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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:22 PM
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I need a hug...
...it's over. Short and intense, destroyed over a simple misunderstanding. :cry:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:23 PM
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1. Here is one!


:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:30 PM
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8. Thanks Kitchy...
Not going through this again, oh no.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:24 PM
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2. always
:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:32 PM
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9. Thanks Kagehime...
...I'm going back to 'just hanging on' status, now.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:24 PM
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3. Isn't that usually the case?
misunderstanding?

lack of communication, festers, no talk, avoidance, then over.

sorry...:hug: :hug: :hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:36 PM
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10. it didn't even get to that point...
it was more like 'let Karen think she's special, have her respond, stop communicating and ignore her calls because...' and then dumped because I've called him too many times!
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:42 PM
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15. oh brother
good riddance my friend

sorry it hurts

:hug: :hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:56 PM
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19. I wish I knew...
...WTF I did. He stopped communicating with me and I was just supposed to say, Oh well, he'll call me when he gets around to it? And I'M the sick one?? :wtf:
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mwdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:25 PM
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4. I'm so sorry
Here's a big hug from the DFW area!:grouphug: Don't ever give up.
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:37 PM
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11. thanks mwdem...
...it's too late, I've already given up. Hurts too much.
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:25 PM
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5. Of course.
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:37 PM
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12. Thanks Ptah...
...you're a sweetie.
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:25 PM
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6. oh no!
i'm sorry. :hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:38 PM
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13. Thanks CreekDog...
:cry:
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TK421 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:27 PM
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7. I'm not sure what your problem is, but I can give a hug right now!
:pals: but perhaps I missed something?
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:40 PM
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14. Thanks TK421...
...in a nut shell:
Met a nice guy (I thought) who treated me nice to begin with. Turned into a jerk. Karen's heart is temporarily broken
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greenbriar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:43 PM
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16. I'm sorry
seems to be too much of this right now


:grouphug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:17 AM
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24. Thanks greenbriar...
...:hug:
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TK421 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:52 PM
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18. Sorry to hear it.....I have felt that I am stronger on my own, at least at this
point in my life....believe in yourself! That is all that matters nowadays....but I'm being bitter, here...
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:57 PM
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20. Thanks TK421...
:hug:
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TK421 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:59 PM
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22. Anytime, Ashes......
anytime.....:D
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:48 PM
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17. I'm sorry...
:hug: I hope your heart heals...
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 11:58 PM
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21. Thanks grannylib...
...doesn't feel like it right now. :(
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:10 AM
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23. Never does, when you're right in the middle of it all...
:-( And it sucks, and it hurts, and it just feels BAD and oh, man, I remember...
I really am sorry to hear you're going through such pain - I won't give you any trite little platitudes, because they don't help much. But I do hope that you WILL heal, and that those who do love and care for you will help you through a tough time, as best they can.
:hug:
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porcelain_doll Donating Member (124 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:17 AM
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25. Aww, hun...
:hug:
It's okay..time does heal. Feel better.. :(
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:22 AM
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28. Thanks porcelain_doll...
:hug:
Welcome to DU, as well.
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porcelain_doll Donating Member (124 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 01:16 AM
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31. You're welcome..
And thanks. :)
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:19 AM
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26. Hugs are free
and should be given away to anyone with much kindness and love...

here is yours.

:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:23 AM
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29. Thanks jasonc...
...it's appreciated.
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Connonym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:21 AM
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27. incoming
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:23 AM
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30. Thanks Connonym...
:hug:
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 11:35 AM
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32. Aw sweetheart, be well, and may the next, better thing come along soon.
:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:10 PM
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34. Thanks Peake...
...I'm sure it will. :hug:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 11:38 AM
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33. ...
:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:11 PM
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35. Thanks redqueen...
:hug:
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:14 PM
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36. By definition, misunderstandings can be worked out...
Let the dust settle, then see if it can be worked out.

After a day or so, true misunderstandings give way to the good things in a relationship.

Don't think it is over yet, ok?

Work on it, even though it may seem impossible now...work on it.

:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 12:55 PM
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37. check your PM
:hug:
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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 04:35 PM
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38. Here ya go.
It happens.

:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 10:54 PM
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42. Thanks AspieGrrl
:hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 05:41 PM
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39. (((Ashes)))
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 10:55 PM
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43. Thanks Applegrove...
:hug:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 08:10 PM
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40. ...
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 10:55 PM
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44. Thanks DarkTirade...
:hug:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 09:04 PM
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41. Sending hugs to you...
:hug: :hug: :hug:

Please don't give up because of that guy, ok? There are plenty of fishes... really! :hug:


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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 10:56 PM
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45. Thanks KC2...
...It just seems like I'm flypaper for freaks. :sigh:
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 10:57 PM
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46. I'm sorry you are sad

I hope someone else comes along and sweeps you off your feet. :hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 11:04 PM
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47. If you know anybody...
liberal and single, who wouldn't mind moving down here, let me know ok? :hug:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 11:08 PM
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48. Aw crap.
Sorry to hear that, FTA.

:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 11:11 PM
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49. all that advice...
Edited on Wed May-28-08 11:18 PM by From The Ashes
...and all for naught. :hug:

check your PM.
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Pushed To The Left Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-29-08 01:26 AM
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50. Sorry to hear that
:hug: What happened?
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