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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:07 PM
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My Stepdad just died of Pancreatitis.
He was in the hospital in a coma for a month. They never figured out what caused it. He was only 47. :cry:
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:10 PM
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1. Geez that's awful
I'm so sorry Odin...:hug:
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:10 PM
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2. I'm sorry, Odin.
You must feel awful. :hug::pals:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:11 PM
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3. Oh no...
:hug:

Only 47?? :(
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:12 PM
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4. So young! I am sorry!
:pals:
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abq e streeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:12 PM
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5. I'm so sorry to hear this---my deepest sympathies to you and your family
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siligut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:17 PM
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6. They never figured out what caused the coma?
Oh, man. The pancreatitis could have iatrogenic but you still don’t know why he went into a coma? I am so sorry.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:26 PM
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9. The coma was medically induced, it's the infection the never figured out the cause of.
:(
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siligut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:37 PM
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12. Thank you for explaining that to me.
And again, I am so sorry. We don’t expect to lose our parents at such a young age. My sympathies to you and your family.
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:19 PM
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7. I am so sorry for your loss!
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:23 PM
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8. I'm so sorry. My deepest condolences.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:34 PM
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10. I am very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:37 PM
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11. I'm sorry for your loss, Odin.

:hug:
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:40 PM
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13. I'm so very sorry.
Condolences for your loss.

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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:06 PM
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14. Just got back from the hospital.
Edited on Fri May-29-09 08:07 PM by Odin2005
The immediate cause of death was internal bleeding followed by heart failure. He was getting better after each surgery they did on his pancreas but then all of a sudden crashed at about 2:30 PM and died a few minutes later. :(

Thanks all you guys for the Condolences :grouphug:
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:09 PM
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15. I'm sorry, Odin.
I don't know what to say. That's too young. :(
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RagAss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:11 PM
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16. I'm very sorry.
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:13 PM
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17. Oh, Odin, I'm so sorry and I heart and prayers and thoughts go out to you.
What shock this must be, especially since usually there are some clues before that age if someone may have pancreatitis to that extent.

I'm so sorry.

:cry:

Please accept my deepest sympathies and profound compassion for you and your family at this time.

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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:14 PM
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18. That is too young
I'm so sorry. Sending hugs to you and your family. :hug: :grouphug:
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Mopar151 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:04 PM
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19. I truly mean no harm
But was he a drinkin' man? I temped as a substitute for a guy who was out on a medical for this for a couple months last year, got curious and read up - 60 % of Acute Pancreatitis cases stem from alcahol abuse - something to do with a beatup liver backing bile up into the pancreas. Sad to say, my man is still drinkin', and he's still out sick a couple days a week, and lookin pretty bleak the rest of the time.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:28 PM
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24. He drank but not excessively.
Both my mom and I wondered the same thing, but the docs say alcohol didn't cause it. He had a heart attack a couple of years ago and was taking Lipitor because of it, But I don't know if drug interactions played any part.
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Mopar151 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:55 PM
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26. I'm no doctor
But in addition to "my man", I had an alky neighbor up home who hung himself because of the pain. But you are likely right, cuz' both those guys were "professionals".
FWIW, lots of folks have dicey liver or kidney function for years, and don't know - was he on any NSAIDS, especially strong ones?
Answers will help some, but, as you're findin' out, there ain't no gettin' over, there's just livin' with. I lost my Dad to mestastized lung cancer 10 years ago - long after he quit smoking. Sad, sad day.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 10:13 PM
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30. Nope, no non-steroid inflammatory drugs.
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shanti Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 10:44 PM
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34. you may be onto something
NSAID's seem to be causing so many problems...i have digestive problems, which have gotten much worse all of a sudden, and have taken motrin for back/ortho problems for several years. also take Rx prevacid for GERD and was dx'd as borderline diabetic. i'm wondering if the motrin has exacerbated these symptoms. their use has exploded over the years because they work.
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Mopar151 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 08:49 AM
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43. Tylenol is a problem too
All the ad's tout it as safe, but read the label - overdoses, or use in conjunction with alcohol can kill your liver. And they put it in a bunch of OTC cold remedies 'n stuff, with very minimal labeling....
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 11:44 AM
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48. TYLENOL!?! That's scary!
:scared:
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:06 PM
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20. Sad news Odin.
May he rest in peace.
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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:07 PM
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21. Odin2005 my condolences to you and your family!
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triguy46 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:20 PM
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22. Woh. So sorry.
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latebloomer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:28 PM
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23. I'm so sorry
He was way too young.

Peace to you and the family.
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S n o w b a l l Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:29 PM
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25. I'm so sorry, Odin
Wow, way too young and my heart & prayers go out to you and your family.

:hug:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:56 PM
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27. I am so very, very sorry *hugs*
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jellen Donating Member (300 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:58 PM
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28. So sorry
Its so sad when someone dies. I imagine you're quite young. I hope you have family to lean on at this time.
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 09:59 PM
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29. I'm so sorry . I wish peace and strength for you and yours, Odin.
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 10:15 PM
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31. Odin....my stepdad died a year ago May 21st.
So I know how it feels.
He was also very young, in his early 50's.
:(
:hug:
Hang in there.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 10:19 PM
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32. i am so very sorry
my thoughts are with you and all those who love him
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 10:43 PM
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33. My sincere condolences, Odin.
:hug:

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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 10:45 PM
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35. Oh that is so young. What a shock. Vibes to you & yours.
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shanti Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 10:46 PM
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36. i'm sorry
:hug:
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 11:55 PM
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37. So sorry
:hug:

My thoughts are with you.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 12:05 AM
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38. My deepest condolences.
So very young.
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handmade34 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 12:19 AM
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39. So sorry!
...mine too, a few months ago, out of the blue. Hug your Mom.
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 12:36 AM
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40. I'm sorry for your loss Odin
:hug:

May he rest in peace.

aA
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Dystopian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 06:12 AM
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41. Heartfelt condolences...
Odin..So sorry for your loss...
May you and your family find peace of mind...this is very sad.


peace~
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 08:30 AM
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42. Damn, that is so sad.
Sorry to hear that, Odin2005.
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Mopar151 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 08:56 AM
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44. And my condolences
To you, Mom:hug: , and your family. Stick together, and be strong!
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 09:08 AM
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45. I don't know what to say
Other to say how truly sorry I am and that my deepest, sincerest and most heartfelt thoughts, prayers, condolences and sympathies go out to you and your family and friends:hug: :hug: I'm so, so sorry
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 09:09 AM
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46. I'm so sorry Odin.
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 09:37 AM
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47. I'm sorry to hear this.
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 11:55 AM
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49. I'm so sorry, Odin.
:(

:hug::hug::hug:

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SalmonChantedEvening Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 01:23 PM
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50. Vibes and love Odin
:hug: :hug: :loveya: :hug: :hug:
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 02:32 PM
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51. Safe passage to your stepfather.
Might he be free from suffering. Peace and comfort to you and yours.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-30-09 02:53 PM
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52. Thanks everybody!
:grouphug:
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:34 PM
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53. Learned that the funeral is on Tuesday. Will be staying with my mom this week.
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:35 PM
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54. Shit. You'll only lose him once, so you don't have to be good at it. nt
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