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dorktv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:30 PM
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Some advice pwease...
I have an ex-fiance who dumped me about 10 years ago. I owe him $1500 however I was well...a bit annoyed at him at the time so I have never made any effort to pay him back. I was on Facebook and I found his profile. So now the question is:


Now, should I pay him back or just ignore him and move on?
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:31 PM
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1. listen to the voices in your head
:)

:hi:
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dorktv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:33 PM
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3. the voices in my head are telling me that I should rip off these stupid fake nails.
not much help I am afraid.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:41 PM
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8. hehe
I'm just saying only you can know the details. If the ex ever hit you, screw him. If he took off with your girlfriend to Hawaii, same deal.

The thing about something like this, to me, is that I would do what felt right to me.

:shrug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:33 PM
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4. Sweetie
we all do not have "voices"...


'K???


lost


























:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:




:hug:
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:38 PM
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7. oh?
:rofl:

Hi you!

:*
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:32 PM
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2. If it were me
and I had the money
I would send a cashiers check with no return addy
but i would let him know we were even.....


:hi:


lost
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:33 PM
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5. First advice: don't use baby talk.
Second advice: if he's never said anything about it, you're probably pretty clear from an ethical standpoint. However, it sounds like it bothers you, so maybe it's worth paying him back just to know that you did and not have it haunt you any more. And, in the long realm of all things involving being alive, some things that one really can't ever overdo is paying debts, being honest, showing hospitality, apologizing, forgiving, and being kind.
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dorktv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-03-08 07:35 PM
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6. but I wike baby talk!
Actually I was around too many little kids today.

it is catching, thank you for the advice though.
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