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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:50 AM Original message |
OK, I've just been informed by a number of posters, that "pansy" |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
1. Oh Geeze, do we have to rehash this tired old shit that only serves to divide us. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 03:38 PM Response to Reply #1 |
73. whachyu mean "us" |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
2. Did you ask them to define it for you? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:56 AM Response to Reply #2 |
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liberal N proud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
3. I don't know, when I there was a kid was nicknamed pansy |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:58 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. The kid called "Pansy" didnt like it |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
4. Unlike Some Similar Terms, I Always Took Pansy to Mean |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #4 |
11. I would add weak willed or easily dominated as one of the definitions. |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:17 AM Response to Reply #11 |
20. Right, It Should Certainly be Avoided |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:23 AM Response to Reply #20 |
25. Like havocmom, I get itchy when people talk about what words are and aren't okay. |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:09 AM Response to Reply #4 |
15. There ARE many different understandings of the word, and the one you mention is common too |
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Sal Minella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #4 |
32. Yes, deferential and ineffectual. "Wallflower" would perhaps be the feminine noun. |
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dipsydoodle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 04:50 AM Response to Reply #32 |
104. Given that Pansy is actually a girls name |
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Sebastian Doyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
5. Well, Pansy Division doesn't think so |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 09:01 PM Response to Reply #5 |
87. Groovy Underwear is the Greatest Song Ever Written. |
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davidinalameda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 12:39 AM Response to Reply #5 |
103. you have any idea why they have the name Pansy Division? |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
7. It's always meant as an insult, but need not be used as a slur against gays. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
8. It is not a slur against gay people - |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:03 AM Response to Reply #8 |
12. What's funny, in a sad way - is that some feminine manners are nurturing but always |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #8 |
22. That's how I understood it while growing up. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
10. it is a slur towards gender deviant men. so trans men, effinate men and gay men |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:09 AM Response to Reply #10 |
16. But what's wrong with being feminine, per se? No wonder we get along so famously - |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:12 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. arent you the one puking about men in eyeliners 2 days ago? |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:24 AM Response to Reply #17 |
27. OMG! I apologized to you for that prejudice ... TWICE! You can't forgive, can you? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:35 AM Response to Reply #27 |
35. get over yourself. i dont hate you for your environment. i dont even hate you |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:40 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Of course you dislike me. You revel in the opportunity to slight. But that's OK. |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #37 |
77. "My mother taught me to value every human being and treat them with basic respect." |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:18 AM Response to Reply #16 |
21. What part of it's historically been used |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:26 AM Response to Reply #21 |
29. If you ever spent more than one day in an active duty military environment, that term is bantied |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:40 AM Response to Reply #29 |
38. in active military duty, one cant identify as gay either so really not the best example |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. But that's my point. There are GOOD People serving in the Active Duty military. When |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:47 AM Response to Reply #39 |
42. if they pretend the military way of rejecting gay people and the sensitivities of that community |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:55 AM Response to Reply #42 |
44. But it doesn't have to be "the military way." |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:58 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. you are the ONLY one who keeps bringing up the military. not me. quit using them |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:39 PM Response to Reply #47 |
60. Why? You just want them to "go away." Isn't it far beyond time that we help them to |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:18 PM Response to Reply #21 |
64. Cali, it is a very nasty slur, ifa little obsolete |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
13. Its a slur toward males who may be percieved as gay |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
14. I always used it instead of 'coward' or 'chicken'. That seems to play out in most thesaurus entries. |
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ProgressiveProfessor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
18. Context matters, though as an insult or derogatory comment, its not just limited to gays |
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step up (18 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
19. Who are these posters? Unless they are gay, their opinions mean zilch to me... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #19 |
23. pansy has been traditionally used as a slur or euphimism for gay men |
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step up (18 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:23 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. When I first read the OP, I associated the word for an effeminate |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:25 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. pussy is sexist. nt |
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step up (18 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:27 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Yeah, well..as a woman, I don't have major issues with it (and I dislike 'bitch') |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:30 AM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Sorry to rain on your parade but the term "pussy" is equal to "wuss" in the AD military. |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #23 |
34. My mom gardens a lot and she says we should re-take "pansy" as a word |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:37 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. that is adorable. i think pansy and pussy are ironic, in that people use it to mean weak |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #23 |
65. and don't believe otherwise |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
26. this is an interesting link |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #26 |
33. One and only one definition will be accepted? nt |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:45 AM Response to Reply #33 |
41. again, i dont expect YOU to behave in a way that is respectful towards |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:50 AM Response to Reply #41 |
