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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:26 PM
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My mom had another heart attack today.
Edited on Wed Mar-25-09 09:26 PM by Lyric
It's bad. She's had severe emphysema for years, and three previous heart attacks. They're going to have to do open-heart surgery for her to even have a chance, and because her lungs are in such bad condition, they aren't sure that she'll make it through the surgery.

She wants to see her grandkids again before they put her under--probably tomorrow. I'm not sure how we're going to figure that one out, as there are some obstacles involved, but we're going to try.

I have pretty much no minutes left on my phone, so if you have my number, please don't think I'm being rude if you try to call and nobody answers. I have to save what I have for talking to my sister and the hospital.

Please keep our family in your thoughts. I feel so damned helpless right now, and horribly, horribly afraid.

Edit: I now have minutes on my phone--thank you, you-know-who. Rhythm is talking to Mom right now--she's in cardiac ICU, but is awake and aware and comfortable. They have her on several kinds of blood thinners and other medicines plus oxygen, and she has to go first thing in the morning for a catheter procedure to find out where the blockages are and how the surgery will need to proceed.

The surgery that they'll be doing is a bypass procedure called a CABG ("cabbage".) It is supposedly the most common type of bypass surgery in the country. Hers will be complicated because of her severe emphysema. We're staying hopeful, though. God knows she's survived things almost as bad as this before. My mother has some seriously powered-up healing capabilities.

I love you all. Thank you for being here.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:29 PM
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1. I hope that the surgery is successful.
I'll be thinking of your family and sending vibes. :hug:
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:29 PM
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2. Good vibes for your mom...
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:30 PM
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3. Sending out my best vibes to Mom.
And to you and your family. :hug:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:30 PM
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4. Will be thinking of you
and your mom and family.

Hope all goes well.

:hug: :hug: :hug:
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:33 PM
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5. Holding you, your Mom and family in positive thoughts Lyric
:hug: If you can all be there with her, it will give her comfort....
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:35 PM
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6. Oh, sweetie. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
Prayers, vibes, good thoughts for you, your mom and your entire family.
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:36 PM
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7. Thank you.
I'm about to die right now. I feel like shit for having my phone turned off all day while we were in school. My sister says that they were trying and trying to call us.

I've always thought that I'd be ready for this, but I'm not. I'm not.

:cry:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:39 PM
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8. You know, the doctor told me that Mr.Midlo probably wouldn't come
off the bypass machine. He did. ANd he remains an enormous pain in my ass ever since.

Keep the faith, sweetie. Have hope. :hug:
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:44 PM
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9. I think that's what they're doing to Mom.
I haven't been able to talk to her yet, but I'm going to here in a little while, so I can find out if it's bypass surgery that they'll be doing. I'm pretty sure that must be the case--what other heart surgery do heart attack patients usually need, right?
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:52 PM
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11. They might be simply placing a couple of stents.
Either way, stay positive. I am sure you will have a good outcome. :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:44 PM
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10. I hold your mom and you in my heart...
I am so very sorry to hear this, my dear Lyric...

:hug: :hug:
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leftyclimber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 09:05 PM
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12. Oh, honey.
All my and Mr_leftyclimber's vibes to your mom, her husband, your household, and all the rest of your family.

Don't be afraid to get a bit aggro on the doctors and nurses if you think something's not right. But you knew that already.

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
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Dinger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 09:08 PM
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13. Healing Vibes Being Sent To Your Mom
:grouphug:
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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 09:09 PM
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14. ((Hugs))
:hug:
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 09:26 PM
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15. kicking for the update in the OP
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jellen Donating Member (300 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 09:32 PM
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16. Wish her well.
I can only pray for her. I do believe there is always hope.
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 10:07 PM
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17. Well I feel pretty much exhausted and wrecked right now.
I'm going to go lay down.

Thank you all, and goodnight. If I hear anything else, I'll post.

:grouphug:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 10:08 PM
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18. *hugs and healthy vibes going out!*
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 10:14 PM
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19. Your whole family is in my thoughts
always. :grouphug:

:loveya:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 10:16 PM
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20. Best wishes to your mom.
And to you and your family, too.
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 10:19 PM
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21. Vibes for all the best for you and your family.
We love you and we are here for you.

:hug:
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mvd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 10:20 PM
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22. Sending out healing vibes to your mom
:hug:
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 10:25 PM
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23. Good vibes for your mom.
:hug: :hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:21 PM
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24. Vibes for you mom.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:34 PM
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25. i'm keeping all of you in my thoughts
:hug:
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:36 PM
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26. Prayers for your Mom.
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:37 PM
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27. I'm thinking of you and hoping for a good outcome
a friend who is elderly, had emphysema, still smokes and had a bad heart was going through something similar a year ago and he came through the surgery and is doing okay these days.

best wishes to you.
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Zoigal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:55 PM
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28. Will be thinking of your mom, you and your family
Try and stay positive and have faith in the surgeons. Sitting in the waiting room
waiting for the outcome can be brutal. I've done it. Husband came out of it
almost as good as new. Wishing you all the very best....z
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 12:01 AM
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29. Awww, I hope everything comes out good.
((((( Vibes )))))

:hug:
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Maccagirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 01:28 AM
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30. Healing light to your dear mom.
:grouphug:
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:42 AM
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31. ((((( Lyric and Mom of Lyric )))))
I wish more people knew how dangerous heart issues can be.
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fight4my3sons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 08:20 AM
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32. best wishes, vibes, everything I can muster for your mom
you and all of your family :hug:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 08:27 AM
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33. oh lord. sorry to hear that. hugs and kisses to you
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leftyclimber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 11:54 AM
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34. Kick for LyricMom. nt
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 12:34 PM
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35. good thoughts and vibes
for your mom,you
and your family


:hug:




lost
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 01:56 PM
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36. Just saw your post. I wish you all strength, healing and comfort.
:hug:
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