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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 12:57 AM
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If you have to ask if it's ok to use "Bitch" to refer to women because Tina Fey did...
then that skit went right over your head.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:00 AM
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1. Consider the audience, Maddy.
:shrug:
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:01 AM
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2. I'm just sitting here giggling at the people who are saying...
Edited on Sun Feb-24-08 01:02 AM by Maddy McCall
"Cool! Now we can openly call women and Hillary Clinton bitches because Tina Fey did."

So much stupidity in here tonight. I swear.

:rofl:
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:31 AM
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24. Amen.
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samdogmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:37 AM
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26. Okay, I've read through this entire thread thus far and I don't get it!!!!
I think the term "bitch" is derogatory--no matter what.

I know you've fought against many sexist statements that you thought were made against Ms. Clinton--so tell me again, WHY IS THIS OKAY in your mind?

I'm truly lost here.

Is it okay for a laudatory MSM program to equate Hillary and "bitch" in a friendly, back-slapping, joshing way--but not okay for others in regular life--who may be joshing too????

What gives?
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 02:39 AM
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31. Did you see the skit?
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samdogmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 11:25 AM
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34. Yes--again I think you find this an acceptable use of the derogatory term
because the two comedians appear to be endorsing Hillary. It's still a put down. The skit was humorous but I think you've got a double standard going on here: If you're for Hillary you can call her a "bitch", if you don't support her you can't.
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:01 AM
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3. If the shoe Fits. I've called many-a-Man a "Son-of-a-bitch" and
..a Bastard.

(Although I know of no Bastards or Bitches on DU)
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:02 AM
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4. Well, that's nice to know.
Thanks for sharing.
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:08 AM
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12. Women who are Nasty, Rude, Inconsiderate of others.......
....dersrve no Protocal of Niceness in actions or speech..

It's almost Fun to piss them off by calling them names...
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:19 AM
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19. That's nice to know. Hope it makes you happy.
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:22 AM
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21. Not really...Just stickin' my opinion in....
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:03 AM
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5. This was a stroke of genius
Wonder whether it will be on YouTube.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:04 AM
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9. I don't know...looking forward to seeing it again.
:)
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DDQ Donating Member (78 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 07:46 AM
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33. I totally agree. It was brilliant.....and I want to see it again
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:03 AM
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6. Who is Tina Fey?
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:07 AM
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11. Used to be head writer of SNL. Now has her own sitcom.
30 Rock.

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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:09 AM
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15. I know. I was just being a pain.
She's very funny, and pretty much the only reason to even watch SNL. Well, Amy Poehler is better, but they waste her talents to the point of being criminal.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:11 AM
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16. Oops... sorry!
I LOVE Amy Poehler. I agree with you that she's a wasted talent on that show.

She killed me on the "Rock of Love" skit, though. :rofl:
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:21 AM
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20. No apologies needed.
Ever see The Upright Citizens Brigade? She is beyond phenomenal in that series, and it's the best sketch comedy I've seen from America in decades. She is sooooo talented when it comes to characters, and pretty much all she does on SNL is the news which, let's face it, even Dennis Miller was good at. She is so wasted on the show. :(

There's a skit in UCB where she plays an ex hooker applying for a job at a coffee shop that is beyond funny. Her resume is great! UCB is Kids In The Hall on steroids, and I don't say that lightly as KitH is a great show, imo anyways.

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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:25 AM
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23. I will check this out!
Thanks for recommending it.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:40 AM
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27. It takes more than one viewing to get into it.
But if you give it a couple of episodes you'll see how they tie everything together, and the running gags are great. Amy is excellent, but all four people involved are really good, especially Matt Besser. If you like Amy now you'll really appreciate how talented she is after watching this though.

Here's a couple clips top get you started on UCB, the best American show in a long time.

Fortune Cookie

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6swyTknZfo

Ass Pennies

("So, then you've got the upper hand!")

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YT7UyPuwlbI
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busymom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:03 AM
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7. They say bitch like it's a bad thing...
Edited on Sun Feb-24-08 01:04 AM by busymom
:)


Go Hillary!

