I do believe that I am going through one of the most difficult times of my life...

[LeftyFingerPop]

And the thing is, I can't talk about it.

When I was 20, my girlfriend's mom killed herself, and I developed a pacing habit because of it for a few years.

This is worse than that.

No funny habits or anything, just a lot of shit for a 50 year old man to face.

Oh well.

What the fuck anyway.

My shrink even blew it off.

What do you do?

Ask for vibes?

I don't think so.

This feels like the end game.

Physical and mental. Can't begin to even talk about it. Typing helps, so no response is fine. I'm probably off to bed soon anyway. If I let it all out, I would write a book.

[I Have A Dream]

1. I think that you should write your book, LeftyFingerPop.

It would probably be very therapeutic.

I hope that you feel better soon. :hug:

[LeftyFingerPop]

2. I'm too weak to do that...

but thank you. :hug:

[Lil Missy]

3. Talk to me.

I wouldn't dream of ignoring you.

PS: I'll send you my phone number. Call me.

[LeftyFingerPop]

4. Thank you...but it doesn't matter.

[Lil Missy]

5. Yes it does. Call me, just for shits and grins. ;-)

[LeftyFingerPop]

6. I can't. But thank you so much.

I'm muzzled. i don't know where to turn.

[Lil Missy]

7. Would you please just call me, and we can be muzzled together?

[omega minimo]

14. if it didn't matter

you wouldn't have posted................

[LeftyFingerPop]

20. True that.

[Dystopian]

8. Please know....

You are in my heart and thoughts tonight....:hug:

peace~

[grasswire]

9. I don't even know you, but I care.

We're each of us in some kind of stew these days. Caring about each other's welfare is the only way to get through -- it separates us from the cold-hearted folks.

We're here to listen.

[LeftyFingerPop]

17. Thank you...I appreciate this. n/t

[Lil Missy]

10. Dammit, (I know your name). If you take the end game, I'll haunt you forever.

I expect a phone call in the next few hours.

[Dystopian]

11. Lil Missy...

You never fail to renew my belief in the goodness of humanity...
You're a beautiful soul...
You never give up....I really admire you.

peace~

[Lil Missy]

13. Well, thank you!

I don't know what I have said or done for you to say that, but I appreciate it all the same.

:hug:

[Dystopian]

15. All you have to do...

is look upthread...just one example of how wonderful you are...
I am going to bed with hopes that you get a call...:hug:
I'm feeling it, too....

peace~

[LeftyFingerPop]

16. Thank you Dystopian, all is ok. n/t

[Shell Beau]

33. It is your actions hon!

:hug:

[omega minimo]

12. Write The Book!!!!

:bounce: :hug:


an ya know what? at your age, your story has a lot to offer others going thru these times, too. :grouphug:

[LeftyFingerPop]

18. I'm too goddamn lazy,,,,

Thank you :hug:

[Lil Missy]

19. Ahhh! You're up! Would you please call me?

[omega minimo]

21. Buddy if you "'too lazy" you ain't done. That book is IN YOU.

:yourock:

[3.14158675309]

24. A book is overwhelming. Just journal a little each day. Or post like you did here.

Dude, I have an idea of what you are going through. I'm near 50, and my life is in the process of exploding.

But life is a journey; I think we just keep on in the hopes of better days ahead. They will come, if we let them.

:pals:

[SPKrazy]

22. One freakin' day at a time

or minute at a time is the way to do it man, pace, or do whatever, just keep moving forward and walk through whatever all is going on.

Sorry you are dealing with so much that it feels like the end game. Hope it's not.

take care of yourself dude

:hug:

[kedrys]

23. Hang in there

If you're feeling too lazy to write the book, get a cheap little recorder and dictate the damn thing to yourself. Even if nobody else ever hears it, you'll feel better.

:hug: :pals: :loveya:

[BuelahWitch]

25. I like you. I love reading your posts

You're one of the reasons I come to the Lounge. Your OP said "typing helps" so I'm going to add my voice (or typing ;-) to everyone who is saying to write it down. You never know, somebody else might be feeling the same thing and it will help them too. :hug:

[Midlodemocrat]

26. I am really sorry to hear this. If I can help you in any way

please let me know.

:hug:

[CreekDog]

27. I hope you'll confide in someone

And if your counselor isn't helping, then you may want to get another.

Thinking of you. :pals:

[applegrove]

28. Keep a journal. It really helps when something huge happens. You cannot be expected

to process it all at once. Keep a journal my friend.

[rug]

29. .

[omega minimo]

30. How're you doing today?

The journal idea is excellent. Or post here, get those ideas flowing, let em out.

[quakerboy]

31. You dont know me. I dont know you

If you need to talk, I am just a message away.

[Shell Beau]

32. I am sorry. Life can be full of SHIT sometimes. A lot of the times for

some people. I can offer a big fat :hug:! Tomorrow is a new day. :pals: