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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-22-08 07:10 PM
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I have a crush.
Again. And it's making me quite stupid at the moment.

One of the people who's participating in the Day of Silence at my school (which I'm organzing) is quite cute. I've definitely seen her around and thought "damn, she's cute". But I don't think she really knows I exist, outside of me being "that chick who's organizing the day of silence". So naturally, I have no idea what her sexual orientation is.

Le sigh. I am a dork sometimes.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-22-08 07:18 PM
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1. If she's participating in the Day of Silence...
she's not-homophobic. Worst case scenario, she's straight and flattered.

(I might be wrong, but I don't think I am.)
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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-22-08 07:45 PM
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3. True.
Hmm. But then there's the issue of us not really knowing each other - but I can work on that. :P
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-22-08 07:49 PM
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4. You've got a couple days before DoS to strike up a conversation.
Can't really do it on the day itself though. :P
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JTG of the PRB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-22-08 07:20 PM
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2. Yeah, I've got one of those too right now.
I would have thought that once I was around the age of 25, I'd stop developing crushes, but... Alas, no such luck.

Crushes suck. x(
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cordelia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-22-08 09:44 PM
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5. Doll, I'm 50
and working on a crush, too.

I don't think you're ever too old.

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cordelia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-22-08 09:57 PM
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6. Don't underestimate yourself.
You ain't no dork.

I read more than I post, and I have seen many of your contributions. You're intelligent and witty. You're eloquent and compassionate, too.

Chat up the crush a little, and try to get an idea on her thoughts. Don't push.

Don't worry, Sweets. If she isn't the one, there is someone elsewhere that wants and deserves you.

Best.


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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-23-08 07:42 AM
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7. aww... thank you!
You're nice.

:hug:
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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-23-08 10:05 AM
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8. Ooh... and she has facebook!
Think I should add her? I mean, she's on the Day of Silence guest list, and we have four friends in common. I mean, we still haven't had an actual conversation yet, but think I should add her anyway? I don't want to seem like a stalker or anything.
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