Oh, ooops, this must be one of my supportive threads...I'll hit submit anyway, Maddy even though you have chosen to frame me in a negative light.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:08 AM
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13. We're cool.
:hi:
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busymom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 12:01 PM
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38. :)
Thanks.
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angie_love Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:04 AM
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8. Women own the word "bitch" just as blacks own the "n" word. Its not ok for others to say it but us.
FYI, i'm a woman and found her joke funny. I'm also an Obama supporter.
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busymom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:05 AM
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10. I think it's also a spin-off of the book,
Bitter is the New Black...which is a fabulous read, btw. And by black, they're talking about the little black dress and not something racially motivated, which (surprise) has been hinted at tonight as well.
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angie_love Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:13 AM
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17. I know what she meant. I just meant that bitch an "n" word are kind of the same in that black ppl
took back the "n" word and woman took back "bitch". I knew she was talking comparing to "little black dress".

"which (surprise) has been hinted at tonight as well.". I wasn't trying to be sarcastic with my post and I hope you're not trying to be sarcastic with me. I defended Tiny Feys use of "bitch".
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TheDonkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 08:11 PM
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46. bitch is not the same as the n word so stop trying to play that game
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:19 AM
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18. Sorry....Women have no right to "Own" any Word. You may be offended by it...
...and ask others not to use it...but that's as far as it needs to go...
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Der Blaue Engel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 02:02 AM
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30. Wrong. We own it. Get over it.
:P
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 04:47 PM
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44. Oh...Yeah ....Miss Smarty Pants.....You women can have (that Word) but...
...we Men get the word "Chocolate" Ha!

Hello from a former Californian... (Pacifica)
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Der Blaue Engel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 08:09 PM
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45. I used to live in Pacifica
and that's Ms. Smarty Pants to you. :hi:
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 09:54 PM
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50. Who Knows....I may have passed you in an aisle at Safeway.
...or the Chevron station (on highway 1 )

:) :) :) :)
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 08:29 PM
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47. I'll call YOU a a bitch if you don't give me some of the chocolate.
:evilgrin:
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 09:51 PM
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49. Sure...No Problem
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wndycty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 11:27 AM
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35. I absolutely agree
:kick:
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:09 AM
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14. Or maybe I just like teasing DU
I liked the skit. :)
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Johnny__Motown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:23 AM
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22. I would hope that people know the difference between a comedy routine and the rest of reality
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napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:31 AM
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As an old lady, I've proudly declared "I was a bitch" many times!
To me it means being tough, a hard ass, and holding your own in a fight! I think it's a good title when it fits!
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napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:31 AM
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25. Delet a dupe. Sorry.
Edited on Sun Feb-24-08 01:33 AM by napi21
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Beacool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:53 AM
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28. Yep, but then what do you expect from posters
Edited on Sun Feb-24-08 01:53 AM by Beacool
who are probably either in high school or barely out of it? The amount of ridiculous posts today is enough to make an adult shake one's head in wonderment. Supposedly, Hillary is hysterical, bipolar, needs a Midol or a good fu..ing, take your pick.


:crazy:
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 02:00 AM
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29. I know. I've seen them all here.
Disgusting. Should not be tolerated by DUers OR the admins. In fact, the rules expressly forbid it.

:shrug:
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DDQ Donating Member (78 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 07:40 AM
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32. I thought Tina Fey was brilliant on Saturday Night Live tonight
and I hope to watch it again.

Go Hillary!!!!!!
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Cameron27 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 11:30 AM
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36. Oh dear,
you might shattered their little egos, Maddy.

That sketch was awesome! It's about time someone took on the BS.
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mrreowwr_kittty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 11:33 AM
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37. I'd like to know why Tina's offensive comments about older women, Kirstie Alley's weight, etc.
Went over all your heads. Fey says one thing (using an offensive term no less) that sounded slightly pro-Hillary and you all are over the moon about it. Some of y'all need Feminism 101 if you think that sketch was empowering you.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 12:49 PM
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39. Considering my MA is in feminist history....
I feel pretty secure in my judgment on this.
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mrreowwr_kittty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 01:51 PM
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40. Really?
I had no idea they were teaching that mocking women for their weight and age was acceptable.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 02:00 PM
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41. Well, obviously you've never had a logic 101 class...
or you'd realize that you're creating red herrings.
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mrreowwr_kittty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 02:11 PM
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42. And you're cherry picking
Choosing to see what you wanted to in Fey's sketch and ignoring the rest.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 02:22 PM
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43. Not at all. The btich skit was especially relevant to the DU context last night.
Not cherry picking at all.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 08:32 PM
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48. I didn't see the skit, but I may be guilty of using the word,
in a joking friendly way with a male friend of mine. We both do it and it's not meant in any way sexist when we do it. There is a way that's sexist as hell and I don't like it when people do it that way. I guess it's all context. That's just how I see it. I wouldn't call you a bitch though. :hug:
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