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eppur_se_muova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 05:45 PM
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Mothers' talk is key to kids' social skills, study says (CNN)
By Elizabeth Landau
CNN

(CNN) -- Mothers often get blamed for the way their children turn out, and a new study gives additional weight to that accusation.

Research from the United Kingdom shows that the way mothers talk to their children at a young age influences their social skills later in childhood.

The study, funded by the Economic and Social Research Council, found that children whose mothers often talked to them about people's feelings, beliefs, wants and intentions developed better social understanding than children whose mothers did not.

In the first part of the study, mothers were asked to talk to their 3-year-old children about a series of pictures depicting scenes such as a child coming out of school looking happy and people waiting in line. Children whose mothers talked about the mental state of characters in the picture tended to perform better on social understanding tasks, the researchers found.

The effect persisted when the researchers revisited the families -- 57 of them remained in the study until the end -- on an almost yearly basis. The authors controlled for socioeconomic status and IQ of the mothers and found that these factors were not as relevant.
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more: http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/05/15/mother.children.social.skills/index.html




"Blame"? How about "credit or blame"?
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John Q. Citizen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 05:53 PM
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1. And what about dads?
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 05:55 PM
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2. Not so much!
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John Q. Citizen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:08 PM
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4. Talk about leaving myself wide open...
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Xipe Totec Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:05 PM
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3. There's a reason why your native language is called the mother tongue n/t
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FirstLight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 07:34 PM
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5. Sorry, hate to say it but how many of these kids had moms that were single?
Edited on Sat May-16-09 07:36 PM by FirstLight
It makes a hell of a difference in how we communicate with our children...and how much patience and effort we have to give...

I try to do my best with my kids and talk about feelings and respect and I also say I am sorry for getting upset and frustrated at times...
That said: today I was really over it and let my kids "have it" verbally just to get them to stop being so freaking exhausting. I wanted to scream at the top of my lungs ...and I did use some forceful references her & there. When my mom would lose it, it was a wake up call to be aware of how I was treating her...and also to give here some space.

it pisses me off that these studies come out and it just makes me feel guilty for being so upset and unable to cope today :(
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