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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-04-09 02:49 AM
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I have a stalker.
One who is a HUGE liar, making up lies about me. :grr:
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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-04-09 08:27 AM
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1. Here, or in RL? nt
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-04-09 11:35 PM
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3. Both.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-06-09 02:03 AM
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13. You might want to alert the mods so they can take care of it.
Let them know your suspicions in a short private message and back it up with links if possible. That way they will be aware and can at least look out on here.
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snooper2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-04-09 11:10 AM
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2. Every lie has a little bit of truth to it
:rofl:
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vadawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-05-09 08:12 AM
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5. rofl, no smoke without a fire and all that
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SoxFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-05-09 08:02 AM
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4. Want mine? I'll trade ya!
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-05-09 08:55 AM
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6. I love my stalker!
:bounce:

Sorry about yours, though. That sucks.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-05-09 10:13 AM
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7. I have a stalker who sends me unsolicited PMs at all hours.
Whoever it is seems to know all the threads I've posted in, and makes all kinds of off-the-wall comments. :scared:
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-05-09 11:04 PM
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9. Mine is nearly as bad.
He or she posts my stuff here, claiming I alter his or her posts.
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-06-09 01:56 AM
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11. How about blocking PMs from that one?
How about putting on ignore, in all 3 ways?
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-05-09 10:15 AM
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8. I'm sorry. I had one IRL and it was no fun at all.
Hope you can rectify it.

If it's here? Alert.

:hug:

(Oh, it's not me, right?)
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RandomThoughts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-06-09 01:55 AM
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10. I have had three of my recent post make it onto a certain news show
Edited on Sat Jun-06-09 01:56 AM by RandomThoughts
But in an odd way that does not seem flattering, since they were changed just a bit, and associated with bad form.

But their choice of music, seems opposite of my favorite songs, and that explained the reason they were doing it.

So I understand how it feels, but I think it is best to just ignore it.

Don't let it get you upset. Things like that happen, and work out for the best in the end.

I usually just treat it as a muzzle flash. That seems to work best for me.

:shrug:

Edit: most associations I see on TV, with my posts, or others post here, seems to be same thought on a subject, but the correlation on one show shows a pattern.
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Drunken Irishman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-06-09 01:56 AM
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12. I'm THAT obvious?
:P
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mtnester Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-06-09 07:50 AM
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14. Meh, Mine is about to get out of prison, I have a CCW, and am ready
for when (not if) WHEN he comes for me. He has stalked me from prison (not jail...PRISON)

He has:

1. Shot, execution style, an old man (he was a minor, with an adult, he got the reduced sentence, we all were certain he was the shooter, even at age 14 we all knew he was "not right")

2. When he was released from prison for the above mentioned offense, he committed a strong arm/armed robbery of a convenience store within hours of his release

While back in prison for previous robbery, he started corresponding with some woman who pen pals with prisoners (I do not get this at all, but whatever) He had this girl so buffaloed that he was going to marry her, blah blah etc, that he wanted to show her that he was a fine upstanding person (this from a man who is already in a maximum security prison) So ANYWAY, he gave her MY name (we went to high school together, I maybe smoked a bit of weed with him along with his group of friends now and then) But it had been 20 years since high school.....

So this woman found me, sent me correspondence asking for me to reference him, etc. I flipped out. I went to the police, spoke to them about it, and got a reference to corrections. Both institutions confirmed it was best to simply ignore the request, which I did. I thought all this was over....so then......

3. When he was released for the robbery, this woman picked him up, and within the week, he raped her, robbed her and nearly killed her. He was caught, and his plea was felonious assault and aggravated robbery. On this one, he had to serve every day of his sentence, due to his record.

This man, who has lost both his parents to death while he was incarcerated, has no other family, and has spent all but about 10 days in prison since he was 16, is about to be released with no parole supervision. He knows no one on the outside except any prison mates that had been released, and my guess is he is probably a member af Aryan Nation now, hard core, in order to have survived. I am the only person of any means he knows, and he knows my name. In this day of the internet, with classmates.com, FB, etc, I am easy to find if you knew my name (and he did when his previous "girlfriend" found me, so he knows my marred, not maiden, name)

There have recently been some weird inquiries in places that indicate someone is trying to find me, and I believe he has someone who has been released who has not only found my home address, but also where I work. I have a report filed for this through my local police, as well as corrections. They can do NOTHING to stop this...which of course I knew.

So when he comes for me, and he will (who else is he going to rob?) I will be ready. I pray everyday that he gets out and robs a store before he gets here, gets caught or killed. I am not his original victim, so corrections cannot even notify me the day he is released, so I check their website every day..because it could be any minute. His original victim (yeah, I have done my own sleuthing to keep myself safe) is far, far away in another state with another name, so he won't find her. Hopefully, our brand new stupid money alarm system will give me 5 seconds notice, or I am alert enough to see him hiding behind a bush when I am ......(pick anywhere)

Will he come for me to rob? Probably. Could he still be pissed because I would not "recommend" him as a good guy? Possibly. Will he kill me if he gets a chance? Yes...he is facing 3 strikes for his next felony...probably a better bet for him to kill me, he has a better chance of not getting caught and FINALLY getting that "real" life sentence.

Meh again. Pray for me to have the nerve and steady hand to shoot this man if he gets anywhere near me with anything that looks like a weapon. Otherwise, pray the mace stops him.
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-07-09 12:05 AM
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17. That's horrible....
Just horrible. I am so sorry this is happening to you, but we can't protect ourselves from crazies. I had a stalker, but nothing as nightmarish as yours.

Shoot him. Kill him. Don't think twice about it. I trust you've had experience with the gun.

Do whatever you have to do, but, man, that you have to live with this kind of anxiety and fear is just wrong, wrong, wrong.

And there's nothing anyone can do about it. That's the nightmare.

I'll be holding a good wish for you.............................
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-06-09 10:20 PM
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15. My stalker is getting worse.
Edited on Sat Jun-06-09 10:22 PM by Archae
The only reason he hasn't "visited" here is because he lives in the deep south, while I live in Wisconsin.
Oh, and anyone who is critical of my stalker, my stalker runs to his lawyer.

But...

First, he calls me "Archie."
Even though he knows I'm called "Archae."

Second, he has totally ducked up my gender.
He calls me a girl, even though it's obvious I'm a guy.



(I'm the guy on the left.)

He's a die-hard right-winger, who makes up total shit about anyone who *HE* doesn't like, most notably democrats.
He describes Michelle Obama as a ugly bitch with a really big ass.

And he wonders why his party is going down the sewer?
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-06-09 11:53 PM
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16. Is it whoisalhedges? I bet its whoisalhedges
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