http://www.leaderu.com/ftissues/ft9804/articles/swope.htmlFirst Things
Abortion:
A Failure to Communicate
Paul Swope
Copyright (c) 1998 First Things 82 (April 1998): 31-35.
For twenty-five years the pro-life movement has stood up to defend perhaps the most crucial principle in any civilized society, namely, the sanctity and value of every human life. However, neither the profundity and scale of the cause, nor the integrity of those who work to support it, necessarily translates into effective action. Recent research on the psychology of pro-choice women offers insight into why the pro-life movement has not been as effective as it might have been in persuading women to choose life; it also offers opportunities to improve dramatically the scope and influence of the pro-life message, particularly among women of childbearing age.
This research suggests that modern American women of childbearing age do not view the abortion issue within the same moral framework as those of us who are pro-life activists. Our message is not being well-received by this audience because we have made the error of assuming that women, especially those facing the trauma of an unplanned pregnancy, will respond to principles we see as self-evident within our own moral framework, and we have presented our arguments accordingly. This is a miscalculation that has fatally handicapped the pro-life cause. While we may not agree with how women currently evaluate this issue, the importance of our mission and the imperative to be effective demand that we listen, that we understand, and that we respond to the actual concerns of women who are most likely to choose abortion.
The importance of a new approach became clear from the results of sophisticated research pioneered by the Caring Foundation, a group that presents the pro-life message to the public via television. This group has been able to tap into some of the most advanced psychological research available today, so-called "right brain" research. (The distinction between "right brain" and "left brain" activity may be physiologically oversimplified or even wrong, but it remains useful as a shorthand description of different ways of thinking.)
The right side of the brain is thought to control the emotional, intuitive, creative aspect of the person. Whereas most research involves analytic, rational questions and thus draws responses primarily from the left side of the brain, "right brain" research aims to uncover the underlying emotional reasons why we make particular decisions or hold certain beliefs. Such an approach has obvious applications to an issue such as abortion, as a woman in the grips of a crisis pregnancy certainly does not resolve this issue in a cold, logical, "left-brain" manner.
(and it goes on at great length, and is very instructive)
As a firmly left-brain person, I find the whole appeal to the right-brain thing on public policy just icky, as a visceral reaction.
That said, my on-line conversion successes back in the 90s were of the right-brain type. Three I can think of specifically.
One was a woman who firmly believed that the pro-choice crowd didn't care about women. Then she observed me posting to a woman who had posted about her deep, desperate despair after having her fourth child, which she did not want and for which she felt no love or even interest. With everybody else telling her to get a grip and do her duty, I advised her to go back to her doctor, to keep going to any professional she could find until one took her concerns and problems seriously, that she was very probably suffering a severe post-partum depression and needed genuine help. The woman whom this swayed into serious consideration of the pro-choice side, and eventual conversion, was a doula and familiar with post partum depression, and no more impressed than I was by all the judgmental opinions the poster had been getting. I just opened a window for her out of the nasty little box that pro-choice people had always been confined to by the voices she listened to.
The second was a woman who "admitted", more privately, some time later that she had had an abortion in university and carried the guilt and self-hatred with her into the middle age she was approaching. An intelligent woman, a politically active woman: she was later a mole in an effort to unionize WalMart. But her experience and her representation of it - obviously, more the social representation of it than her own - had made her unable to stand up for women because she couldn't stand up for herself for making her choice.
And the third was a very young women, young beyond her years in fact, who was at university in the southeastern US and had only recently grown to accept the idea of evolution -- and only because the university instructor who forced her and her peers to study it had told them they didn't have to believe it, they just had to learn about it. She quarrelled with us forever, dredging up things like how nuns in Africa who had been sexually abused by priests and then forced to have abortions proved that abortion was evil. And then one day something said just pushed her button: that pregnancy can be dangerous to women in many ways. Her sister was a victim of spousal abuse, and she firmly believed that if her sister became pregnant again she would be at risk of serious harm. And from there, she adopted the harm reduction approach: it is worse to outlaw abortion than to permit it, because outlawing it can result in serious harm to women.
So ... the whole issue can exhibit different complexities in different people's minds.
What's the common thread, though? I mean, if you ask me.
Women are at the top of the pyramid of pro-choice concerns, and either they aren't, in the minds of the anti-choice, or in some instances the anti-choice don't understand that about the pro-choice.
I don't deal very well with anyone who puts fetuses, no matter what they call them, above women. So interestingly, I'm seeing that the women I described above weren't really in that camp: they came more from the concern-for-women angle.
That was the second wave of anti-choice activism, as described in the article I linked to above. "Abortion is murder" wasn't getting them anywhere, so "abortion hurts women" became the jingle. And the wave of "informed consent" laws and the like came from that well, poisoned as it is by the fact that their proponents don't actually give a shit about women at all -- they're just appealing to their audience's right brains.
I think it's important to know what you're dealing with, when you are actually dealing with "sincere" anti-choice types.
But I am very wary of this right-brain business as a strategy, since it really does smell like manipulation to me.