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Edited on Wed Oct-18-06 02:06 PM by undergroundpanther
Was in my juvenile residential housing place,It was a school for troubled girls. I was there to escape my violent home.
Jodi was tall like I was ,she had a wild mane of curled flaming red hair,freckles everywhere on her porcelain skin,she wore these wispy skirts of gauze ,she dressed almost like a wench at a renfest,and she had really strong legs, she was so bouncy, athletic. She was as smart as I am,we could keep up with each other knowledge wise,and she was hilarious,artistic, and very colorful. We used to draw and write poetry together.She was the first person to refer to me as the Panther, she knew I adored cats,but looking back I suspect she knew even before I understood it, that I had a feline soul. So in reply I called her tiger( for her orange hair).
I did not understand why I felt the way I did about her back than,It did not compute..Why I thought she was so beautiful,inside and out .I never came out and TOLD her,what I thought, I was terrified to say what I felt for I didn't know how to even THINK it,I didn't DESERVE to think it, I didn't even think it was possible to fall in love with another so much like me....She was like a beautiful yet strong irish tigress,a sorceress and a gossamer winged fairy blowing bubbles when she laughed all at the same time.
I will never forget the dance.. The song "super-freak" was just out ,and she played it and she danced it with me specifically and she was holding me close,Closer than I thought we were allowed,for some reason I didn't care,and I taught her how to purr as we danced..and we made jokes about the staff who were watching us like hawks and I had no clue why. It felt so innocent,I was so afraid to understand her signal that she liked me that way.
I didn't understand myself at all back than.I had so many fragments,my life was like a cut up movie taped together at random with alot of blanks so it made no sense...Back than I was very different than I am now, I was so beaten down,confused,desperately alone and terrified,I wasn't out about my transgendered identity , my bisexuality or anything else to MYSELF. Yet when I look at the photos of myself back than,damn I was a dyke from hell, all punk,biker leather, spikes,black sabbath t shirt,a big men's ring,of a lion's head ,jeans and shit-kicker boots.. In my mind I was in full on disappear from the world mode,I had really long hair than . I wore it cousin it style, I was hiding behind it like a burka because I didn't trust anyone to know the shame that abuse had done to me, I thought it was my fault.I had internalized it.
But she knew what I didn't know, that I was not some monster,She would sometimes move my hair aside just to make sure I saw her smiling at me.Her expression was so tender I could not look directly into her sea green eyes lest I would cry.And I was NOT gonna cry in front of anyone, my walls were 100 feet thick and 100 feet tall around my heart..I was a walking fortress armed to the teeth with defenses...
But she got inside..Soon I began holding my own hair aside like a curtain for her only,because she earned my trust. I knew she would not hurt me for entertainment.
I had alot of symptoms, I was pretty messed up in the head at age 16.The "therapists" thought I would be locked up in the state mental hospital for the rest of my days.And that "prognosis" was to be false.
My arms were always bandaged up from my constant cutting,with anything sharp I could get my paws on, but she didn't care,about any of that, she saw past my scars and wounds and reached inside anyway not fearing any of the defenses or the broken shards of pain and fear that had been driven into my mind for so many years by so many assholes. I did not know what it was I was feeling inside about her,than but all I knew is..I wanted to be with her forever.
When I left the residential home, and was in the psych hospital knowing I would not see her again, I sat in the dark and cried for missing her, And 6 months later I got a note, from her, with her usual funny comments,..And I wrote her back,but I never got another note..I still have her letter to me...And I got 1 grainy black and white photo of us from a school trip to Kings dominion . It was taken by the camera on the log flume,as we crested the big drop shrieking clinging to each other half laughing..to be drenched a second later!
And I know it's crazy I still wish I could see her again,just to know if she is happy, to see her face and to tell her thank you for being so kind when no one else dared to,and that yeah, I loved you,You knew it, but I just didn't know how to say it back to you,and I was too scared to dare speak it's name..girlfreind...Jodi, I still miss you,tiger.
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