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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 10:09 AM Original message |
How does one learn to be a good communicator? |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
1. Hey dude... |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:48 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Thanks. n/t |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
2. What is a conversation? |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:49 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Well for me, I am often stuck for words. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
3. practice listening to people and learning to ask them questions about |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Yes, I often do not ask questions. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 03:50 PM Response to Reply #9 |
18. it's interesting, I often wonder if practicing interviewing people |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
4. I have the same problem |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Yes and I thought this person was that one. |
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deucemagnet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
5. I respect your willingness to change, but I don't think there's anything wrong with you. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:56 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. Well I think I have made the mistake of confounding introversion with shyness. |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:38 PM Response to Original message |
6. I totally feel your pain. I really do. I've just recently stopped beating myself up over it though. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. Yes that makes perfect sense. |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. I know, I really do. It wasn't easy, but I started out simple. When I walk along the halls at work, |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
11. It's hard to be sensitive/shy and then make yourself vulnerable |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
13. Gf, please work on _yourself_ and how you perceive _yourself_. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 01:00 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Thank you. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
16. Try a beginners' acting class |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
19. It sounds like issues with boundaries rather than shyness. |
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northernlights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
20. you could try taking my oral communications class |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 06:40 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. It's an opposite class! |
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northernlights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 07:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. oh, my science professors are wonderful communicators!!!! |
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historian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
22. take this advice from an older man |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 10:41 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. That's good advice |
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Pharlo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
24. For me, personally, I have trouble with polite social chit chat. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 10:43 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. This is not just for personal relationships |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
25. A Great Communicator... |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
26. One possibility is finding another introvert |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 10:47 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. My boyfriend is an introvert too but not shy. |
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RandomThoughts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 07:58 PM Response to Original message |
27. I try to learn by following the exceptional examples set by |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-13-09 12:52 AM Response to Original message |
31. Easy...you know that voice that tells you that saying something might not be smart? Kill that voice |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-13-09 01:00 AM Response to Original message |
32. *edit* dupe |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-13-09 01:00 AM Response to Original message |
33. If you find out, lemme know. |
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