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Edited on Thu Feb-15-07 01:11 PM by Jagger69
After years of being a practicing Christian (Episcopal), I recently stopped attending church. I have discovered that the church exists NOT to help others as it advertises, but instead to help itself as a self-fulfilling entity. I recall our priest ranting from the pulpit on his annual stewardship drive about how important it was for us to give a significant portion of our money to God. What rubbish! We're not giving our money to God....we're giving it to the church!!
I had been involved in many aspects of the church at one time. I had been an usher for years and my wife and I helped conduct the Children's Choir. We participated in church fundraisers and functions whenever we could. We gave a donation of several thousand dollars to make improvements to the church itself and gave money ostensibly to aid hurricane victims in Honduras, famine victims in Africa and abused children here in Texas.
However, about a year and a half ago my 6-year old grandson was stricken with cancer and, after a brave and courageous battle, he passed away in December, the week before Christmas. There was general knowledge of what was happening to him at our church and from time to time I was told that he was being prayed for, etc. Unbelievably, when he died, NO ONE from the church extended any outreach to us. I was stunned, hurt and, most of all, enlightened.
I used to sit in church and look around me at all those hypocrites mouthing words to prayers that had no substance and psalms that were downright idiotic. Have you ever read and thought about what the message is in some of the psalms? They are preposterous for the most part! Yet here these people would sit, week after week, reciting the same tired drivel that represents the bulk of the Old Testament in a dull and monotonous unison that would literally put you to sleep. Did any of these people ever stop and think about the banality of what they were uttering? Is this what they truly believed??
My wife and I attended a Cursillo (a religious retreat for married couples to strengthen their faith and their marriage) a couple of years ago and we held some rotational round-table discussions about various subjects regarding interpretation of scripture. There was an Episcopal priest who moderated discussion at each table. Now, I have always been puzzled why the God of the Old Testament is depicted as being a jealous, demanding and punishing God and the God of the New Testament is portrayed as a loving, compassionate and forgiving God. It made no sense to me so I asked the priest who was moderating the table at which we were sitting to explain this to me. His answer made my jaw drop. He told me, "I believe that, over time and with God's decision to deliver Jesus to us, He simply changed His mind about how He should approach mankind". Huh? God CHANGED HIS MIND???? You've got to be kidding!! And to think that this was actually an ordained priest who uttered this nonsense to me!!
After the death of my grandson, I began questioning my own faith, I asked myself "Do you truly believe the words of the Nicene Creed? Do you truly believe in the Holy Trinity and in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?". After some serious soul searching, the honest answer began to make itself evident to me. It was not so much that I didn't believe as much as it was that I just didn't know. I had doubts. Is there a God? I'd like to think so but, hell, who knows for sure? Where in the Bible does Jesus ever tell us that we need to worship him as an incarnation of God? Where does it say that we have to believe in him as our only Lord and Savior if we are to find redemption? I can't find anywhere where he makes those statements. And the Holy Ghost? I never really got the gist of what that was supposed to be. Hell, when I was a kid I remember that I used to be afraid that the Holy Ghost might suddenly just show up in my bedroom some night while I was sleeping and scare the living shit out of me! LOL
The truth is, I don't know what I believe. I am a science buff so I like things that can be scientifically proven to be factual. There is none of that with any religion that I know of. Blind faith is the basis for all religious philosophies and that's a trait I find hard to acquire and accept. Every time I try to convince myself to be that way, a little voice in the back of my head asks, "Where's the proof?". There is none.
I want to believe in a supreme being, a master plan, God or whatever you want to call it. I want to believe that this God made me what I am and gave me the gift of free will and, as such, would never judge or punish me for exercising that will. I want to believe that God loves me and loves all of us and wants us to be happy and to love each other. I want to believe in the wonderful and revolutionary teachings of Jesus pertaining to God and what God wants from us. I want to believe that I can be a good and caring individual and not be condemned to Hell just because I don't subscribe to organized religion or am accepting of Jesus Christ as my only Lord and Savior. I want to believe in everlasting life and that there is a better place for us beyond our existence here on Earth.
These are the things I want to believe. Until I do, or even if I do, I have lost my religion. My quest to find it again continues.
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