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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:31 PM Original message |
As a rule of thumb, how soon is too soon to move in together? |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
1. A good time frame is when you are ready. And if he does not give you that time, he's a creep. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
2. If you have to ask, it's too soon, IMO |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:43 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. I think you are right. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:46 AM Response to Reply #2 |
39. And maybe someday they might just....hold hands in public (giggle) |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
3. Before you want him/her there is too early, no matter what he/she feels/says/assures you. |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
4. He's gotta put a ring on it before he moves in |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:42 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Part of me is afraid that I will never be able to live with anyone ever. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 07:59 AM Response to Reply #5 |
30. If that's you, why fear it? |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #4 |
18. Beyonce? n/t |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
7. He sounds kind of pushy |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. I agree with the three-month rule. |
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CJCRANE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
8. Two months sounds too soon. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. I think so too. |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
9. It depends on the couple. But if you weren't ready, he should've respected that |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
10. You won't have to ask anybody when the "real deal" comes along. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. I am not sure I agree. |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 09:36 PM Response to Reply #14 |
25. That's entirely possible. I was hit by Lightning..The real shitty Kind. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:07 AM Response to Reply #10 |
31. Well, if it worked out, good for them. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
13. maybe he's the problem, sounds like it to me. |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
15. If he pressured you to move in then you made the right decision NOT to do it. |
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dkofos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
16. When the lease is up |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
17. Don't do it the way I did it |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
19. if you love him and it feels right |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
20. It depends. You have to trust your heart on matters like these. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
21. This is his loss. If he can not get past that then you guys will never |
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Resuscitated Ethics (319 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
22. An ex joke! |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
23. Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, but I think these things just have a |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
24. Ever. (n/t) |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
26. Unless you are dating a homeless gut two months is way to soon |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
27. Listen to the little voice in your head. |
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stewartcolbert08 (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 05:25 AM Response to Original message |
28. You should be together at least a year! |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 07:57 AM Response to Original message |
29. He sounds like a controlling type. "Dear Abby" just listed "too much, too soon" as one sign. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:21 AM Response to Original message |
32. There is no rule of thumb. Just whenever it feels right. |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:23 AM Response to Original message |
33. If you have to post that question on an online webform - then it's too soon |
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Jimbo S (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
34. She moved in after we were engaged. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
35. When it feels right. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
36. a year-ish. though lisa and i moved in earlier than that |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 09:16 AM Response to Original message |
37. My girlfriend and I moved in together after 3 years, and even then as a trial gig |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
38. depends on the people/situation. |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:13 PM Response to Original message |
40. You know when you know. I was once bitten, twice shy. |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
41. He's just using that as an excuse. If you had moved in, you'd |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
42. What does a lesbian always bring on a second date? |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
43. Maybe he wanted someone to pick up dirty socks. |
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