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IntravenousDemilo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-04-08 11:49 PM
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The true meaning of sportsmanship (WARNING: LUMP-IN-THE-THROAT TIME)
I just saw this report on the late news and I had to look it up and share it with you guys. The story is truly remarkable and beautiful, and oddly life-affirming, but I can only give you a teaser.

Softball opponents offer unique display of sportsmanship
Brian Meehan, The Oregonian

Gary Frederick thought he had seen everything in 40 years at Central Washington University. He'd coached baseball and women's basketball for 11 years, been an assistant on the football team for 17 and athletic director for 18.

Last weekend, he learned he was wrong.

In the top of the second inning as his Wildcats played host to Western Oregon University in Ellensburg, Wash., something happened that spoke to the beauty of athletics. It came in the form of a home run that no one in attendance will forget.

"Never in my life had I seen anything like it," said Frederick, 70, in his 14th season as softball coach.

"It was just unbelievable."


More at: http://blog.oregonlive.com/breakingnews/2008/04/the_best_tale_of_sportsmanship.html
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-04-08 11:59 PM
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1. Lump in the throat, as well as tears in the eyes...
Just imagine...

If there were more folks like those girls in our government, how sweet this world would be!

You should have posted this in GD...

It needs to be on the Greatest Page, damn it!

K&R anyhow!

Thank you for bringing this to us...

:hug:
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IntravenousDemilo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:20 AM
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6. Yes, get out your hankies!
Gives you hope for humanity, doesn't it?

I suppose I could cross-post it over at GD. The people who don't frequent the Lounge could probably use something like this.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:10 AM
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2. Nice
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ZombieHorde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:11 AM
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3. K&R
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:15 AM
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4. Thank you for sharing that, IntravenousDemilo
Great story.. :patriot: <- imagine a Canadian flag
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krispos42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:17 AM
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5. Wow. The opposing team carried her around the bases!



That's... wow.

K&R
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:23 AM
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7. Wow.
What a great story!

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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:31 AM
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8. Wow!
That was a heartwarming solution to the conundrum.

And it reminded me another sporting gesture that made Sports Illustrated's Rick Reilly's Play of the Year back in 2002. (Not trying to one-up you; it just triggered a memory of a story worth sharing. One that I haven't even thought about it a long time.
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The Play of the Year
The Life of Reilly
Posted: Wednesday November 13, 2002 9:35 AM

Jake Porter is 17, but he can't read, can barely scrawl his first name and often mixes up the letters at that. So how come we're all learning something from him?

In three years on the Northwest High football team, in McDermott, Ohio, Jake had never run with the ball. Or made a tackle. He'd barely ever stepped on the field. That's about right for a kid with chromosomal fragile X syndrome, a disorder that is a common cause of mental retardation.

But every day after school Jake, who attends special-ed classes, races to Northwest team practices: football, basketball, track. Never plays, but seldom misses one.

That's why it seemed crazy when, with five seconds left in a recent game that Northwest was losing 42-0, Jake trotted out to the huddle. The plan was for him to get the handoff and take a knee.

Northwest's coach and Jake's best friend, Dave Frantz, called a timeout to talk about it with the opposing coach, Waverly's Derek Dewitt. Fans could see there was a disagreement. Dewitt was shaking his head and waving his arms.

After a ref stepped in, play resumed and Jake got the ball. He started to genuflect, as he'd practiced all week. Teammates stopped him and told him to run, but Jake started going in the wrong direction. The back judge rerouted him toward the line of scrimmage.

Suddenly, the Waverly defense parted like peasants for the king and urged him to go on his grinning sprint to the end zone. Imagine having 21 teammates on the field. In the stands mothers cried and fathers roared. Players on both sidelines held their helmets to the sky and whooped.

In the red-cheeked glee afterward, Jake's mom, Liz, a single parent and a waitress at a coffee shop, ran up to the 295-pound Dewitt to thank him. But she was so emotional, no words would come.

Turns out that before the play Dewitt had called his defense over and said, "They're going to give the ball to number 45. Do not touch him! Open up a hole and let him score! Understand?"

It's not the kind of thing you expect to come out of a football coach's mouth, but then Derek Dewitt is not your typical coach. Originally from the Los Angeles area, he's the first black coach in the 57-year history of a conference made up of schools along the Ohio-Kentucky border. He'd already heard the n word at two road games this season, once through the windows of a locker room. Yet he was willing to give up his first shutout for a white kid he'd met only two hours earlier.

"I told Derek before the play, 'This is the young man we talked about on the phone,'" Frantz recalled. "'He's just going to get the ball and take a knee.' But Derek kept saying, 'No, I want him to score.' I couldn't talk him out of it!"

"I met Jake before the game, and I was so impressed," Dewitt said. "All my players knew him from track. So, when the time came, touching the ball just didn't seem good enough." (By the way, Dewitt and his team got their shutout the next week, 7-0 against Cincinnati Mariemont.)

