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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 12:21 AM Original message |
How do you deal with it if your parents have a favorite child and it isn't you? |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 12:35 AM Response to Original message |
1. Are you and your sister close? |
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samuraiguppy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
2. same thing in my family. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
3. Oh dear |
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astral (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 01:15 AM Response to Original message |
4. my mom always favored my little brother |
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nadine_mn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 01:15 AM Response to Original message |
5. It totally sucks when you are the only child and still not the favorite |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 02:04 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Oh... |
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1Hippiechick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 06:01 PM Response to Reply #5 |
30. Ya know - we all have so-called family members who are TOXIC to us - you learn to avoid at all costs |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 01:58 AM Response to Original message |
6. It's hard to advise without knowing how bad the extent of it is, |
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patomime (274 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 02:01 AM Response to Original message |
7. Oh God --- |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 02:07 AM Response to Original message |
9. I am the oldest |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 02:35 AM Response to Original message |
10. That happened to me, too. The way my mom mothered me |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 02:47 AM Response to Original message |
11. By making snarky comments my sister isn't smart enough to understand. |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 06:48 AM Response to Original message |
12. My mom has always given the boys preferential treatment |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
13. I'm the oldest, and the least liked by my mother. |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
14. I don't deal with it |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 07:46 AM Response to Original message |
15. Just ignore it. Yes I know, |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
16. I've always felt that |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
17. My mother is 90 and in a nursing home. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
18. I was the middle child and it really sucked. My mother favored my younger sister |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
19. My older sister is perfect |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
20. This really has nothing to do with who your mother's favorite child is |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 09:24 AM Response to Reply #20 |
23. That's good advice. |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
21. I have a friend who was in the same predicament. |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 08:54 AM Response to Original message |
22. Living with her magnifies the issues |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 02:13 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. I think I'm going to move Nov 1 |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 06:20 PM Response to Reply #27 |
33. You've got them |
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pnutbutr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
24. couple options |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
25. Step 1-don't pass it on to your kids |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
26. My mother favors my sister, and my father favors me. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
28. *Waves to nadineb above!* Knowwhatchamean! |
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1Hippiechick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
29. As God is my witness, I don't know how ANY parent can have a favorite child! It seems IMPOSSIBLE to |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
31. I just ignore it. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
32. These things have a way of working themselves out, as I just learned. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
34. I don't have that problem, but what I'd do is - cut the manipulative abusive bitch out of my life, |
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lady raven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-23-08 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
35. I experience it with my mother |
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