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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:28 PM
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I need some cheering up.
My sort-of (now ex) girlfriend just send me an e-mail saying "This is not going to work. I'm sorry."

I have no idea what I did.

I suck.
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:33 PM
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1. I doubt you did anything
Sounds like the issue is on her end.
Sorry to hear that. But perhaps its for the best...:hug:
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OhioChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:38 PM
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2. I'm sorry....
If you don't even know what you did, then I doubt you did anything wrong. Maybe it's better you found out now rather than later. :hug:

No, you don't suck. :pals:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:38 PM
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3. I'm sure it's not you.
Sounds like it's on her end. And it's probably a good thing in the long run that she called it off before it got too painful.
We've all been there. If you need to vent, 's what we're here for. :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:39 PM
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4. My dear AspieGrrl...
It is so tough to be cut off that way...

I've had it happen too, and I still remember how I felt...

She's young, like yourself, and doesn't know how to do it gracefully yet...

I'm sorry, sweetie...

Often we do not know just what triggered the break, but there it is...

Be yourself! Hold your head up, and proceed into your future!

Someday (I know you're tired of hearing this, but I can't help it) you will find someone who will love you for yourself!

:hug:
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Rising Phoenix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:39 PM
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5. babe
I'm hear for you....we can listen to angry chick music and drink beer....seriouly though I know all about that, pm me anytime
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Rhythm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:49 PM
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6. You probably didn't DO anything...
Unfortunately, in high school, romantic situations can be as fickle as the wind.

Don't self-deprecate; there's no point. Just go with your heart
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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 08:56 PM
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7. I guarantee it was nothing you did.
Not *really*. Perhaps she's not very open or comfortable with her sexuality and/or with herself.

I'm very sorry. :hug:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 09:00 PM
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8. AspieGrrl, I know ..
You were so looking forward to this upcoming date and now this. I'm sure you haven't done anything wrong and I'm so sorry you're hurting. I don't know if it's for the best or not. I hope your days get better and you get some closure to this, whatever that might mean.

:hug: for you x10

aA
kesha
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