Into every parade a few stink bombs must fall. Mark Madden of the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette grumbled that if the mentally challenged want to participate in sports, "let them do it at the Special Olympics. Leave high school football alone, and for heaven's sake, don't put the fix in." A few overtestosteroned Neanderthals on an Internet site complained, "That isn't football."

No, it became bigger than football. Since it happened, people in the two towns just seem to be treating one another better. Kids in the two schools walk around beaming. "I have this bully in one of my classes," says Dewitt. "He's a rough, out-for-himself type kid. The other day I saw him helping a couple of special-needs kids play basketball. I about fell over."

Jake is no different, though. Still happy as a frog in a bog. Still signs the teachers' register in the principal's office every morning, ready to "work." Still gets sent on errands, forgets where he's going and ends up in Frantz's office. Still talks all the time, only now it's to NBC, ESPN and affiliates from CBS and Fox about his touchdown that won the game.

Yeah, Jake Porter thinks his 49-yard run made for a comeback victory. He thinks he was the hero. He thinks that's why there were so many grins and streaks down people's faces.

Smart kid.
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You can watch it here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrjASG1rJ3U
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Godhumor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:38 AM
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10. I remember the Mark Madden comment
Guy used to a pro wrestling announcer for WCW and has since tried to regain national attention via controversial comments (he's been hit on the race issue, as well).

I think it's a sweet story.
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IntravenousDemilo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:55 AM
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11. Oh, man, that was awesome! I proudly gave it five stars.
I love stories like this, where people show character and heart. Anyone else have any?
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Godhumor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 01:02 AM
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12. Rather big story in 2006 and from my home city (Rochester)
Edited on Mon May-05-08 01:04 AM by Godhumor
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2006/02/23/earlyshow/main1339324.shtml

(CBS) It was the stuff of Hollywood, but it was real.

Senior Jason McElwain had been the manager of the varsity basketball team of Greece Athena High School in Rochester, N.Y.

McElwain, who's autistic, was added to the roster by coach Jim Johnson so he could be given a jersey and get to sit on the bench in the team's last game of the year.

Johnson hoped the situation would even enable him to get McElwain onto the floor a little playing time.

He got the chance, with Greece Athena up by double-digits with four minutes go to.

And, in his first action of the year, McElwain missed his first two shots, but then sank six three-pointers and another shot (video), for a total of 20 points in three minutes.

"My first shot was an air ball (missing the hoop), by a lot, then I missed a lay-up," McElwain recalls. "As the first shot went in, and then the second shot, as soon as that went in, I just started to catch fire."

"I've had a lot of thrills in coaching," Johnson says. "I've coached a lot of wonderful kids. But I've never experienced such a thrill."

The crowd went wild, and his teammates carried the excited McElwain off the court.

"I felt like a celebrity!" he beamed.

McElwain's mother sees it as a milestone for her son.

"This is the first moment Jason has ever succeeded (and could be) proud of himself," reflects Debbie McElwain. "I look at autism as the Berlin Wall, and he cracked it."

His teammates couldn't be happier.

"He's a cool kid," says guard Levar Goff. "You just get to know him, get used to being around him. A couple of weeks ago, he missed practice because he was sick. You feel different when he's not around. He brings humor and life to the team."

Jason's next goal: to graduate.
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IntravenousDemilo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 01:29 AM
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14. See? Jason just needed a chance to show the world what he can do. Everyone deserves that chance.
Are you in Rochester now? On clear days I can see it from Toronto Island.
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Godhumor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 01:30 AM
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15. Buffalonian now
Edited on Mon May-05-08 01:30 AM by Godhumor
Bummer that fast ferry from Rochester to Toronto was a) stupid b) ridiculous and c) didn't work.
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IntravenousDemilo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 02:39 AM
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16. Ahh, I go through Buffalo when I take the train to NYC. So far I've only seen the station.
But of course the US television channels we get are all from Buffalo, so I almost feel I know the place.

I think the ferry also got a bit damaged either here or in Rochester, which fatally delayed the launch. And it wasn't really that fast. I mean, what, five hours or something like that, to cover a distance of roughly 100 miles? I'd sure hate to take the slow ferry.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 12:37 AM
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9. HEY EVERYBODY! GET OVER TO GD, AND KICK THIS!
This thread has been cross-posted there, and it needs recommendations!

Let's get this story out there!

:bounce: :bounce:
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orleans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 01:17 AM
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13. peggy, got a link? never mind--i got it
Edited on Mon May-05-08 01:18 AM by orleans
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 07:34 AM
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18. Heck, I'm tempted to cross-post it to GDP. n/t
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-05-08 06:36 AM
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17. This is just an amazing, wonderful story.
I love this story. This is sportmanship and then some.

Thank you, honey, for posting this.

SHMILY
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