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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 06:20 PM
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My partner and my 6th anniversary today. Onto year seven...
We're planning on spending our seven year itch with one another. Six years down and we've barely scratched the surface. It's also my first committed relationship and I'm almost 40. My motto is "No commitment until commitment." We suffer and struggle with each other, cherish and adore each other, enrich and expand each other. I think its funny when people say "given the choice wouldn't you be straight because its easier?" Now how in hell would it be easier if I gave up the love of my life? Most straight folks I know aren't as happy as we are.
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barbtries Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 06:25 PM
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1. mazeltov
here's to love! :toast:
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glowing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 06:25 PM
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2. The truth is I've started saying when I'm disgruntled at my hubby, "I wish I were
a lesbian, it would be easier"... men are just so different than women... I call it God's cruel joke to pair the most opposites together and make them function together. I'll be glad for the day when people will say good luck in any relationship because they are all hard and complicated and require work... the good and the bad.
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 06:41 PM
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4. Can't imagine it's easier, really. But I may get a little insight soon.
There is no script to follow, but no script to rebel against either. No one to get advice from. No social support really. I suppose I'll see if its easier being with another woman or with a man soon enough--my partner is going to transition within the month (begin testosterone treatments). I suppose it'll be a whole new journey.
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glowing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-23-09 09:11 AM
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10. Be careful with anything that may rub off onto you. If you start noticing
that you need to wax more or if you have any children that display aggression or a surge in adult growth. Testosterone can cause issues for those who are not intending to take it.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 06:28 PM
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3. Congrats, that's awesome!
Partnerships are treasures.

:toast:
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 06:57 PM
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5. Congrats! My 7th is coming up in a few weeks :) n/t
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DarthDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 07:04 PM
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6. Congratulations!

Hey, that's awesome. :-)
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 07:10 PM
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7. Congratulations and all the best to you both!
My partner and I are in our 24th year together; what a long, strange trip it's been, but worth every second!
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 07:42 PM
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8. A toast to you and yours
when you have found the love of your life, your time together is one of unfolding of love and understanding, May your years together continue in happiness.
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donco6 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-22-09 09:14 PM
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9. 13 years in August.
And he's still the greatest!

Congratulations!
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Zenlitened Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-23-09 02:04 PM
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11. Congratulations, and best wishes for many, many more!


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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-23-09 09:58 PM
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12. Best wishes
Edited on Sat May-23-09 10:01 PM by mitchtv
To you and partner, you have a long haul ahead
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bluedawg12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-24-09 01:00 AM
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13. Congratulations! Wishing you both much happiness. n/t
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-24-09 03:17 PM
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14. Very nice...
Best wishes to both of you.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-24-09 10:45 PM
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15. Congrats!!
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