especially the Tibetans, Logong 7 step mind training.
i had a Tibetan teacher for 5 years, it was fascinating, but it is best to actually get a meditation teacher rather waste tour time on a haphazard sys ten and get a lot of bad habits, or get messed up with a religion.
its all about training the mind, establishing control over brain wave frequencies, it restructures the brain the way it was meant to work.. i taught meditation in prisons, they got paroled really quickly, really dangerous inmates changed into the most helpful, compassionate people i have seen, they changed from predators to protectors.
check out Pema Chodron, 'when things fall apart', 'dont bite the hook''start where you are'
http://www.amazon.com/s/qid=1239511001/ref=sr_pg_2?ie=UTF8&rs=&keywords=pema%20chodron%20books&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Apema%20chodron%20books&page=2and jack kornfield, got a lot of his meditation tapes
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=+jack+kornfield&x=12&y=14sharon salzeberg
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=+sharon+salzberg&x=13&y=21Dali Lama
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=+Dali+Lama&x=15&y=22rob narin, the best meditation book
http://www.amazon.com/Diamond-Mind-Psychology-Rob-Nairn/dp/1570627630/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1239511507&sr=8-2any teacher or method that tells you to bland out/empty the mind, resist thoughts.. should be avoided, all you do is watch your breath with about 20% of consciousness, the thoughts arise like waves from the sea, you name them "thinking" like touching a soap bubble with a feather, gently bouncing it without breaking it... the wave breaks on the beach and it is gone.. then it will happen again, with practice the thoughts will lose their emotional engines and you will see them for what they are, attempts to draw you into the past or the future.. meditation trains you to stay in the moment.. to stay awake in the now. it takes a while.. 10 minutes at a time the first 30 days.. longer after that. mornings are goo times to meditate before you get tired. fairly quickly one starts disassociating emotions from thoughts, the middle path becomes visible
nice cd, very helpful
http://www.dharmacrafts.com/105xBS/2050CD/end-chime-for-meditation-cd.htmlNo more watching the clock! This CD offers selectable silence up to 70 minutes. Then a low pitched Tibetan singing bowl is struck three times to signal the end of a silent meditation period. You can select the desired length of silence by selecting one of the eleven tracks. A bestseller!
Lengths of Silence:
Track 1 — 70 minutes
Track 2 — 60 minutes
Track 3 — 50 minutes
Track 4 — 45 minutes
Track 5 — 40 minutes
Track 6 — 30 minutes
Track 7 — 25 minutes
Track 8 — 20 minutes
Track 9 — 15 minutes
Track 10 — 10 minutes
Track 11 — bowl strike