Woooo-freaking-hoooooo!!!!!

[mcctatas]

I saw the ex for the first time in 12 days and did not collapse into a quivering heap, as a matter of fact, it all of a sudden hit me that he can't hurt me anymore! I was calm, cool and collected, especially when the court commissioner denied his request for joint placement as "ridiculous", long story short, I have my babies except for every other weekend and I can start rebuilding my life! (OK, so it isn't final until July 7th, but the worst part is over!)

Thank you everyone for the vibes and support and smart-assery that made me laugh when it was very much needed!

MUCH LOVE!!!

mcctatas

[TZ]

1. congrats!

It sounds like the worst is over! :toast:

[KitchenWitch]

2. I am so happy for you and your children

:woohoo:

[seemunkee]

3. Great news

Glad things went smoothly.

[Flaxbee]

4. what a HUGE relief!

I hope you can relax some this weekend, and feel good about moving forward. I'm very happy for you!

[CaliforniaPeggy]

5. My dear mcctatas!

Oh, that is wonderful, miraculous news!

I am so relieved to hear this!

Congrats to you and your children for weathering this storm...:loveya: :hug: :loveya:

[SoxFan]

6. Will you and the STBX be living in the same area?

In my experience, that makes the whole issue of custody and visitation a hell of a lot easier to resolve before the final hearing.

[applegrove]

7. That is good news.

[bigwillq]

8. YAY!

:hi: :hug:

You're stronger than you think! :)

[ThomCat]

9. Yay!

:woohoo:

:toast:

:party:

That's wonderful! I'm very, very happy for you. I'm glad it went that well. :hug:

I hope he doesn't turn that every other weekend into hell for you somehow. He sounds like a resourceful bastard from what little I've seen you post. But that's a worry for later.

Tonight, I hope you're celebrating. :)

[Pierre.Suave]

10. Yay

from the iPhone!

[seaker]

11. You were very brave and smart

Well done!

[PaddyBlueEyes]

12. MY QUEEN

You are a beautiful, caring, loving, strong, resilient, and amazing woman...It is my honor to have you love me....I am so proud of you, for standing strong, doing the right thing....and through it all, contiuing to be the amazing mother that you are...I am proud to have you by my side..I love you eternally and passionately.....forever yours, your Paddy.....

[elshiva]

13. Awww! PaddyBlueEyes, that is so sweet and I know it's all true.

I wish, mcctatas and PaddyBlueEyes a great life together. Best of love to the children, too. :hug: :grouphug:

[Aristus]

14. Here's love back atcha, mcctatas!

:hug:

I'm SO happy for you! :bounce::toast::party::fistbump:

[rurallib]

15. My dear McTatas

I thought I would imitate california Peggy to congratulate you!

[BarenakedLady]

16. I hope it goes smoothly for you.

I thought my last mediation appt. was tonight, but it isn't until Monday. In NY we have to wait a full year after filing legal separation to get a divorce. So I have a bit to go.

Vibes to you.