie

nothing??
no video?

:hug:

I know what I am feeling is nothing
to what you are feeling........

love you

lost

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Bullwinkle925

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:49 PM
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11. no - we can't really compare losses . . .

they are all the same in their intensity -

as my sis would say *it sucketh - mightily*!!

back at'cha . . .

:hug:

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CaliforniaPeggy

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:24 PM
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5. My dear lost...

Aw, sweetie...

What a lovely thing to do...

I hope she'll always have it so you can listen to it...

Take all the comfort you can from it, sweetie...

:hug:

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lost-in-nj

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:31 PM
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10. CP

she wants it always to....

she loved him....
and hopes her tape lasts forever......

lost

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bigwillq

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:25 PM
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6. I would do it too

If I were in your shoes. Ain't nothing wrong with it. :hug:

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greenbriar

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Wed Apr-09-08 07:27 PM
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8. that is nice

I wish I had a voice tape of my daddy

he has been gone 11 years and I so miss him and wish I could hear his voice

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SPKrazy

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Wed Apr-09-08 08:06 PM
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12. Sorry you feel so sad, bad and lost

nothing wrong with listening to it especially if it makes you feel good.

Hope you can feel better lost.

:hug: :hug:

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skygazer

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Wed Apr-09-08 08:08 PM
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13. oh, lost!

That's sad and beautiful and right. I'm glad you both can hear his voice. :hug:

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