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MannyGoldstein Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:07 PM
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Should My Baby Die? Or Should I Sleep On The Streets? (Why I'm Pulling For Obama.)
This afternoon my 8-year old boy put his hand through a window. He was lucky as heck - only some minor cuts, but it worried ny wife enough that she took him to the local emergency room in Boston.

After I got home from work, I joined them at the hospital. By this point wife and son were in an exam room. Here's what was going on in the other side of the room, from which we were separated by a curtain:

There was a mother and her baby. The baby was ill - apparently very ill. The staff were telling the mother that the baby needed to go to Children's Hospital ASAP. The mother didn't want to do that, because she'd lose her place at the homeless shelter. The poor woman had to choose - her baby or a warm place to sleep. She didn't want to sleep on the street tonight. The doc wouldn't let her leave unless it was to go to Children's Hospital - he was going to call Social Services if necessary. (There was no question of whether they'd get medical care - as far as I can see, hospitals here treat first then ask questions later.)

I suppose that when one is looking at sleeping on the street, it's easy to wonder if the doctor isn't being a little alarmist. I get get out of joint when my toilet's clogged and I have to wait for a plumber: I cannot fathom living a life on the street, and having to make awful decisions about having a bed or saving my baby.

What happened to my country? How did we get to this?

The standoff went on for the best part of an hour before the hospital staff finally convinced the poor woman that she could come back there to sleep tonight if she needed to - they'd give her a place to sleep in the hospital. Since eastern Massachusetts hospitals tend to be staffed with good, good people, I expect that they were telling her the truth.

I'm sure that we all feel awful for the plight of this woman and her child. But what to do to change it?

Over the past 20 years, the plight of the homeless has only gotten worse. The Poor have gotten poorer, and the Rich have gotten richer. I'm tired, so tired, of politicians who've claimed before election time that they're all for change, but immediately upon winning office rush to suckle at the teat of the Predator Class.

The Clintons had their chance. They blew it. We lost Congress to the Republicans as soon as the Clintons had control, and didn't get Congress back until Dr. Dean finally took the DNC reigns from away from them. The Rich became fantastically rich, while the middle class and "working poor" (a term that I think was invented during the Clinton era) saw their jobs sent to other countries through "free trade" and "most favored nation" treaties - all in exchange for cash contributions. At this point, the Clintons have sucked hundreds of millions from the collective teats of the Predator Class - and, like mobsters practicing Omerta on the witness stand, they steadfastly refuse to release the names of those who gave them the cash.

We need change. We need change. And change only comes through change. Change does not come from more of the same.

I'm not convinced that Obama will be a great president, but he might be. Obama is honest (as far as I can tell), and he seems to only promise that which is reasonably do-able given political and other realities. Instead of delighting in the politics of personal destruction, Obama seems to genuinely want to pull us all together - America's strength has always come from our pulling together as a team, even when we don't agree on all things. When Clinton was on the board of Wal-Mart keeping silent as Sam and company battled any flicker of union activity, Obama was organizing in the streets of Chicago.

The sad scene I witnessed tonight has served to renew my commitment to change. If we don't change, I fear that we will soon perish. If we do change, we have a chance to take back America for The People. I hope that we give it a chance. It may be our last chance.
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:11 PM
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1. K and R for your thought provoking post k and R
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C_U_L8R Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:13 PM
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2. Heartbreaking and powerful words. Thank you Manny.
I believe, like you, that Barack Obama is a good man, an honest man, a hard working man and an inspiring leader.
And I hope too, that he will be a great President.
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uponit7771 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:14 PM
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3. I don't understand them supporting her secrecy
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QC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:15 PM
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4. This is very moving. In my darker moments, I think that
there will be no change until lots of comfortable middle-class people find themselves in the position of the poor, fearing for their own children and wondering if they will have a place to live at the end of the month.

I hope it doesn't take that, but we might get to find out soon.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-18-08 04:21 AM
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17. We have arrived... again. Think Reagan and BC! n/t
Edited on Tue Mar-18-08 04:22 AM by Breeze54
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Bonobo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:18 PM
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5. Reverend Wright, why do you hate America?
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Noirceuil Donating Member (153 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:25 PM
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6. Well....
Considering the fact that Obama has no credentials, no experience, no economic policy, no foreign policy, a mediocre health plan, and a limited understanding of how the federal bureaucracy operates, I think your faith in him is misplaced. That being said, I’m glad your son is OK.
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-18-08 04:08 AM
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14. Give It A Rest Batman.
Thanks for playing. We aren't interested. Go shit in another sand box. Have a blessed day. :hi:
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-18-08 04:21 AM
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16. Hey? It wasn't HER son. Can you read?
:silly:
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Voice for Peace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:36 PM
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7. Excellent post, thank you.
"We need change. We need change. And change only comes through change. Change does not come from more of the same.
"

big K&R
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Scurrilous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 11:03 PM
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8. Good post.
K & R :thumbsup:
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 11:06 PM
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9. I miss John Edwards
That woman and her child were exactly the people he would have fought for if we had the good sense to have sent him to the White House.

I'm very glad your son is OK.
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 11:10 PM
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10. "God _____ America!"
After all, isn't that what makes a nation what it is?

:eyes:
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eridani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-18-08 03:22 AM
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11. What kind of president Obama will be depends on us
How hard do we push from the bottom for things that matter? Of course, Obama is bringing a lot of new people into the process, and if us hard-core policy wonks can get them to stick around, we might have a real chance of doing that.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-18-08 03:23 AM
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12. K & R
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better tomorrow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-18-08 03:59 AM
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13. thought provoking post but I wonder.....
what happened to Ronald McDonald houses for the woman on the street? Where were the social workers to tell the mother that and help her with a stay at one? I hope the baby survived and that your son is ok. Give him a special hug tonight and then take him to a homeless shelter tomorrow with some soup for the babies.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-18-08 04:18 AM
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15. Parents are allowed to stay in a child's room in the east coast hospitals and
Edited on Tue Mar-18-08 04:19 AM by Breeze54
"what happened to Ronald McDonald houses for the woman on the street?"

Ronald McDonald houses are for parents of extremely sick children.

Not for a one nighter.

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