43. But I do respect the groups you delineated and I know what it feels like to be a minority. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:57 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. i hate the way you obfuscate what i am talking about. i have never said a single word |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:02 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. "you don't like" could that equate to "you HATE?" |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:04 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. i am not being the word "police", you can say any sexist, homophobic thing you choose to |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:08 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. If you are going to "reject" every person who has said anything sexist, homophobic etc. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:16 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. you are not whole groups of people. nt |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:18 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. No, you ID'd the Military as not accepting of gays and to be dismissed. Or are you having |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:09 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. you kept bringing up the military as though it excuses your behavior or the words you use. my point |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:36 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. OMG! You are unreachable. |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #56 |
76. I'm not so sure of that! |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:48 PM Response to Reply #54 |
70. None of us are under any obligation to be "accepting" or "tolerant" |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:56 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. this is a really well written post and i am not stating it because we agree |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 03:07 PM Response to Reply #70 |
95. Great post. You should re-post this as an OP. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
40. It's a combo slur - two slurs in one! |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:56 AM Response to Reply #40 |
45. Yup. |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:00 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. R.I.P. George Carlin - you just may be better off in the afterlife. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 11:58 AM Response to Reply #40 |
48. well stated. nt |
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TEmperorHasNoClothes (356 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
51. why would you even post this- have you even known a slur to vanish? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. to clarify whether the usage is or is not homophobic. people have the right to ask or know |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Yes, it's too bad you could not positively WIN those of us who have used this word to "your view" |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:20 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. If you came to this discussion for "understanding and empathy." |
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ShortnFiery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:34 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. No, I don't like the fighting. I will choose not to use the word "pansy" personally from now on. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #59 |
75. no patience left |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #59 |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:31 PM Response to Reply #55 |
66. oh go away |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:42 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. are you unreachable, like me? |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. insulting is insuting |
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soothsayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
61. As a card carrying career lesbian, I find it gay to worry about stupid words |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:36 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. like using "gay" as a synonym for stupid? |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 02:18 PM Response to Reply #67 |
93. and I find it bitchy to use Gays in that context |
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queerart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 05:02 PM Response to Reply #61 |
79. Thank You For Saying It! |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:11 PM Response to Reply #79 |
89. does that mean you agree with her use of "it's Gay"? |
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queerart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 01:52 AM Response to Reply #89 |
91. Hummmmmmm........ |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 03:10 PM Response to Reply #61 |
96. Why didn't you just go all out and say "As a card carrying bull-dyke" |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
68. As a gay man I see the word as a slur and a sexist statement all in one - its offensive |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
74. It's a slur. nt |
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Two Americas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
80. hail, hail |
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galledgoblin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
81. environment/ignorace is a crappy excuse |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
82. It is no different than "fag" |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
83. Pansy, sissy, fruits and others are all standard insults referencing gay men. |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
84. It's a slur. When people use it they are using a slur. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
85. It's always entertaining to see a bunch of straight people flaming about |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
86. Here We Go Again With This Nonsense About WORDS |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 09:59 PM Response to Reply #86 |
88. So I can call you Fuck Face then? After all its just words! |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 06:36 PM Response to Reply #88 |
97. Feel Free |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 07:43 PM Response to Reply #97 |
98. I agree with all but two points... |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 11:09 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. Well... |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 12:02 AM Response to Reply #99 |
100. Could Huck Finn be written in the same manner today? |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 09:47 AM Response to Reply #100 |
106. There's No Question That the "N word" Is Historically Loaded |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 02:16 PM Response to Reply #106 |
107. There's No Question That the "F word" Is Historically Loaded |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 12:26 AM Response to Reply #107 |
108. You Lost Me When You Passed Judgement On How My Friends And I Relate To Each Other. |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #108 |
110. Pearls of Wisdom: "How Not To Be a D**che - A Public Service Announcement (1)" |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #110 |
113. Are You Trying To Say I Contradicted Myself? Sorry, I Don't See It. |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 07:19 PM Response to Reply #113 |
115. I have only one thing to say on this and then I am done. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 11:21 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. Your Apology is Accepted. Thank You. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #86 |
111. I'm going to guess that you have no clue what it was like to be gay 25 years ago. I doubt you were |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #111 |
112. I'm 45. I've Been Gay For 45 Years. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 05:16 PM Response to Reply #112 |
114. I didn't find the one post condescending, but rather the collection of responses from you. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 11:06 PM Response to Reply #114 |
116. "Words used with hateful intent DO hurt." |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 01:48 AM Response to Original message |
90. There are too many contexts for there to be any satisfying consensus |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
92. it's a slur -- and a sexual slur -- imho. |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 12:14 AM Response to Reply #92 |
101. It's a gay slur against effeminate men, when used in public. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 07:24 AM Response to Reply #101 |
105. indeed. nt |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
94. associated with "weak" more than gay |
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davidinalameda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-04-09 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
102. people on here say a lot of stupid crap |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-05-09 07:51 AM Response to Original message |
109. I think that any slur that attacks one for acting outside the confines of their gender roles |
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