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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 03:54 PM
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Why do people have to....
touch my jacket sweater, etc. - on the back of my chair - at work, whenever they come over to talk to me? Grrr. Alright, so I am a germaphobe (sp?). I still don't get it. I mean, isn't that intruding on one's personal space?

Does that kind of thing bother anybody else here?

I think the wind is making me irritable today.

x(
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 03:57 PM
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1. My dear KC2...
Hmmm...I guess it would depend on how it's done...

Are you wearing it when they touch it?

I'd guess not, from how you posted this...

Maybe a lot of your friends are touchy-feely types...:shrug:

I have not had that happen to me...

I'm sorry, sweetie...

I'm not sure how I'd react...

:hug:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 03:59 PM
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2. It's usually on the back of my chair...
and, the last time it happened, I asked the guy who did it to please take his hand off my clothes! lol Yes... he looked at me like I was from Mars. :-( Thanks for the hug, Peggy. :hug:
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:09 PM
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3. hey, now that you're a Harley Rider
...get a black leather vest and put a big skull and crossbones patch on the back of it. Then, if they touch it, tell them to get their damn hands off your cut or they'll pull back a stump :P
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:16 PM
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4. lol!
And, I would also be promptly escorted out of the building! :P
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:18 PM
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5. Got the wind up, do ya?
;-)
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:19 PM
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6. Yes!
Must be an ion charge of some sort, too. :(
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:24 PM
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7. Tell them not to do it.
Nicely tell them. I'm thinking it's just a force of habit, which I am sometimes guilty of. I am sure they will understand. :) :hi:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:25 PM
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8. How does one nicely explain that to a person, though?
Any suggestions? Thanks. :hi:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:39 PM
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11. Just say..
Hello, I would appreciate if you do not touch my jacket when you approach my desk. It's just a thing that I have. No offense. I hope you understand. Thanks.


:) :hi:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:41 PM
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12. I'll try....
my problem is the shocked tone in my voice! lol Thanks though! :-) :hi:
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:34 PM
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9. When they touch it, just work this into the conversation:
So sorry that's so dirty. I sneezed all over it this morning and haven't had time to clean it up!
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-30-08 04:37 PM
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10. lol!
Good one! :D
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